A common Rogerian practice is Gestalt which allows the person to speak to an empty chair or imagined person. Usually the person is the deceased or the person causing emotional turmoil. The client is then able to voice what needs said but in a safe and controlled environment. The client is able to express emotion, imagine what the other person would say and also learn how to find closure even if the other person is unable to communicate. This release of emotion is therapeutic and it helps resolve issues of conflict. Furthermore, it grants the individual ways to communicate messy subjects without consequence of in person tensions.
Grief Counselors who are licensed can utilize this therapy if necessary to help the grieving find resolution. Please review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.
Asian Americans, as well as those who immigrate from Asia to the West are a multicultural group that cannot be categorized completely as one group. In many cases, the general assumption of Asian equates to those of the Orient, but Asia encompasses far more than the mere Orient Japanese, Chinese and Korean cultures, but also India and many other locations throughout the massive continent. Hence when referring to Asian Americans, it is to be understood as Asia as a whole and not merely those of Oriental descent. Regardless, Asian Americans share many similar traits, religious ideals and cultural and family structures. In addition, they have also faced there own oppression at home as well as within the West and United States. Grief counselors who wish to help Asian clients need to have a full understanding of their culture and ways of expression, in addition to understanding historical oppressions.
Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.
The Asian American and Migrant
Like any migrant group, Asian Americans face unique challenges during acculturation, as well as unique challenges from their homeland. Many Asians immigrated to the United States via the west coast in the 19th Century, as well as those who have fled communist and tyrannical regimes in the 20th Century. There are numerous migrants from China, Vietnam and Korea since the mid century who fled oppressive regimes, as well as government persecution of minorities in India and Southeast Asia. Within the West, Asian Americans have met there own discrimination especially within the United States. In the 19th Century, many Asians were commonly mocked and ridiculed and left isolated within their own districts. During the World War II, many Asian Americans were collected into determent camps by the US government. Many Oriental Americans, especially of Japanese descent had to prove their American values and were treated as traitors or spies. Even today, various racist slurs or attributed to Asian Americans of different descent and most recently, many were unjustly targeted for the spread of Covid19.
Ironically, many Asians also receive “positive” stereotypes that can also be damaging, such as the assumption all Asians are smart and receive good grades. While education is key driving force within Asian culture, these reinforced stereotypes when applied can cause confusion and distress to the particular individual.
In addition, Asian Americans and migrants face acculturation issues within their own unique family structures and Western society. Asian American cultural structures place greater value on collectiveness and needs of the family. It submits to a stronger hierarchal structure that places the individual at the need of the family. Many personal and individual decisions made by Westerners are considered family business in Asian families. Hence obligation to family, obedience, and arrangements even in marriage are considered social necessities (Pederson, 2018. p. 122). In addition, Asian culture emphasizes humility and modesty when speaking of self and are far less lenient with outsiders than family members in these regards. In addition, self restraint and harmony are prized more than self disclosure and independent choices (Pederson, 2018, p. 122). With this higher respect of authority, many Asian Americans have difficult times understanding American and Western culture and its demand of freedom, pride, rebellion and personal choice.
Hence within this group, there can be a struggle between first and second generation family members as well as integration with less traditional Asian families via marriage. This can lead to depression and anxiety for members who need their family structure and support but wish to express themselves outside the cultural norm of their family.
Counseling the Asian American
Many Asian Americans who experience better acculturation seek counseling more so than those with worst experiences. Of course tradition, language barriers and other cultural factors can play a role in willingness to seek mental health help. Overall, Asian Americans are considered to under utilize health services (Pederson, 2018, p. 129). Asian Americans, however, experience the same general mental issues all human beings experience despite the “model minority” stereotype (Pederson, 2018, p. 130). Like many cultures, Asian Americans sometimes prefer a counselor of their own culture and race to help foster understanding of cultural issues. Pederson points out that racial matches in counseling do equate to increased utilization and duration of therapy (2018, P. 134). Racial match while able to grant better credibility within the counseling relationship is not always ideal or available and this again leads to the importance of counselors to be multicultural aware. Of course with so much discussion about racism, many sometimes wish to turn a blind eye to race itself but turning one’s eye to race and culture ignores the fabric of the client sometimes him or herself. Ignoring hate and removing it is the key, not denying differences that are integral to who someone is. Hence counselors need to be aware of the differences and through this understanding be competent to bridge the cultural difference between counselor and client. This will ultimately help population groups, such as Asian Americans, become more comfortable with a non-Asian counselor. This involves Western counselors having a stronger understanding of authority and family structures within Asian American homes and better apply that knowledge to the counseling dynamic. Interesting enough, it is important to discuss the counseling outcome and dynamic with Asian Americans. Normally, Asian Americans expect answers from experts. They wish to be told what to do and how to follow through. The overall view for many is that counseling is directive and authoritarian. Many expect more directness in what to do (Pederson, 2018, p. 128). This is why is it important to review expectations of mental therapy and the importance of the process of self discovery and healing instead of the counselor taking upon a role of authority.
Again noting that no two people are alike, counselors can still have a base understanding of Asian culture when working with a Asian client. First, it is important to note that many Asians communicate in a high context style without direct or specific references (Pederson, 2018, p. 125). In addition, many Asians do not express or communicate emotion as freely as Westerners (Pederson, 2018, p. 125). It is important to understand this because if analyzed from a Western lens only, this may appear to be hiding feelings or pathological but in reality is merely cultural. Other misconceptions can occur as well if a Western lens is utilized in call cases. If an Asian client seeks parental and family advice on every issue from employment to relationships is judged as a Westerner, then diagnosis may present a maladaptive issue, while in reality, the Asian client is performing well within his or her cultural norms. Hence it is important to have a strong understanding of the cultural emphasis of family and authority within Asian communities and how this comes into play during counseling.
One key cultural expressions within Asian communities is the issue of shame and loss of face. The fear of shame or failure or losing face and disappointing the family can be a large motivational pull for Asian clients (Pederson, 2018, p. 124). Feelings of shame upon one’s name and family is a large fear in collectivist cultures (Pederson, 2018, p. 124). Hence shame can play a role in loss, grief, as well as decisions. One may live an unhappy personal life at the expense of a living a life that spares shame upon the family name. In addition to shame and loss of face, many individuals within Asian cultures are pushed to perfection and fear failure. The more perfectionist the family structure, the far greater stressors for the individual to succeed at all costs (Pederson, 2018, p. 127).
Within grief, various family structures and inner frictions can cause unresolved issues during loss and death. Anytime a person exists within a culture that has expectations of the group over the self, as well as a restraint of emotion, one can expect possible grief reactions. The individual may experience depression or anxiety with one’s own life choices and then when family death occurs and also possibly feel multiple guilts if one did not do as one was told to do by the deceased. These issues need addressed in counseling to allow for proper grieving and resolution of the loss. When dealing with Asian clients, these issues may exist during grief and loss and may need addressed or at least explored to discover if the client’s family had such cultural norms.
Conclusion
Asian Americans or migrants are more than just South East Asia but also include India and outlaying areas. The culture for the most part is very family and collectivist orientated with emphasis on respect of authority. Family plays a key role in decisions. Shame also plays a key role in keeping members of the culture to performing their duties to the family. Counselors need to be aware of the cultural dynamics when working with individual clients. Pending on acculturation and family dynamics, different Asian clients will vary in how they respond to Western ideals. Regardless, grief and loss can still be impacted within family structures that dismiss emotional expression and individual freedom. Resentment and anger can build up and play a role later in loss and grief.
