Grief Counseling Program Article on Dealing with Grief While at Work

Grief is difficult to deal with.  It forces us to adapt and change.  Through this change, it can be distracting and painful.  Unfortunately, many of us cannot walk away from life but must learn to cope with grief while attending school or working.  This is a difficult process but sometimes can also be therapeutic.  It frees the mind and gives us some normalcy.  Some may even attempt to escape into work to avoid the pain.  This is as much a problem as those who cannot focus on work due to grief.

Learning to adjust at work is important.  Life must go on.  It is important to let your manager or supervisor know of your situation. It may be important also to find counseling to help one adjust.  It can definitely be tough to work while grieving but it is something one must do.

 

Working while grieving can be very difficult for some. Some consider a burden others an escape. Please also review our Grief Counseling Program

 

The article, “7 ways to deal with grief at work” by Erica Sweeney looks the difficulty of coping while at work but looks at ways to help individuals move forward with their career task.  She states,

“Many employees aren’t able to take much time off from work to process a loss. While 88% of employers offer bereavement leave, according to the Society for Human Resource Management, it averages about three days. That amount can vary greatly, however, since no federal requirements for bereavement leave exist. TheFamily and Medical Leave Act doesn’t specifically cover it, and the Fair Labor Standards Act doesn’trequire paid time off to attend funerals.”

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With careers and work so important to financial stability, it is critical to overcome grief to the extent one can cope while at work.  While we cannot escape grief, we have to be able to live with it.  Please also review our Grief Counseling Program and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.

 

Grief Counseling Certification Article on Types of Depression

Depression is a chronic state of perpetual sadness.  Some forms of depression are acutely caused and temporary while other forms have no real reason and can last for months upon months or reoccur.

Depression is a far more serious state than normal grief reaction.  Normal grief reaction results from loss in some form.  It proceeds through a series of responses that can go in a particular order or not.  Various emotions can skip out of the so called order of denial, anger, bargaining, mourning and acceptance.  In fact, normal grief reactions can also have extreme oscillations and reversals to previous states.  None of this constitutes depression necessarily.  Grief itself is a natural reaction to loss and is not a pathology.  Sadness over loss even years after does not designate depression, but the inability to escape continual acute emotional pain and ability to adjust to new life does.

Depression can have a direct cause or no cause. It is important to find help. Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification

 

Depression though results in a variety of complications that prevent a normal grief reaction.  Sudden or extreme losses can cause depression, as well as, situations surrounding the loss itself.  Some losses are so extreme or the situations so gruesome that it can shake the very fabric of the individual’s life narrative.  These reactions can lead to later complications in the grief response and prevent adaption to the loss.

Depression hence can be caused due to external issues but it can also be internal.  Depression sometimes may have no true cause or loss correlated with it.

The article, “Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions in the United States. There are several different types of depression.” by Jane Leonard looks at the different types of depression and their symptoms.  She states,

“Depression is one of the most common mental health conditions in the United States. There are several different types of depression.  People with depression experience distinct periods — lasting at least 2 weeks — of sadness, low energy, and loss of interest in things that they once enjoyed. People sometimes refer to these periods as depressive episodes.”

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It is important to realize that simply certified grief counselors without any type of counseling license cannot treat depression.  They can help with others in overcoming the pains of grief but they cannot treat depression.  Individuals who are licensed and also obtain a certification in Grief Counseling have the ability to utilize their skills to treat both, natural grief and complications in grief.  This does not mean certified grief counselors do not play an important role.  Those who are only certified but not licensed as counselors, can still help others overcome loss and possibly identify signs of grief complication.  They can serve as front line soldiers in helping others find the help they need in overcoming depression.

Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification program and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.  The program is online and independent study and is open to qualified professionals seeking certification.

Grief Counseling Certification Article on Sleep and Depression

Grief and lack of sleep can go both coincide.  Grief can affect sleep patterns in negative ways.  The lack of sleep and depression can have multiple effects on one’s health.  It is important to manage depression and sleep and to find the necessary help to be healthy emotionally and physically.

