Christian Coaching and Christian Counseling

What is the difference between Christian Counseling and Christian Coaching?

The need for good Christian guidance has led to ministry based counseling with biblical foundations and morals. Christian Counseling is one such ministry that hopes to help others in need from a Christian perspective with Christian solutions. Another ministry is Christian Coaching.

Christian Coaching is an offspin of Christian Counseling. Counseling deals more with repairing and guiding in times of doubt while coaching is strengthening and helping one reach potential. In many ways, coaching coincides with mentorship or spiritual direction.
While many people look to live healthier lives and hope to organize everything via a health coach, Christian Coaching is more spiritual. As a Spiritual Director, the focus is on improving one’s spiritual life via prayer advice, spiritual exercises, and spiritual goal making.

Someone who is interested in Christian Coaching or Spiritual Direction should already be adept at Christian Counseling but also have a strong understanding of one’s faith and the relationship that will exist between the spiritual father and spiritual child. A Christian Coach should also be well versed in Moral Theology and Apologetics.
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Mark Moran, MA

Near Death Experiences and Christian Counseling

While far from a scientist but always a philosopher and theologian first, I would like to attempt to open dialogue and raise questions regarding the purpose of the brain and its relation to the body and the soul. I would also like to discuss issues of Near Death Experience as legitimate functions of the soul or merely physical reactions within the brain.  While this is not completely a discussion found in Christian Counseling Courses, it still nevertheless  an interesting theological subject relevant to Christian theology.
Secularists have attacked the nature of the soul, memory, and feelings as natural chemical reactions that can be interpreted as “abstract” but in reality exist within the material. Within the complex nature of the brain, emotions and memories arise but are merely an evolutionary adaptation from matter and nothing beyond the material. They further contend that the brain creates illusions of Near Death Experiences (NDEs) where the person actually believes his or her “soul” has left the confines of the body. The idea of depersonalization concerns the loss of emotion and the detached feelings people have upon the approach of death. This is why some explain why the person feels they are away from his or her body. The other element is hyperaltertness that deals with sharper hearing or vision and either dull or more vivid thoughts at the approach of death. Both these states help the person face dangerous situations. In times of crisis, if action is available, the natural defense mechanism is to act, however, according to secularists if no physical action is available the brain merely utilizes neural and spiritual imaging resources. In conclusion, the argument rests that the brain is merely a physical organ that via chemical processes can create altered states of consciousness and mimic spiritual existence beyond death.
Atheistic motivated psychology attempts to remove memory and abstract concepts as separate realities from the material world. It wants to divorce the idea that abstract ideals are beyond the physical and enforce a concept that through evolution, abstract concepts have sprung from the matter and clay of the brain. This is a huge jump without any empirical evidence. The reality is Socrates, Plato and Aristotle all view the ideas of the abstract as superior and separate to the material world. Concepts cannot be sensed via touch, sight, scent, taste or audio, but are ideas that transcend the temporal sphere. Concepts of justice cannot be dissected on an operating table, but only understood via manifestation. They do not exist within nature physically. Furthermore concepts of love, ideas, or shapes all exist outside the actual object. For instance, the idea of “squareness” exists within itself without material representation. Again, the concept that one plus one equals two exists without representation. Plato referred to these ideas as the universals. The universals exist as abstract concepts that cannot be understood via the senses but only via the intellect. He concluded independent spiritual abstract ideals that are beyond the touch of one’s senses can only be comprehended by the same spiritual “stuff” of the soul. Aristotle tied these two elements together when he took basic “matter” and” form” concepts and found the forms or universals within matter and individualized; the physical world reflected the spiritual forms. Hence emotion, spiritual sight, or any other abstract notion that escapes the lens of science is real and is manifested via the material world. These ideas do not originate from matter but are expressed via matter. This is a very different concept than what atheistic psychology proposes in its attempt to put science and theology at odds.
 On the contrary, science is not at odds with theology for both claim the same source which is God. Biologically these chemicals are trace elements for the existence of emotion. They are not the origins of the emotion but the physical correlation of it. The idea that the body affects the mind and the mind affects the body is an undeniable principle that stems from the dualistic nature of man. Man is both body and spirit and in that combination and complicated fusion there lies interaction. Could one not deny the abstract concept of worry and its effect via ulcer? Or can one not deny the physical pain that can also cause emotional pain? An example would be the physical pain of surgery and also the psychological pain of the loss that correlates with that surgery? While hyperalertness and detachment may very well be biological evolutionary devices for the body to prepare for death or accept death, one cannot claim that they are solely biological. And if so, who is to claim that in some cases the mental state produced is biological and in other cases spiritual? Not everyone who experiences the close breath of the reaper claim NDE. With such conclusions, the Christian or theist will not dismiss these chemical reactions within the brain or possible natural explanations for NDE visions, but instead will accept them and incorporate them relevantly to theology. In the end, scientific investigation and theology cannot be at odds, but in this case how do both find credence with each other?