Please also review AIHCP’s Behavioral Therapy Certifications for Human Service Professionals as well as Healthcare Professionals. In particular, please review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification and see if it matches your academic and professional goals. The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals. In particular, for those who are already certified grief counselors, please review AIHCP’s specialty Grief Diversity Counseling Program.
Reference
Pederson, P. et al. (2018) “Counseling Across Cultures” Cengage
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Huizen, J. (2021). “Asian American mental health stigma: Why does it exist?”. Medical News Today. Access here
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Migrant populations are becoming more and more increasing in the West and this has had a large impact on Grief Counseling as well as other forms of mental therapy. Throughout numerous blogs, we have discussed the immigration factor for population groups of Asian, African, and Hispanic groups, but the general and universal need of the immigrant and the acculturation process is a unique process within itself. Whether from Eastern Europe or South East Asia, there are general considerations to take into account for counseling migrants. Of course, for some population groups, the cultural shock and change are far greater as the cultures differ, but there still remains a general shared story for any traveler in a foreign land.
Please also review AIHCP’s multiple behavioral health and counseling certifications for Human Service and Healthcare professionals in the areas of Grief Counseling, Stress Management, Crisis Intervention, Anger Management, Life Coaching and Christian or Spiritual Counseling.
The Immigrant
For a nation that prides itself upon taking upon the world’s ragged and poor, the welcoming arms of the Statue of Liberty has not always been so welcoming. As a nation built upon migrants and the concept of social melting pot, there ironically has existed a counter effort to maintain its Anglo-roots. WASP and Nativist movements have existed within the US since the early 19th Century as an attempt to keep America White, Anglo, Saxon and Protestant. Social agitation to Irish immigration, Italian immigration, Asian immigration and African freedom, as well as discounting of the rights of the original inhabitants, the Native Americans, have always been a priority for these racist groups. Whether in regards to restriction of rights, rewriting history, or national intimidation tactics, the Nativist Movement within the United States has always had a minor audience that wished to keep America Anglo Saxon, or at least European. This has led to countless cases of intimidation and hate against migrants. This was especially true in the 19th Century at the hands of the Know Nothing Party and its attempts to suppress Irish Catholics. Later, the KKK would take up the effort to intimidate not only African Americans recently freed from slavery, but also to all immigrants ranging from Jews and Asians to Catholics and Irish. Unfortunately, even today, the anti-immigration rhetoric is powerful. In 2024, our nation still exhibits racist tactics against migrants at the border as well as against Haitians accused of eating pets in Ohio.
Dehumanizing is the key part of any rhetoric. Hispanics at the border are labeled as cartel thugs, rapists and criminals or Haitians are accused of eating pets. These dehumanizing attempts are part of the play book of the racist. It was done to the Jewish people in Europe and to the African American peoples during slavery. The moment the individual is dehumanized, one is able to rationalize and justify their horrendous activity. Downplaying the migrant is also key in the playbook of the Nativist. Pederson points out that migrant faces various myths that attempt to make them appear as threats to the average American. First, he points out the myth migrants have low education and little skills. On the contrary, most migrants consist of 47 percent of the US. top academic positions within doctorate levels. Secondly, Pederson points out that migrants are painted as threats to taking American jobs. The reality is migrants make up about 15 percent of the American workforce. As for the jobs taken, many are low level entry positions or farming. In fact, migrants make up 75 percent of farming jobs for fruit and vegetables, contributing to 9 billion in federal taxes and 75 billion in earnings. Third, many label migrants as undocumented, but the reality is two-thirds of all migrants are documented. Finally, many push the myth that a stronger border is needed to prevent invasion. This has been suggested due to the terror attacks and security issues but while this is important, most migrants are not a threat and more focus should be to making those who are illegal into becoming legal and productive individuals, especially since so many are actually born here as children or existing on expiring visas (2018, P. 324-325). Again, the Nativist myth that migrants are invaders are the larger myth at play here. Border security is crucial but if the reason is due to fear of migrants, then the wrong emphasis on the wrong security issue is being emphasized to the detriment of a population group. Unfortunately, the Nativist Movement is strong and alive again in the United States and it is something that must be addressed in the future years.
Migrant Issues in the United States
Acculturation varies upon the culture extremes between the country of origin and the host nation but also upon not just the culture but the individual. So again, issues for one, may not exist for another. One cannot in counseling assume one thing exists and another does not but must investigate each individual’s unique situation. With that understood, one can still give a general and likely list of issues that can exist for a migrant during acculturation.
First it is important to note that some migrants are here voluntarily, while others have had no choice. One migrant may arrive for a better life and education or job chances, while others may be fleeing persecution, revolution or famine and disaster (Pederson, 2018, p. 323). Obviously these two extremes present different mindsets when counseling a migrant. Hence the refugee migrant will have a far more traumatic experience than someone who has travelled to the United States or the West for opportunity. The refugee faces various cases of potential PTSD, subjugation to relocation, detention facilities, lost family members as well as trying to adjust to a new culture, language and basic survival itself (Pederson, 2018, p. 326). Some prior to arrival to the United States may have been tortured, abused, raped, falsely imprisoned or during time in refugee camps faced unclean sanitary conditions resulting in health issues and malnutrition (Pederson, 2018, p. 326). Some may also experience survivors guilt issues along with PTSD.
Merely the psychosocial adjustment for forced migrant or voluntary migrant is difficult. New schooling, or new jobs or new homes can all take time to adjust for anyone. Merely relocate to another house across town and one is merely stressed, much less moving from an entirely different culture and nation to a new and foreign place. The first 1 to 2 years constitute a crucial period for migrants as they attempt to find a foundation in life with basic survival (Pederson, 2018. p. 329). This involves finding stable income and food, housing and jobs. Many migrants who are refugees do no have the luxury as well as those who immigrated voluntarily to choose a destination.
During acculturation, migrants will experience the phenomenon of culture shock. Some may integrate, others may not, others may gradually adjust, but the stresses of one culture clashing with another can have big affects on the individual as well as one’s family dynamics. Pederson lists four phases that exist within culture shock. The first is likened to a tourist who sees different and new things about a place and finds excitement regarding the differences. The second phase can be a turning point, where the individual becomes dissatisfied or even disorientated to the change. The third phase involves adjustment or re-orientation. Finally, one reflects a degree of adaptation in managing cross cultural transitions (2018, p. 306-307). Culture shock itself can manifest also in various physical ailments such as headaches, cognitive impairment, stomach issues, reduced energy and fatigue (Pederson, 2018, p. 307). Mentally, it can lead to anxiety, depression and overall stress (Pederson, 2018. p. 307). Culture shock is a big part of acculturation depending on the culture and the person. It is in essence an objective and subjective balance that varies from person to person, yet it is something that many migrants face due language barriers, challenges within the family due to external pressures, and racism within the host nation.
Counseling the Migrant
Whether a international student, a refugee, forced or chosen visitor, the migrant faces issues that sometimes are dismissed from the behavioral and mental health aspect. Many migrants do not understand or wish to partake in the mental health services available due to cultural differences regarding counseling and expressions. Pederson points out that many migrants will first seek what is comfortable and familiar to them when facing emotional issues. Many turn to traditional forms of medication or services from their home culture. In addition, many migrants feel the Western system of care is incapable of addressing their issues due to cultural barriers. They also feel uncomfortable due to various language barriers that can make it difficult to communicate issues. Finally, many are unable to find locations where services are provided due to their relocation itself (2018, p. 328-329).