Depression and lack of sleep is an unhealthy combination. Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification

 

The article, “What is the relationship between depression and sleep?” by Timothy Legg states,

“According to one scientific journal, sleep loss might contribute to neurochemical changes in the brain, which can result in depression. The researchers also suggest that depression may lead to disrupted sleeping patterns.”

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Bad sleep and depression build on each other in the most negative ways.  It is best to treat one’s depression so sleep is not affected.  Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.

Grief Counseling Training Program Article on Hidden Depression

Depression can lead to dismay and withdraw from life.  It can linger and force one into a bed and afraid to exit a room.  While depression may have an acute reason, it may have no reason at all and it can negatively affect the person’s social and financial life.  The person will not be as productive or able to function in society and as a result, suffer far more deeply than just the symptoms but fall behind in all aspects of life.

High functioning depression is emotional state that many ignore. It is important to find help. Please also review our Grief Counseling Training Program

 

Depression however affects people differently.  Some individuals may remain functioning at a high level but still suffer from constant depression.  They are conscious of the depression but are able to move forward and function.  While this is good it still represents a serious situation which can erode over time.  The person can become eventually become more susceptible to various illness and emotional states that may present itself.   Some also manifest a hidden depression.  In this, they function but are unaware of the depression itself.  This creates a a dangerous situation where individuals ignore the signs and do not seek help.  Functional depressed are aware of the situation and admit to it and can seek help, while hidden depression lingers at a subconscious level while the person wonders why they are unhappy despite all they do everyday.

The article, “Do You Have High-Functioning or Perfectly Hidden Depression?” by Dr. Margaret Rutherford looks at the manifestations of high functioning depression.  She states,

“Psychologically speaking, people with high-functioning depression are able to use the skill of compartmentalization, where you suppress your own personal feelings for the moment and instead, attend to the needs or expectations of the present. You metaphorically put anger or sadness or fear into a box in your emotion closet and stick it up on a shelf until it’s the right time to deal with it. It’s an important skill, and one that many people know how to use well and effectively.”

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Please also review our Grief Counseling Training Program and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.  The program is independent study and online.  The certification lasts four years and can be renewed.

In the meantime, as grief counselors, it is important to diagnose hidden depression and lead clients to the appropriate therapists, unless of course, as a certified grief counselor, you are also a licensed therapist.

Grief Counseling Program Article on Men and Grief

Men process grief differently than others.  They have their own way of expressing grief.  Some men hold in their grief.  They become more introvert and in many cases seek isolation in dealing with grief.  Instead of seeking help, they seek solitude.  This type of hiding grief and suffering alone can cause problems for grief recovery.

Men process grief differently. Please also review our Grief Counseling Program and see if it meets your needs

 

The article, “For Men, Dealing With Grief Is Lonely and Isolating. This Needs to Change” by Virginia Pelley discusses the way men seek isolation in grief.  She states,

“Men are generally less willing to talk about their grief, more reticent to express emotion, and less likely to seek support, says Jan Everhart Newman, JD, Ph.D., a psychologist in Charlotte, North Carolina. ”

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Please also review our Grief Counseling Program.   Men need to seek out help in their grief and loss.  Isolation is never the answer.  Grief Counseling can help men open up and face the loss and grief.

Grief Counseling Training Program Article on Military and Grief

Grief among military veterans is something that does not receive enough attention.  Military members come into greater contact with death and traumatic experience than any others.  It is important that they receive the grief counseling and care they need

Military members deal with much grief and need continued aid and counseling. Please also review our Grief Counseling Training Program

 

The article, “Grief Is Common Among Military Vets — But Rarely Recognized” by Emily Dugdale looks into this problem.  She emphasizes the importance of military members and their grief being recognized and discussed. She states,

Researchers have amply documented veterans’ PTSD and depression, but grief has not gotten the same level of attention, said Roxane Cohen Silver, a UC Irvine psychological science professor who co-authored a study of grief among veterans.  “What we’re identifying are very important psychological consequences of serving in the war that are clearly being missed,”

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Military veterans deserve continued counseling from their experiences.  Grief and trauma need addressed.  Please also review our Grief Counseling Training program and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.