The Brain is a Metaphysical Organ

The answer to this question is simple because the brain is the gateway to the soul. The brain is a metaphysical organ in many ways. It is capable of channeling the spiritual essence of man into physical or material coherence. In many ways it is an adapter that translates and shares the ideas of the soul into praxis with the body. This organ is metaphysical because it exists in both planes. No other organ can boast of such an ability. No other organ carries its responsibilities beyond the physical. While cliché phrases unite love with the heart, one cannot deny that the heart plays no spiritual or emotional role. The reality is the brain or the mind meets the soul half way and articulates its desires to the world. It is in this complex fusion of mind and body where the intellect and will of the soul shout to the world, “I am here”.

In this regard, the psychology of the mind is better understood within a prism of faith. Instead of proclaiming that certain chemical reactions in the brain create emotion, faith dictates that these abstract emotions are manifested via the brain through these chemical reactions. In pure sacramental form, the body manifests the soul, so why would it be any different at a more micro level? For science to proclaim that chemicals cause the emotion instead of vice versa is merely atheistic philosophy infused into science.

Rebutal of Atheistic Claims

With this deeper understanding of the brain as a metaphysical organ we can answer a few challenges posed by secularists. First, as noted, we can dismiss the notion that chemical reactions in the brain are the cause for human emotion. Second, we can challenge ideas of brain death. Secularists contend that if a piece of the brain is removed or a part of it is damaged then the emotion and memories associated with that part is forever loss. With the image of the brain as a metaphysical organ and gatekeeper of the soul one can easily contend with equal reason and intelligence that the memory is merely inaccessible to the physical element of man. The reality is that it still exists within the intellect of the soul, awaiting 
healing or the final resurrection of the broken body with the soul. Finally, in regards to NDE, one can accept that not every vision is spiritual, but if the brain is seen as a metaphysical organ with such capabilities, then one cannot dismiss NDE on all counts within reasonable grounds. Who is to say what vision is a true manifestation of near death and a mere evolutionary coping device. One cannot empirically prove this. Unlike science, theology can speculate via hope and faith, science must empirically show evidence. There is no physical evidence to disprove that these numerous and diverse experiences stem from a spiritual reality.
With these ideals in place the Christian or theist can with good reason accept scientific findings regarding the functions of the brain without fear that science is posing a threat to their faith. The reality is both the spiritual and the physical are in harmony with one another. This is the case especially with the brain which acts as a perfect gateway that reflects the harmony of the soul and body. In many ways, one could speculate that this proposes a Trinitarian design that reflects the image of God and his inner-workings of Father, Son and Holy Spirit via body, soul and mind; three units working as one.
During Christian Counseling sessions, a counselor should not dismiss the experiences that the brain and the soul experience during near death but instead be open to these ideas because they are part of the Christian faith and the reality of the soul and a metaphysical plane of existence.
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By Mark Moran , MA

Christian Counseling Training Program: “Sick” Faith and Miracles and How Christian Counselors Can Help

Christian Counseling Training Program : Christian Counselors Can Help People Have A Healthier Faith

“Thy will be done” was the final submission of Christ’s human nature to his divine nature and Father. He asked for the chalice to be passed but did not demand it. He accepted the outcome of his gruesome torture and death because he saw the will of the father before his own. He did not demand that a legion of angels slaughter the Roman garrison for his protection instead he meekly accepted his death as the will of the Father. Christ here portrays a healthy faith that is characteristic of a loving son who accepts the will of his father, realizing that no matter how bad things may get, his father will be with him during all trials and sufferings.  Christian Counseling should emphasize this submission of the will to clients.

With Christ as our ultimate paradigm, we too must accept the will of the father in times of need and despair. Too many times, Christians practice a sick faith that sees suffering and death as punishment for spiritual failures. This results in a probing questioning similar to those at the foot of the cross who demanded a miracle from Christ. “He could save others, but he cannot save himself” they proclaimed as they continued to mock him. How many times do Christians demand a miracle in times of suffering, sickness and death? How many times do Christians become angry at God because he did not produce a miracle for them but for someone else? The cynic proclaims, what good God would pick and choose among his people, but the true of faith, merely respond, “thy will be done”.