Due to the wide variety of migrant cultures, counselors are called to multicultural proficiencies and practices (Pederson, 2018. p. 336). In helping migrants, there is a multi model phased process to help migrant clients. The first phase should involve education regarding mental health practices and interventions. This will help eliminate any misconceived notions about the process and help the client and migrant understand the process. Many cultures may have different ways of expressing and discussing issues. This is why it is so pivotal to address how mental health works, however this does not mean the client’s cultural ideas and methods of healing are dismissed. Within the second phase, traditional healing and other cultural aspects are taken into account. The counselor learns and understands how the migrant from a particular culture expresses and migrant’s needs of family or traditional healing methods. In the third phase, counselors help migrants regain cultural empowerment within their environment. This not only involves discussing mental issues with the migrants, but also focusing on daily issues and helping the migrant find services that meet everyday needs. It is sometimes critical to focus on helping stabilize the migrant’s daily life before helping the migrant with his/her mental issues. Part of this not only involves discussing daily problems but also addressing issues of racism and micro aggressions. The final phase, it not only final, but also incorporated throughout the counseling process. This phase involves the counselor as acting as a social advocate and as one pushing for basic human rights of the migrant (Pederson, 2018, p. 337-339).
Hence, counselors are not only helping migrants with grief, loss, relocation, but also a host of other adjustments that occur within the transitional period. Many of the issues related to the immigration can sometimes become secondary to the new acculturation process itself. The numerous stressors to change of environment can become overbearing to anyone, much less someone who may be fleeing a war torn nation. Hence counseling migrants presents a whole new level of complications than the basic citizen.
Grief Counselors may be working on the pain and loss of home, family and way of life with a migrant, but also have to deal with an array of stressors arising from the acculturation process and its many demands. This can lead to complications within grief as well. In fact, many migrants may be dealing with traumatic grief itself.
Conclusion
Migrants face a unique challenge than other target groups. First, they are not born within the host nation and face a more drastic change and acculturation process. Second, they face greater discrimination and third, many are refugees and are forced into relocation due to famine, disaster or war. Many face mental issues from the relocation and in addition face acculturation issues in the host nation. Grief Counselors, Licensed Counselors, Social Workers or pastors need to understand not only the culture of origin but also the general pain of the migrant. There obviously will be objective and subjective elements to each story, but counseling is definitely needed for many migrants who have faced atrocity and now face new discriminations within the host nation. Unfortunately for many migrants, counseling can be a difficult process due to cultural differences, language and lack of access to it.
Please also review AIHCP’s multiple behavioral health certifications, especially, the Grief Counseling Certification. The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals in both behavioral health as well as healthcare itself. Please review and see if the Grief Counseling Program meets your academic and professional goals.
Reference
Pederson, P. et. al. (2018). “Counseling Across Cultures”. Cengage
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Moncrieffe, M. (2023). “Specialized care for immigrants experiencing trauma is vital. Psychologists are breaking down the mental health barriers”. APA. Access here
The Islamic religion is a strong and proud one that has the same objective tendencies found within Christianity. These objective dogmas and beliefs present a theology that points to Islam as the only way to God and as a faith that encompasses the complete truth of God’s revelation. While other faiths are not mocked or looked down upon by Muslims, fanatics like found in any religion, have created images of terrorists and murderers that far from represent the true tenets of Islam. Yet, combined with a mutual historical rivalry with the Christian West, later colonization by the then secular West, has created deep gaps between the predominant Western culture of the United States and Arab Muslims. In particular with US foreign policies in Israel and Palestine and the wars in Iraq, and the events of 911, there exists many bias and prejudices between both societies. These biases can be on full display when migrants from the Middle East who profess Islam come into contact with both many Christian, as well as, secular Americans of European descent. Hence there exists a bi polarizing system of thought between many Westerners and Muslims that mutually accuse one of oppressor and the other as terrorist. This is one of the biggest thing Western counselors must dismiss from their own prejudice as well as Muslim clients who come for therapeutic care.
The Arabic Muslim represents over 1.7 to 5.1 million Americans living within the United States as citizens or living on Visas (Pederson, 2018, p. 188). They range in all socio-economic classes but for the most part exceed the national level of income due their commitment to the educational process. For a many, not all, Islam plays a key role in their life. Of course, there are variances of adherence to the faith, as in any faith, but for the most part, most Arab Americans profess a belief in Islam. Islam means submission to God (Pederson, 2018, p. 186). It is an Abrahamic faith that shares in the same belief of the same God professed in Judaism and Christianity. Albeit, the interpretation of the God of Abraham is quite different than Christians which profess the revelation of the Trinity and belief in the Incarnation of the Logos and Jesus Christ as both God and man. Another key difference is the belief in Mohammad as the last messenger sent by God to fulfill the Judaic and Christian religions. This message is primarily found in the Quaran and the story of God’s final revelation through Mohammad.
The faith of Islam teaches key core rules that are expected of all adherents to believe and commit oneself. First, the Shahada or profession of faith that there is only God who is Allah and that Mohammad is His prophet. Second, is the Siyam, or fasting period during Ramadan. Third, the Salah, or call to prayer five times a day. Fourth, the Zalah, or tax to be given to the poor, and finally the hajj, or pilgrimage to Mecca if one can afford (Pedersen, 2018, p.186). These five core concepts shape the inner spiritualty and faith of the Muslim as well as direct one to the needs of others within the community.
Islamic cultures, like all the Abrahamic religions, emphasize the value of family and the importance of authority, especially from a patriarchal standpoint. In some cases, Islam retains a more strict stance on male authority than Judaism and Christianity, especially since Islam historically has been less exposed to secularism than Christian and Jewish communities. Within Islam, the individual and family are interdependent and the family is ruled via a patriarchal system.
Men have strict gender roles as well as women. Both are expected to adhere to rituals and social norms associated with their gender. Many of these gender roles in extreme cases lead to the abuse or subjugation of women. Many women through openly choose the traditions and limit themselves in what they may wear or do individually or even advance themselves academically or professionally. Again, this is not the case in all Muslim nations. In more strict Muslim nations where personal freedoms are tied to Sharia law, women are persecuted but in other Arabic nations, women are able to excel while also holding to faith and social norms of dress and of wearing the Hijab (head covering) as a sign of Muslim identity and pride (Pederson, 2018, p. 187).
Individual Challenges and Collective Challenges of Arabic Muslim Americans
Like all acculturation cases, when two different cultures meet, there is reaction within the person. One cannot simply generalize because the nature of individuals are so different. In essence based on general and individual traits, individuals assimilate or become loss in the predominant host culture, integrate or retain old values while interacting in the predominant society, separate or denounce the host society, or become marginalized, losing interest in own culture and also not integrating into the predominant culture (Pederson, 2018, p. 384). Many first immigrants initially did not have the religious facilities to help integrate. Like past Catholic immigrants, they needed to found their own schools, hospitals and agencies that best met their unique spiritual and cultural needs.