Grief Counseling Certification Article on Depression and the Winter Blues

It can become very difficult to know when you are truly depressed or just dealing with the grey and cold skies of Winter.  Many individuals naturally feel more depressed with less day light and the ending of the holidays and Christmas.  These things are natural but for some it is hard to tell the difference between true depression and the winter blues.

Is it depression or just the winter blues? Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification Program

 

The article, “How to Know the Difference Between the Winter Blues and Depression – and What You Can do About It” from Localtalk Contributor looks more deeply at the differences and what can be done about it.  The article states,

“More than 300 million people worldwide experience depression. Depression can affect anyone regardless of age, culture or lifestyle. Many factors can impact mental health including medical illness, environment, challenging life events and memories. There are often multiple causes, but it is not anyone’s fault.  ”

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Grief Counseling Program Article on Divorce and Loss

Grief and loss do not always involve death.  Losing anything is the recipe for grief.  One of the most common forms of loss is divorce.  Romantic breakups are tough but marriages that fail are even tougher.  Marriage does not only involve the heart, but it also involves a sacred vow.  The loss removes one from consistency of schedule and thrusts one into a new environment.  Furthermore, the loss has many secondary losses associated with it.  Financial burden, loss of possessions, less time with children or pets, as well as legal stress all play a large role in divorce.

Divorce loss is far more than just a broken heart but affects one’s entire existence. Please also review our Grief Counseling Program

 

This is why divorce is such a stressful and painful process.  It is an uprooting of one’s life.  It may be for the best, but the process of healing takes many years to finally become whole again.

The article,” 12 Strategies For Dealing With Grief After A Divorce” by Karen Finn looks deeper at the types of losses.  She states,

“Dealing with grief after a divorce is no different. Nearly 50% of marriages (and 41% of first marriages) in the United States will end in divorce or separation. Divorce grief is, therefore, a high-odds reality.”

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Please also review our Grief Counseling Program and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.

Grief Counseling Certification Article on Soldiers and Grief

Veterans face a tough road with grief, anxiety and PTSD.  The things soldiers see in war is sometimes traumatic and scarring to the individual soldier.  Many soldiers do not receive the help they need.  Instead they face many issues alone.  It is important for them to meet with others, discuss and review traumatic events.

Soldiers face trauma and loss possibly everyday and have to deal with their entire life. Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification

 

The article, “7 WAYS GRIEF AFFECTS VETERANS” by Pat Harriman states,

“Researchers determined levels of grief, including preoccupation with a lost comrade and inability to accept the loss, through participants’ self-reported combat exposure, unit cohesion, PTSD symptoms, anger, past post-traumatic stress syndrome and depression diagnoses, and pre-deployment life events.”

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Grief counselors and other specialists can help work with soldiers face these issues.  There are so many issues under laying trauma that need to be exposed and discussed for proper healing.  Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification.

Grief Counseling Certification Program Article on Season and Holiday Depression

As the weather changes, so does our moods.   This is especially true of those individuals who live farther North.   With the settling of Winter, one’s energy levels lower in correlation with the shorter days.  As night comes earlier and earlier, individuals are drained of post work energy and find themselves sleeping and relaxing more.  This has negative effects on health.  Exercise is essential not just for health but also one’s mental and emotional status.

 

The change of weather and darker days can lead to seasonal depression. The person may not experience any loss but still become clinically depressed

Colder and darker nights do have effects on moods.  Seasonal depression can set in on these grey and dark days and nights.  Less exercise, less light and less energy all play into the hands of seasonal depression.   Seasonal depression spikes at a higher level after the Holidays.  Many suffer from depression after the Holidays.   The fun and excitement disappear and the return to regular regiment and life becomes the new norm.  Add the somber weather and darkness, then one can see an emotional drop compounded with negative weather.