In the text, “The Unwanted Gift of Grief”, Dr.VanDuivendyk points out a very true analysis of sick faith versus healthy faith. He states that many see their relationship with God as a contract. In this contract, the faithful turn to God in time of need and offer prayer, sacrifice, and good deeds in turn for favors. This inferior faith attempts to manipulate God and put one’s will above the will of the Father. These individuals demand a miracle due to a contractual binding due to their illusionary ideals on prayer. While psychologically this falls under Kubler-Ross’ third phase of grieving-negotiating, one cannot deny that this type of negotiating results from a lack of good theology. Dr. VanDuivendyk points out that instead of a relationship of contract, one must have a relationship of covenant. A relationship of covenant believes that we are God’s people and he will always love us and guide us to our greater good. Through this covenant, good things and bad things in this temporal reality will result. In the end, we must accept both and carry our crosses, and accept this unwanted gift of grief. God will walk with us in the day and carry us in the night but in the end we must accept his will over our own. As spiritual children we may ask for favors, but in the end we must realize that not all prayers can be answered. Is this fair? Well ask Christ if he thought it was fair when he accepted the will of the Father and carried his cross for the salvation of the world. God does not preach from a pulpit, but through the Incarnation of Christ teaches through example.

Hence a healthy faith accepts the reality of miracles. A healthy faith prays with devotion and fervor.  

However, a healthy faith prays not only for favorable outcome, but also the ability to accept the will of the Father and to carry one’s cross. This is the example Christ showed Christians in the garden and this is the proper theological understanding of prayer and miracles during times of hardship.  if you want to learn more, please review the Christian Counseling Training Program.

By Mark Moran, MA

Stress Management for the Soul

A common trend in every workplace across the world is that due to the rise of stress levels stress management is becoming key to any career.   The first step to managing stress is to realize that there is a part of you that is always at peace.   Finding this inner bunker can be the hardest part.   Once you do, however, you will find peace and quite is only a thought away!   An article from the Huffington post by Russel Bishop goes into detail on how to find your peace.

A youth man with his hands on his head.
Stress can overcome us all if we let it.

Stress Management from within your Soul

The article, “Soul-Talk: Got Stress? Wake Up to Your Soul”, by Russell Bishop states

“Just as a GPS system in a car helps recalculate your route, GPS for the Soul will help you notice when you’ve gone off-course. And it will provide instant, on-demand feedback to help you course-correct.”

For the full article please go here.

Learning to reduce stress levels from within your soul might sound hard at first but given time you will learn to master this skill.    Once you have this powerful tool for stress management will be at your disposal.   After you have achieved inner peace, you will find that these stressors hold no power over you anymore!   If you would like to learn more about other stress management techniques please visit our webpage here.

Study finds meditation makes people happy and nicer

A study from UC San Francisco found that meditation made schoolteachers more relaxed, nicer and reduced their stress levels.   The teachers meditated using several meditation techniques. They focused on their memories, their feelings, and how to develop empathy for those around them.   The article is from Newsreview.com.

Using Meditation to be happier and nicer.

Teacher smiling
Happiness is key to success in any career.

It is interesting to read how daily meditation can improve relaxation, reduce stress and help with keeping a positive attitude.   One has to wonder how much nicer the world would be if everyone took a few minutes a day to meditate and learn to relax.    If you want to learn how to meditate or want to learn more, please visit our meditation website.

Creating your own Health Coaching Website

Health Coaching can be a fun and rewarding profession.  Getting your name out there, however, can be a completely different story.   Many health care coaching professionals do not have the education to set up their personal health coach websites.   It can be an ordeal to just get the simplest of websites running without help.   Lucky for us Karen Brunet wrote an article for Healthcoachweekly.com on the subject.

Cartoon of a man sitting at his computer desk
Do Health Coaches need Computer Coaches?

Easy Tips to Create Your Own Health Coaching Website:

The article, “Do-It-Yourself Websites for Health Coaches”, by HealthCoachWeekly states

“You want a professional website that will help you grow your health coaching business. But you donʼt want the ongoing expenses of paying a webmaster.  And you donʼt want to spend frustrating weeks – or even months – trying to figure out how to put all the pieces together.  Is there a way to have it all?”

For the full article please go here.

Once you get become familiar with the software and the design of your website, you will be able to focus on health coaching.   By following the advice in the article, you should have your own health coach website up and running in no time!   If you wish to learn more about health care coaching you should visit our website.  