With Muslim Americans, most acculturation experiences are due to migration to the United States. Many came for a better life, while others fled persecution or authoritarian regimes. In processing the acculturation, there are numerous points to understand for each group or individual’s unique experience. Some Muslim Americans may have greater social support from co-nationals and family, as well as from the local American community. In addition to social support, family support can play a key role in how a Muslim American perceives and blends into the American melting pot. While the predominant American cultures has its own social norms, the inner dynamics of the Muslim family may have quite different values and norms. (Pederson, 2018, p. 391). In these cases, how have family relationships been altered? How have duties and influences of obligation changed? How do family members agree or disagree with new norms that are being introduced into their lives and how does this create potential problems (Pederson, 2018, p. 392). It is documented that acculturation outcomes for immigrants vary greatly between different generation (Pederson, 2018, p. 394). The fear of American secular values which are contrary to many Muslim beliefs can become a great stress for the Islamic family with children born within the United States. Some Islamic families that retain a stronger tradition, may see youth with a more foreclosed and diffused ego identity that connects to the needs of the community than oneself, while others more exposed to secularism may begin to seek out individualism at the expense of the family approval (Pederson, 2018, p. 190). For those who migrated, many Islamic immigrants hold even tighter to beliefs than they may have when in the country of origin because they hope to maintain their identity (Pederson, 2018. p. 395). Others who already possess a strong identity, sometimes are able to adjust to the American culture with less issue because of their strong sense of identity (Pederson, 2018, p. 395). With the pressure of secularism, sexual images, and individualist call of the Western culture constantly displaying itself, many younger Muslims or next generation American Muslims sometimes find themselves at odds with the family. Furthermore, marriages can sometimes occur with other Muslim families that are less traditional and lead also to additional stressors. In many cases, the traditional laws that are tied with the faith and marriage can sometimes come into conflict with American social laws. This also involves adjustment.
Some Muslims who are secularized may find themselves at odds with their faith. There may exist great guilt if one accepts different moral life styles. In this way, spirituality can play a negative role in coping with moral decisions and loss for secularized Muslims. The Quran, like the Bible, dictates a very clear moral code to be followed. It emphasizes that all deeds one commits will be accounted for and illustrates graphic depictions of Hell and punishment for those who not adhere (Johnson, 1998, P. 140). In Islam, there is a scale of balance between good and evil deeds which will dictate whether a Muslim will enter into paradise or torment (Johnson, 1998, p, 141). Many American Muslims may also have difficulty integrating with what they perceive as an immoral Western secular society. While Americanism permits more freedom of choice and morality, many of these freedoms present immoralities that are considered sins in Islam, but as well as Christianity and Judaism. Sometimes, Muslim Americans who migrate from Sharia Law nations may become culture shocked to see what is perceived as criminal immoral offenses under Sharia Law to be freedoms of choice within the United States. Some Muslims may be able to see the value of freedom at the price of immoral choice, but some may have harder difficulties seeing freedom and immorality side by side. This is especially true with homosexuality and its public display in the West and how American Muslims may have difficulty comprehending it. While some Muslim Americans may have harder difficulties, many embrace American idealism and remain socially conservative, as any Christian American and voice their disagreements and disappointments at the ballot box. Within Sharia Law, it is seen that immorality itself is a detriment to society and looks to protect the greater whole based upon Islam’s moral beliefs and to live a moral life is contributing to being a good citizen. Hence, for many the moral tenets of Sharia Law embraces good life and maintaining a healthy social structure.
Obviously, the view of the immigrating culture and the acceptance of that identity is also key. Whether resilient or not, one does also carry their cultural identity and race with them and the biases and prejudices of another land rarely will acknowledge the individual but instead recognize the bias associated with a culture. Muslims, especially due to the 911 terrorist attacks, are seen as a very marginalized and disenfranchised society by many in the West, This leads to difficulty in acculturating in a healthy way (Pederson, 2018. p. 395). This leads to labels of terrorist or fanatic as well as microaggressions in schools, airports or other public places. The American Muslim in many ways must learn to balance his/her American identity as well as Muslim identity. The proof to show oneself as an American as a good American is as strong as it was for Irish Catholics to prove their allegiance to the flag. Muslim Americans face similar challenges in the public eye especially when many foreign policies within the United States are contrary to the needs of Muslims throughout the world such as in Palestine.
Many Palestinian Americans feel as if they are labeled as terrorists, when the reality is their story is always second hand to the Jewish narrative. Within the issue arises the reintroduction of Israel into the Middle East in in 1948 and the far reaching effects of unfair practices by the Israeli government in regards to the property of the host Palestinians. After decades of war, unjust atrocities by both sides, and a labeling of terrorist to only the Palestinian and not also the Israeli, has lead to an oppression within itself for many Muslim Americans who are chastised or seen an Un-American for protesting Israeli domestic policies. The recent war of 2023 and 2024 has shown the true imbalance of presentation in this sad story and the need for stronger two state solution policies that respect the Palestinian plight as much as the Israeli concerns of existence. Yet for the Muslim American, this remains an issue that many deal with on a daily basis where they devotion to the United States is unjustly called into question. Many Muslims must balance love and patriotism of nation with discontent with American foreign policy. It should also be equally noted that many Muslim Americans live in communities that work together or have little interest in political ideals pushed in mainstream media. Hence there are multiple stories and experiences for different Muslim Americans based on their unique up-brining, location and community that can express little to no discrimination based on their unique situation.
Aside from these social and historical labels, as well as stressors of Islamic culture to adjust to the secularism, there is the individual who also faces stress, griefs and losses due to acculturation within his/her own culture. Since Islamic and Arabic tradition is fiercely collective and family valued, those who deviate from the culture can find themselves at odd with family and the security of the family. The individual can submit to the family dynamic and receive support or relinquish the support for more personal freedom and choices (Pederson, 2018, p. 189). The quest for individualist expression can be with young women seeking an education or professional career, or youth experiencing drinking or more free moral living with sexuality. These choices can lead to greater alienation and rebuke from the hierarchy of the family. Many Muslims feel a social obligation to show respect (ihtiram), fulfill social duties (wajib) and avoid confrontations at all costs with elder family members (mosayara) (Pederson, 2018, p. 189). There comes into play then a outward false appearance with a closet life style to avoid confrontation. This can lead to great dysfunction for the individual as they attempt to balance mosayara with their own personal life styles. This can lead to strong cases of depression (Pederson, 2018, p. 193).
Counseling American Muslims
It is obviously important for counselors to be multi culturally competent with faith, family and the general history of Islam and how it translates into the unique individual experience. It is also noted, many Muslims may not trust Western counselors. While therapy is utilized, many personal cases of grief and loss are usually discussed within the family itself. For many grief and loss is seen as fate and something ordained by God. One is to submit to faith and place all trust in God. While spirituality is critical in healing, it sometimes can also become dysfunctional when faith is not properly manifested and understood in a healthy way. Anger against God could be kept held within and this is not healthy. Many Muslims may prefer a fellow Muslim counselor who understands the faith and the dangers of the secular world, but others may feel embarrassed or exposed if speaking with a counselor within the community and may purposely seek counselors outside their social confines to discuss issues. Western counselors must also be aware, in many cases, women may feel more uncomfortable with a man alone or speaking about sensitive issues of sex with a man due to their religious beliefs.
One must also understand the transference and countertransference of bias between Western counselor and Muslim client. The Western counselor may have very strong anti-Islamic views about treatment of women or the wars in the Middle East or the event of 911. These biases can be very dangerous to counseling but also being a fair and just person. Other counselors may have a negative view on authoritarian and patriarchal family structures. Counselors need to dismiss their own cultural understanding of family and not ridicule other cultural norms within the family of the Muslim client (Pederson, 2018, p. 191). In addition, Muslim clients may have their own prejudices against Americans from wars fought on their soil or pro-Israeli policies. They may see Americans as oppressors because of this. When dealing with this, it is important when collective words such as “we” or direct accusatory words as “you” to avoid taking it personally. Therapists should not take offense but instead defuse the situation by questioning the pronouns and differentiating him/herself from the collective. A good response would be when the pronoun “you” is stated, do you mean “America” or myself the therapist?(Pederson, 2018, p. 195)
When first meeting with any immigrant, whether Muslim or not, it is always important to calculate the level of acculturation. Is the client an immigrant as an adult or a child? Was the client born in the United States? In regards to the family, what is the level of dependence of the Muslim client with his/her family. Does the client possess independence or is the client more dependent upon the family (Pederson 2018, p. 195). In some cases, consultation with the family is also key in helping Muslim clients who may exhibit more interdependence, while those who do not, may not need this type of inclusion.