Individuals already dealing with stress and grief will have a more difficult trek but it can also effect others with no existing grief.  Depression can be over nothing.  It can be a mental state with no true loss.  Seasonal and winter depression hence can strike those suffering from loss but also those who are merely struck with clinical depression merely due to the change of seasons, the end of the holidays, and the beginning of a cold and dark winter.

So we can look at two individuals suffering from season depression.  The first person experienced recent loss and is under enormous stress.   This person is not only dealing with the change of weather, lack of energy and darker days, but also bombarded with the loss and the stress that surrounds it.  The person is trying to adjust to the loss especially as the holidays approach but this becomes completely impossible.

The first holidays without a loved one can be the most difficult and most depressing.  It will in fact take many years before the holidays can be viewed with some slight excitement.  The bereaved person will have to learn to adapt to future holidays without the loved one and also learn to incorporate new ways of commemorating the deceased.  All of these things will take years and years, but until then, the first holiday without a loved one can be a dismal affair.   In fact, there may be no celebration that year. Instead the person may remain alone or avoid festivities.

Many can fall into seasonal depression after the holidays. The lack of decor and excitement and return to normal routine can cause a sadness to the soul

 

Compounded by this, they will suffer from the seasonal weather and lack of longer days.  The grey and cold will only illustrate what they feel inside.  While coping, it is possible this person may enter into a type of depression.

The other individual has no reason for grief.  He or she has not lost a loved one, but for whatever reason they feel a true emptiness.  There is no explanation for his or her grief.  The change of weather, lack of light and end of the holidays brings a barren and empty feeling.  This individual suffers from a true clinical depression.  There is no loss but the individual nonetheless feels empty.

So it is true that during the end of one year and the beginning of a new year, there can season depression.  Some already suffering from loss may grieve more heavily and some may even fall into a depression.  Others will suffer from an unexplained depression after the holidays.   The change in season definitely plays a key role whether it is the cause or merely an enhancement.  The reality is this time of year is harder than other times of year to deal with grief or even stress and for those even not dealing with these things merely due to the nature of the season, weather and climate.

This time of year is physically colder, damper and darker but also spiritually bright with so many cultural and spiritual holidays.  Hence it can prey on both the grieving and merely mentally unhealthy.

Those who suffer due to no reason but only mental and emotional response to the change of seasons should actively seek help.   Counselors can provide the needed guidance but sometimes others need the guidance of clinical counseling.  These individuals suffering from clinical depression will need medication.

Those who are suffering loss or remembering lost loved ones will also grieve.  They may need professional assistance as well but if not, they can in time learn to better cope and learn to remember the loved ones not present.  They can learn to commemorate the loss and find some joy in the love that was shared through memory and stories.

 

Some who experience loss during this time, already suffer and the climate merely compounds and reflects their inner sadness.

 

During the seasonal change it is important for individuals to try to remain active.  Gyms and other activities are key.  Physical exercise drops considerably during this time span from November through February and individuals need to remain faithful to a schedule.  They need to exercise not just for good physical health but also mental health.

Also, trying to make the winter months more special is key.  Perhaps going to the movies, skating, or bowling are good ideas.  Making a certain night a special night with family or friends to watch a favorite show or having a night out once a week to a restaurant.    It is important to take joy in the little things when the weather and time of day light is not as giving.

This of course is difficult when suffering from clinical depression or remembering a loss, but with counseling and if needed, medication, one should attempt to find some good from these months and still enjoy the little things of life.  Better coping strategies, exercise and doing little things can help one get through the darker and colder months.  Physical and mental health should be a top priority in these months!

Grief Counselors can help others cope through these dark months, and in some cases, licensed counselors are needed for issues that require medication, but through acknowledgement and a firm resolution, one can fight through these darker and colder months and find enjoyment during and after the holidays despite loss and despite seasonal change.

Season grief plays a large factor in depression from November through February. Please also review our Grief Counseling Certification program

 

If you would like to learn more about grief counseling or would like to become a certified grief counselor then please review the American Academy of Grief Counseling’s Grief Counseling certification program and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.