Stress Management for Students Facing Final Exams

As the season of spring starts to turn to the beginning of summer, students across the nation start to feel the heat.   Stress Management can help student relax as they prepare for their final exams.   An article from the Daily Sundial by Fredy Tlatenchi illustrates how some students are managing stress from their finals.

A picture of a blackboard with Final Exams wrote on it.
Test anxiety can cause a lot of stress.

Students use Stress Management.

The article, “Options for relaxing during Stress Awareness month”, by  Fredy Tlatenchi states

“With April officially being national Stress Awareness Month, preparing for the Spring 2012 finals seems almost ironic for the of students CSUN. Mastering the fine arts of scheduling, money management and learning when to relax will be a skill most freshman will need to have in order to survive the weeks and exams ahead. In a campus wide poll of 60 students, the following five places located within or around the CSUN campus were voted as the most relaxing for students and their wallets.”

For the full article please go here.

Now most of you might not be in college anymore but that does not mean you still do not feel stressed out because of exams.   Many professionals continue their education throughout their lives and need stress management techniques to deal with the added pressure.   If you would like to find out more about stress management please go to our site.

Where do Christian Counselors Stand in Battle Between Church/State?

Christian Counselors Need to Defend the Integrity of Religious Freedom

With Health Care Law demanding religious employers pay for controversial birth control methods that contradict their religious beliefs, a battle between church and state has emerged.  On one hand the church calls for religious freedom, while on the other hand, the state calls for fair health compensation for women who want birth control.  I feel it is the duty of Christian Counselors to be defenders of religious liberty.  Regardless, the case continues to intensify and no compromise seems in the distant future.

Christian Counselors have a responsibility to defend the Church and religious freedom by the very nature of their counseling status.  If you are interested in Christian Counseling, please review the program.
As a certified Christian counselor, you will be able to help others understand their own problems better in the light of Christ.
Mark Moran, MA

5 Techniques for Better Meditation while Exercising

Meditation is an excellent way to relieve stress and achieve inner peace.   It helps to relax us after a busy day or prepares us for a hard task.  Meditating is just like any other exercise and with exercise we have to use the right form.   The same can be said about meditation.  In fact meditation can be used during exercise as well to keep focused on the proper form.  In an article by Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche from the Huffington post he writes about 5 ways for better meditation while exercising.

Young woman drinking water
Have you ever meditated during your exercises?

5 Meditation Techniques to Train our Minds and our Bodies

The article, “5 Tips for Running With the Mind of Meditation”, by Lodro Rinzler states

“When I began running, naturally I found myself applying the principles of meditation to my exercise. For me, this seems natural because running is a training of the body, and meditation is a training of the mind. Ideally, we do not have to decide which is better.”

For the full article please go here.

Through meditation we will be able to get more out of our exercise and not only strength our bodies but our minds as well.    If you wish to learn more about meditation and meditation techniques please visit our website.

Ethics of a Christian Counselor

A Christian counselor shares many of the same ethical standards any counselor or professional would have. This obviously includes respect of each person and their general welfare. It also includes confidentiality and a seal of silence.
In regards to sexuality, a counselor should use extreme caution when the person begins to compare him or her to a spouse or ex boyfriend or girlfriend. On the other side of the spectrum, a counselor should rediagnose one’s professional relationship if one starts to prolong sessions or find excuses to see the person they are counseling outside of the office. If such things occur, it may be wise to refer the person to another counselor. In addition to this, one should be aware of flirtations, personal telephone calls, touching, or any conversations with sexual topics.
Beyond these basic ethical standards, the basic paradigm of the counselor as a parent is critical. A parent is concerned with the well being of one’s children and gives them the best advice possible. If a counselor is able to keep this view and adhere to these standards, one has a less chance of entering into complicated situations. With this in mind, a Christian Counselor also goes beyond these standards and is obliged to give sound good Biblical advice. The ethics of God must always be presented for any situation. While secular counselors can give advice according to what they feel is best, a Christian Counselor is called to a higher standard.

Christian Counselors are hence called to a higher calling in that they have a spiritual and moral obligation to teach the Gospel of Christ. With such a high calling, they are liable before God as any other teacher, clergy member or parent in their counseling and teaching. Christian Counselors are called to a high vocation and with such a high vocation they have a high responsibility to provide not only counseling ethical standards but also Christian standards that pertain to counseling and life.
If you are interested in the Christian Counseling Program, please review it.  A certification in Christian Counseling can be earned by qualified professionals who complete the courses.