In regards to grief, again, many Muslims turn to the community and faith to understand loss. They see prayer as the primary tool utilized to overcome grief and not usually conventional counseling. Many contend that everything happens for a reason or Allah has willed it and it must be accepted. Counselors, especially grief counselors, need to be aware of internal emotions tied to grief and loss with religion and how they all interplay with mental health of the individual.
In addition, it is important to understand Islamic burial and mourning in grief counseling. Muslims themselves go through a very important burial process where purification and cleaning of the body is important. Before death, prayers are recited from the Quran and following the death there is a cleaning of the body. Usually professional cleaners are employed to fulfill this funeral process. The body’s orifices are plugged and then wrapped in a white shroud (Johnson, 1998, p. 136-137). Following, the person is laid in a simple coffin and processed for burial. Upon the grave site, the body is removed from the coffin and placed in the ground. In Islam, it is believed that the body must return to the ground as soon as possible. While traditionally, mourning was forbidden by Mohammad, today, many women still cry loudly, or even professional mourners are hired (Johnson, 1998, p. 137). However, the crying must not be associated with doubt or lack of faith in God’s goodness. Hence grief and turning to Allah is acceptable when it is understood that Allah is the source of grief and suffering but it is part of a larger plan. Grief Counselors may sometimes need to access the spiritual mindset if a Muslim client is grieving the loss of a loved one and to ascertain if religious beliefs are preventing mourning. Like any religion, the faith can give comfort, but sometimes it can also lead to unneeded pathology.
Conclusion
Muslim Americans, like all ethnic groups, face their own unique challenges in acculturation into the melting pot known as America. Oppression, stereotypes and negative history with the United States all play key roles in racism against Muslim Americans. Understanding Islam, Arabic cultural norms and family structure and the individual person, counselors can better help Muslim clients. In addition, counselors must be aware of inherent bias the may possess or biases that might exist within the Muslim client towards the West. Counselors have unique challenges they must meet if they wish to better help Muslim clients in everyday issues.
Please also review AIHCP’s behavioral health certifications for those in human service and counseling fields. The programs are online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification. The most popular program is AIHCP and the American Academy of Grief Counseling’s, Grief Counseling Certification. Upon completion of the four core courses, one can apply for the four year certification as a grief counselor.
References
Pederson, P. et. al. (2018). “Counseling Across Cultures”. (7th) Cengage
Johnson, C. & McGhee, M (1998). “How Different Religions View Death and the After Life”(2nd). The Charles Press
Additional Resources
APA. “Shifa: A Guide of Contemporary and Traditional Healing Practices for Muslim Americans”. Access here
Khawaja, S. & Khawaja, N. (2019). “Coping with loss and bereavement: An Islamic perspective”. New Zealand Journal of Psychology Vol. 48, No. 1 April 2019. Access here
Saherwala, Z. et al. (2021). “Providing Culturally Competent Mental Health Care for Muslim Women”. Innov Clin Neurosci. 2021 Apr-Jun; 18(4-6): 33–39. Access here
Rassool, G. (2015). “Cultural Competence in Counseling the Muslim Patient: Implications for Mental Health”. Archives of Psychiatric Nursing Volume 29, Issue 5, October 2015, Pages 321-325. Access here
Grief while universal to humanity is expressed differently across cultures. Latino Americans due to their own unique culture, family structures, spiritualty and life values can face grief and cope with it in different ways. They also face different internal and external stressors than can complicate the grieving process.
The fastest growing minority group within the United States are Latino Americans (Pedersen, 2018, p. 164). Hence counselors are very likely to come into contact with the Latino American communities which are comprised of multiple different locations comprised of Hispanic mixtures ranging from the Mexico to the Caribbean islands such as Puerto Rico and Cuba to Central America throughout South America. All of these Latino ethnic groups share a common heritage but also a very diverse one in regards to the differing nations and local traditions. Most of these groups will stem from deeply religious groups with Roman Catholicism being the dominant faith, with other Protestant denominations existing within the population due to Protestant missions to Latin America as well as exposure to the United States and its many non-denominational faiths.
When helping these populations with grief, Grief Counselors need to have a larger understanding of their struggles, social needs and norms, and need for family ties. In particular, Grief Counselors who are also Grief Diversity Specialists can play a key role.
Latino Americans and the Importance of Family as Structure
Latino Americans have strong family ties (Pederson, 2018, p. 176). Individualism is replaced with a collective need to work together and cooperate instead of competition. The needs of the family and respect of the family is key. This leads to a deep sense of commitment and also obligation to family needs before one’s own needs. Caretaking and protecting of family in times of distress and illness are calls to action which brings the family unit together. Family events, birthdays, holidays and deaths are more emphasized and prioritized as a time of coming together in happiness and sorrow and sharing of life and death. The family dynamic is hence critical to the emotional and mental health of many Latino-Americans.
Within the family unit, there are also extensions to friends and non blood relatives, such as god parents, best friends or individuals who share special roles within the family dynamic. Elders are given maximum respect, while children are expected to be obedient and respectful. Men are expected to display strong machismo typo characteristics that provide for the family while women are expected to be submissive, nurturing and self-sacrificing for the needs of the family. There does exist some forms of emancipated women where Latino women are more liberated and provide for the family as well, so again, over generalization can be counter productive because diversity still exists within any family dynamic. Also, while exploring the need of family over individual, Latino Americans still have a sense of cultivating individualism of inner qualities that build towards self worth. This is tied greatly to their very spiritual and religious backgrounds that mold many of them in their daily lives.
External and Internal Challenges that Affect Grief and Loss in Latino Americans
Latinos in America deal with a variety of external and internal challenges that can affect grief and loss in their lives. According to Pedersen, Latinos face racism, segregation, discrimination, poverty, significant educational disadvantages and immigration trauma. Issues dealing with fitting in and acculturation also can become stressors and factors for some. These issues can lead a variety of internal and external stressors that can cause distress to many Latinos, whether born in the United States or immigrated to it. Some may arrive illegally and have a constant stress of being deported, while others deal with the disconnection from the family at home. Those who are alone in the United States can suffer greatly without the importance of the family structure to help them cope with daily stressors or losses. This fear leads to the immigrant in possibly never seeing his or her family again and pushes him/her to find new surrogate families or find local Latino American communities to find commonality.
With internal strife and fear, and external factors such as poverty or racism, the need for counseling among many Latino Americans is necessary but many refuse to look for external helps outside the family structure, or if male, feel it as a sign of weakness to seek state services.
Counseling with Latino Americans
Obviously the diversity of Latino Americans prevents one sole solution for all. Some Latino Americans are second generation and fully acculturated. Some may be partially acculturated in public but have a very strong sense of culture at home. Of course, acculturation is the term to describe when two cultures come into first contact and when the primary ethnicity of the person adjusts to the new dominantly present culture (Pederson, 2018. p. 174). When acculturation presents itself to isolated immigrants or those with strong cultural identities, this can lead to issues with mental health (Pederson, 2018, p. 174). Grief Counselors need to take into account the degree of acculturation has occurred for different individuals. When dealing with any minority group, it is critical to identify a three dimensional model in which the first reviews acculturation degree, the locus of the problem and the goals for helping (Pedersen, 2018, p. 176).
In the case of Latino Americans, this may involve an indepth inquiry about the nature of the Latino Americans life history. Is the Latino client born in the United States, a legal or illegal immigrant as well as his/her family support systems? Is the Latino client alone or does the Latino client with family? Is the Latino client a male and displaying traditional macho behaviors that may hurt the healing process, or is the Latino client a woman displaying overtly submissive behaviors? All of these issues can affect grief from internal and external pressures in how one can cope with a loss or deal with a stressor. One can definitely not dismiss the role of racism and prejudice that many Latino Americans also face which can complicate grieving. According to Pedersen, any minority or immigrant is more than likely to experience some form of racism (2018, P. 174).
Finally, it is sometimes difficult to convince Latino Americans about the credibility of the counseling process (Pederson, 2018, p. 175). This can be partly due to the Latino attitude of utilizing family support to deal with emotional and mental issues as well as avoiding including strangers into their problems. Many Latinos utilize spirituality and family strength as a source to cope and find resilience (Pedersen, 2018, p. 176). With this understanding, counselors should utilize family when available as well as spiritual resources to help Latinos sometimes face issues. Family support in counseling can play a large difference in outcomes.
Conclusion
Without overtly over-generalizing in light of different individuals, one can basically state that most Latino Americans are spiritual, family based, and value centered individuals. As an ethnic minority, all face racism to some extent, while immigrants face an even tougher uphill battle that sometimes involves isolation from family or illegally present, fear of deportation. With such strong family ties and certain emotional grieving patterns, outside counseling can sometimes be difficult but grief counselors need to remember the various internal and external issues they face to better understand their grief and help them better cope. Utilizing spirituality and family ties, if present, can be useful tools in helping Latino Americans in counseling.
Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification, as well as its Grief Diversity Specialist Program for already certified Grief Counselors. The programs are online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification.
References
Cuellar, I., & Paniagua, F.A. (2000).Handbook of multicultural mental health: Assessment and treatment of diverse populations. San Diego, CA: Academic Press. McGoldrick, M., Giordano, J., & Garcia-Preto, N. (Eds.) (2005).Ethnicity and family therapy(3rded.). New York: Guilford Press. Schwarzbaum, S. E., & Thomas, A. J. (2008).Dimensions of multicultural counseling.Los Angeles: Sage Publications. Sue, D. W., & Sue, D. (2003).Counseling the culturally diverse: Theory and practice(4th ed.). New York: John Wiley and Sons.
Pedersen, P. et al. (2018). Counseling Across Cultures (7th ed.). Sage
Additional Online Resources
Fortuna, L. “Working with Latino/a and Hispanic Patients”. APA. Access here
Benton, E (2023). “8 Mental Health Resources for the Latino Community”. Very Well Mind. Access here
Mental Health Disparities: Hispanics and Latinos. APA. Access here
Hari, L, et, al. (2020). “Mental Health Needs of an Emerging Latino Community”. J. BehavHealth Serv Res. 2020; 47(3): 388–398. Published online 2020 Jan 30. doi: 10.1007/s11414-020-09688-3. National Library of Medicine. Access here
Overcoming Mental Health Stigma in the Latino Community (2017). Cleveland Clinic. Access here
In counseling, understanding the insights of a client is key. During intake and initial sessions, the counselor can learn about the client’s needs and story. The story many times if filled with subjective issues that sometimes needs guided. This is why during counseling, one teaches the client the real story and helps them find the right story.
The video below looks at the story, real story and right story and how grief counselors and other types of counselors can help clients find the correct path. Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification and see if the program meets your academic and professional goals. The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals.
Multicultural counseling proficiencies are essential to good counseling. Since Western counseling initially emerged from Europe it is culturally immersed with European culture values. European culture is very individualistic, self-centered and free of many forms of oppression due to the fact Europe was the colonizing force between the 16th and 19th Centuries. Furthermore, while Europe’s secular awakening drove a wedge between its Christian culture and itself, Christianity still plays a key part of life in millions of individuals of European descent, as well as a driving force behind the intent of nations to colonize. With these things in mind, the classic male European descent counselor must be aware of his cultural identity and how that same identity translates his world views, as well as how others of different cultures perceive him as a person when counseling. Within melting pots nations, such as the United States or Canada, many minority cultures can look upon counseling itself with suspicion as a Western custom created by white men.
Grief and loss is also cultural and is expressed differently. This type of difference that inherently exists within different grieving cultures needs to be understood and respected within the grief counseling session itself. Kastenbaum points out that many from a different culture can misinterpret expressions of grief or rituals within another culture (2018, p.372). Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification, as well as its Grief Diversity Counseling Certification to learn more about responding better to other cultures during times of grief.
The African American Experience and Counseling
African American culture has an intense pride in its African heritage and its rich spiritual and cultural beliefs and rituals. While many in America have been culturally separated from the home continent and completely interwoven into a unique African American culture with its own history and adaptations, there still remains a strong echo of the past for many who look to rediscover their roots. African consciousness possesses ancestral wisdom, naturalistic attitudes, rhythm, and creativity (Pedersen, 2018, p. 147), These images help many African Americans tie to a greater power and consciousness to face the oppression they have faced for centuries. This consciousness helps blacks create a stronger self concept, self esteem and self image about themselves that was stolen so many centuries ago (Pedersen, 2018, p.147)
Due to imperialism, oppression and the slave trade, many African Americans cannot trace their lineage and families as European Americans. Many tribes of the Congo, Yoruba, Wolof and Ibo were targeted for the salve trade (Pederson, 2018. p. 145). Many of the records and identities of abducted human beings into the slave trade were erased from history and replaced with new roles and titles on various American plantations. In many cases, these individuals took upon the name of the slave owner or when emancipation occurred chose a simple American name. Hence some African Americans have a yearning to reconnect to their cultural heritage that was stolen from them.
When counseling with African Americans, there is large diversity to consider. Many marginalized blacks in America have been robbed of economic stability for generations. This has led to a succession of poverty, less education and less opportunity. Some blacks have been able to bridge the gap and are successful and resent the idea that they are marginalized and find pride in their work ethic and success. Some black communities are very religious and hold strong to the Christian faith, especially in Baptist congregations. Immigrant Africans hold stronger to the older ways of tribalism, honor, family, ancestors and have a far more spiritualistic religion than many Christian blacks. Some African immigrants share a combined spiritualism and Christian belief system as well.
Yet, within all the diversity, their exists the soul wound of imperialism and slave trade that forever scarred the continent of Africa. Whether from Africa and enduring genocide and civil wars due to European imperialism of the 18th and 19th Centuries, or from the United States and scarred from the history of slavery, segregation, economic theft, and racism, both African groups have historically faced collective wounds that have been transmitted from one generation to the next. This type of historical disadvantage has created numerous imbalanced economic opportunities. In addition, overt racism or systematic racism that exists within the system, has made the African American experience a far different experience than the European experience. Racial profiling, job discrimination and prejudices continue to haunt the black community. These incidents make even a random police stop into an entirely different ordeal for an African American than a white person. Hence when counseling a black client, one must realize racism and oppression have shaped the development and experiences of black people worldwide (Pedersen, 2018, p. 145).
It is important also when counseling African Americans to understand the value of family and groups within their grieving processes as well as life issues. Many African Americans turn to family and support and church before they look for mental health care. Group therapy and community interventions are more relatable to these social structures and can be beneficial for many African Americans (Pedersen, 2018, p.154). African Americans in general also prefer more naturalistic healing interventions, and prefer more so to face personal issues with action (Pedersen, 2018, p. 155). Again, these are collective statistics and each individual is different. When counseling across culture, it is important to remember the dictum of Kluckhohn and Murray (1949) that “each person is like all other persons, like some other persons and like no other person (Pedersen, 2016. p.42)”.
When helping African Americans who are grieving it is important to understand the numerous social issues that apply daily anxiety and sadness to the unique black experience in America. In addition, utilizing African American spirituality, family and church structures as well as modeling coping strategies after African American strengths can all play a key role in helping African Americans grieve in a more healthy way.
Counseling Mistakes with African Americans
Like many minorities, there can exist a mistrust for white mental health counselors. Even though African Americans make up the second largest non-white group in America, they still only represent 12 percent of the population (Pedersen, 2018, p. 144). With this in mind, counselors need to understand that blacks may not always be comfortable with a white counselor or someone from a different socio-economic background. Many blacks do not feel that the suburban American truly understands their concerns or fears.
White counselors need to understand the importance to acknowledge the concept of “White Privilege”. This refers to the unearned societal awards that are given to the white culture based on color of skin (Pedersen, 2018, p. 146). While liberals sometimes have taken the notion to far as to dismiss personal achievement and ignore poor life choices of others, one must conclude due to the centuries of oppression as well as economic imbalance given to the black community that better life opportunities have been granted overall to more whites than blacks in the present day. It is important to acknowledge this in counseling as well as publicly. It helps heal past soul wounds and helps generate awareness to possible past thefts against the black community and present day attempts to rectify those injustices. Again, this does not justify a black person to live a life of crime but it does suggest a better understanding of why so many blacks fall victim to a life of crime due to inherited poverty due to past injustices against their community. Hence in counseling, it is important for a white counselor to check him/herself and understand the role their color and experiences brings to the counseling room (Pedersen, 2018, p. 146).
In addition, Pedersen points out that ignoring race in counseling can also be negative. He refers to this concept as “Color Blindness” (2018, p. 146). When one attempts to ignore the role of color and race in a client’s life struggles and problems, then the counselor can miss the importance that oppression and soul wounds can play on a particular group’s mental health. The APA suggests that counselors always consider how racism and discrimination can be sources of distress for black populations (Pedersen, 2018, p. 146). In addition, conversely, imagining no color exists between counselor and client can also play a negative role in the counselor understanding his/her color as a factor in the counseling process.
Another mistake to avoid is the historically and inherently prejudice studies on black populations. Assumptions on African American attitudes and reactions to life have in the past resulted in an over diagnosis of schizophrenia and an under diagnosis of depression and anxiety (Pedersen, 2018, p. 152). While African American communities have historically suffered less from suicide due to family and church connections, studies also show like anyone, if an African American suffers from depression or substance abuse, his or her chance of suicide rises like anyone else. Also, it is important to note that when working with African Americans, there is a far higher chance of the clients exposure to violence or PSTD (Pedersen, 2018. p. 153). This greatly leads to a higher trajectory of African Americans who suffer from depression, grief, loss and anxiety.
Conclusion
African American heritage is rich and beautiful with family, heritage, ritual, and spiritual life. Tapping into these elements give blacks a higher appreciation of self and worth and tie them to a greater story. Unfortunately, slavery and oppression stole this identity centuries ago and many African Americans in the United States suffer intense soul wounds associated with the history of slavery, oppression, racism and discrimination. These things cannot be ignored but must be understood in factors leading to many modern day issues African Americans face. Counselors need to be aware of these issues as well as their own color and race when working interracially with a black person. White persons must understand that differences exist and sometimes need addressed to help promote healing. Also, like in all multi cultural issues, counselors must be alert not to over generalize or under generalize a person. Each person is unique but at the same time within a particular race or culture usually shares some common issues or problems.
Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification. The program is online and independent study with mentorship. For those who are already a Certified Grief Counselor, then please also review AIHCP’s Grief Diversity Counseling Certification and see if it meets your academic and professional goals in working with diverse populations.
Reference
Pedersen, P. et. al (2018). “Counseling Across Cultures”. (7th). Sage
Additional Resources
Williams, M. (2011). “Why African Americans Avoid Psychotherapy”. Psychology Today. Access here
Watkins, S. & Andrews, A. (2021). “Creating & Maintaining Safe Therapeutic Spaces for Black Clients”. Advances in Addition Recovery (Winter 2021). Access here
Alang, S. (2019). “Mental health care among blacks in America: Confronting racism and constructing solutions”. Health Serv Res. 2019 Apr; 54(2): 346–355. Published online 2019 Jan 27. doi: 10.1111/1475-6773.13115. National Library of Medicine. Access here
Carrouthers, Z. (2014). “Yes, There’s a Stigma with Counseling in the African-American Community”. ThriveWorks. Access here
Multicultural counseling proficiencies are essential to good counseling. Since Western counseling initially emerged from Europe it is culturally immersed with European culture values. European culture is very individualistic, self-centered and free of many forms of oppression due to the fact Europe was the colonizing force between the 16th and 19th Centuries. Furthermore, while Europe’s secular awakening drove a wedge between its Christian culture and itself, Christianity still plays a key part of life in millions of individuals of European descent, as well as a driving force behind the intent of nations to colonize. With these things in mind, the classic male European descent counselor must be aware of his cultural identity and how that same identity translates his world views, as well as how others of different cultures perceive him as a person when counseling. Within melting pots nations, such as the United States or Canada, many minority cultures can look upon counseling itself with suspicion as a Western custom created by white men.
Grief and loss is also cultural and is expressed differently. This type of difference that inherently exists within different grieving cultures needs to be understood and respected within the grief counseling session itself. Kastenbaum points out that many from a different culture can misinterpret expressions of grief or rituals within another culture (2018, p.372). Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification, as well as its Grief Diversity Counseling Certification to learn more about responding better to other cultures during times of grief.
Basic Understandings When Helping Others
There is strong scientific documentation that minority cultures mistrust counseling services (Pedersen, 2016. p.14). Also from a human perspective and counseling perspective, when similarities become less and differences rise between groups one can see a correlated sharp rise in disinterest. Grief Counselors need to be aware of these realities and be able to utilize inclusive cultural empathy to increase awareness against false assumptions, increase knowledge to better comprehend and improves skill for proper calls to action (Pedersen, 2016, p.28).
While employing multiculturalism on grief counseling or any counseling is critical, it is still important to identify a few clear points when working with a group outside one’s cultural circle. Leong cautions against homogeneity to all clients from a particular group (Pedersen, 2016,. p. 44). This simply means, one should not assume certain individuals exist a stereotypes of their particular culture. If working with a culturally distinct client, the grief counselor or counselor should not assume the problem of this individual automatically correlates with the problem of the race or population itself. Different individuals will have different levels and ties to their cultural heritage, creed, race or forms of expression. It is important to realize different persons exist at different facets and are unique hence requiring individual focus, or in some cases universal focus. When counseling across culture, it is important to remember the dictum of Kluckhohn and Murray (1949) that “each person is like all other persons, like some other persons and like no other person (Pedersen, 2016. p.42)”.
This ideal of personhood is key. Many within populations have varying degrees of cultural awareness. Some are aware of microaggressions even against themselves, while others may be very naive to not only differences but also microaggressions. Many individuals within diverse populations exist at an integrated level where they maintain their culture of origin but adopt the culture of the majority. They exist at a dual level. Others my completely assimilate and function and exist within the majority culture. Still others may separate from the majority culture and exist primarily within their culture of origin, or oppositely exist within marginalization that adopts the majority culture (Pedersen, 2018. p. 103).
In any of these four cases, this presents a diverse reaction from ethnic individuals who may appear a certain way but may personally very different. In grief counseling, it is important to understand the individual and not hold that individual to a particular paradigm of how to grieve.
Multicultural Issues and Grief within Native Populations
Within Native American populations and other indigenous people worldwide, European contact has left extreme historical trauma due to centuries of war, massacres, exploitation, relocations, betrayals and disease (Pedersen, 2016, p. 103). This concept of past wrongs that leave a history of cultural trauma is referred to as soul wounds. These wounds shape the culture because the history of it not only shaped the present but also the community living in the present. Present conditions due to massive trauma to ancestors greatly affect present day living conditions and economic wealth due to past exploitation and theft from previous generations. Many tribes were stripped of identity when children were cruelly separated from their families and culturally indoctrinated into European culture. Hence, these type of soul wounds are essentially an intergenerational transmission of trauma from one generation to the next (Ivey, 2018.p. 33). Native Americans hence have a unique collective grief of past historical wrongs against their tribes at the hands of European aggression. These past wrongs has been transmitted into a strong and heavy mistrust of indigenous communities with Western forms of counseling (Pedersen, 2018, p.103).
Native American populations due to these wrongs look to reassert cultural identity and pursue more traditional forms of treatment as well ritual. Numerous cultural recovery programs exist within the country that looks to help these groups rediscover their culture (Pedersen, 2018, p. 105). This strive for identity has at times also put native populations at odds with European and conventional forms of counseling with suspicion.
Grief counselors who work with native populations need to be self aware of their own ethnic background and how this is perceived by native populations. Pedersen notes that counselors cannot blindly pretend a cultural difference does not exist between a client and counselor, especially with native populations (2018, p. 105). In some cases, counselors can also sometimes question the efficacy of conventional methods of treatment for depression or other mental disorders when working with a mistrusting client. Of course, all persons are still persons and genuine empathy, warmth and respect are critical for any person much less one of a different culture (Pedersen, 2018, p. 106).
Many Native Americans are essentially spiritual in healing and those spiritual traditions are important to their identity. Hence counselors working in indigenous populations should work with healers within the community. Counselors should seek the advice of healers and when clients request it, form a care team that best meets the overall needs of the client. Presenting a ethnocentric therapeutic approach to a population with distrust can be disastrous and lead to no healing. Pederson recommends a healing combination of both Western and Native modalities that link the community and spiritual nature of native populations (2018, p. 110).
In addition, Pedersen points out that counselors need to become comfortable with ways natives express themselves, not only in grief but also in communication. Within Native American populations, clients are usually more comfortable with silence and long pauses and responses (2018, p. 107). If a counselor is ignorant of these types of responses or pauses, then the counselor may perceive it as a form of pathological grieving, or denial, or lack of intelligence. Grief counselors need to properly understand the social patterns of interaction within natives to better understand their grieving process. Obviously, grieving and ritual within these populations is also more communal in nature and the community plays a key role in helping others grieve. When natives are isolated or stripped from this population then it can negatively affect their ability to grieve in a healthy way.
In conclusion, Herring points out that counselors should discuss differences instead of pretending one does not exist between client and counselor, secondly, schedule appoints that are flexible and even open to family if requested, third, the allowance for natural trust to grow, fourth, the respect of silence and pause, fifth, a strong respect and honor for the client’s culture and application when necessary of it, and finally, the universal ideal of all counseling, confidentiality (Pedersen, 2018, p. 114).
Conclusion
Counseling across multicultural scopes is difficult. This is especially true when one is a counselor of European descent. With that ancestry carries a history of incidents, that through no fault of oneself. can lead to mistrust between client and counselor. It is important to be self aware of these differences and to be able to show empathy and respect cross cultural lines to the client if one truly hopes to help the client. This involves adaption and flexibility in how one approaches certain clients. This is especially true of Native Americans who have their own unique views on counseling and healing and how they express and communicate grief. It is also important to have a true understanding the of the nature of soul wounds that exist within the Native American population and how this not only affects grief but also present day economic and social life. While it is still critical to acknowledge this, a counselor still cannot assume each Native American is cultural. Every person is diverse and only through communication and genuineness can one truly understand the subjective nature of the individual.
Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification. The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a grief counseling certification. In addition to AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification, AIHCP also offers for Grief Certified Counselors a specialty program in Grief Diversity that covers in greater detail many multicultural aspects of grief and diverse populations.
References
Ivey, A. et, al (2018). “International Interviewing and Counseling” (9th). Cengage.
Kastenbaum, R & Moreman, C. (2018). “Death, Dying and Human Experience” (12th). Routledge
Pedersen, P. et. al. (2018). “Counseling Across Cultures” (7th). Cengage
Additional Resources
“Healing Trauma, Attending To Grief – Native Wellness Institute & Jillene Joseph” Click here
Lovering, C. (2022). “Mental Health in Native American and Indigenous Communities”. PsychCentral. Click here
Franco, M. (2020). “Culture Impacts How We Grieve”. Psychology Today. Click here
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In the area of grief and loss, anxiety, trauma, or in special needs, individuals are or can become more closed off from other human beings. Many are unable to express emotions properly, communicate with others, or feel independent to do things or interact with others. Individuals can become closed off to the world and unable to communicate with it. Counselors can utilize a variety of the therapies to help individuals cope better with emotions and also open back up with the world, but sometimes, especially in the case of those with mental defect, individuals need other ways to communicate and express emotion.
Animals and pets are an excellent source of love and way to heal. Animals can bring out the best in people and their presence can reduce stress and depression. Animals hence can play a key role in helping individuals who are grieving or dealing with anxiety.
Animal Therapy for Grief, Depression and Anxiety
Animal Therapy is broad spectrum approach to healing and helping those with autism express themselves, but also those who have experienced trauma, or even those who have anxiety or depression issues. Animals help individuals in a broad variety of ways to rediscover self, heal and move forward. While those who face life long mental issues can gradually improve through animal therapy, those with trauma or temporary issues can also benefit greatly with the company of an animal.
Animal Therapy has a long history, back to even Sigmund Freud, and with the advances of the its modern father, Boris Levinson. The idea of the comforting nature of an animal or pet and his/her presence has a calming effect on human beings. The company of animals can increase serotonin and dopamine, as well as lower cortisol levels by awakening the para sympathetic system. The presence releases tension and allows the person to find healing.
There is no limit to the types of animals that can be utilized. Horses, dogs, cats, rabbits, ferrets and other small mammals, birds, fish and even lizards can all be utilized. Different species have different end goals that can help individuals with particular needs. Dogs play a key role providing comfort and unconditional love, while cats help with individuals who are more awkward with initial touch and need. Horses and equine therapy play a large role in animal therapy and are provided at various locations for those who need to form better connections, trust, and responsibility. Even birds or fish can play a role in helping individuals find connection but also responsibility.
Benefits of Animal Therapy
Animal Therapy helps those with a wide variety of mental issues, but also those dealing with stress, anxiety, loss and depression. Physically, animal therapy, reduces stress and lowers blood pressure and increases dopamine and serotonin. It reduces cortisol and helps the person find comfort and calm. Emotionally, animal therapy, helps individuals find love and support. The unconditional love an animal can supply, or the fact, the animal needs the person, can help the individual feel love when sometimes love is absent in the person’s world.
Psychologically, animals help individual feel love and from that love individuals can find stronger self esteem to feel loved but also to express love to a fellow creature. The need and dependency of the animal upon the person helps build the person’s purpose. In addition, this purpose gives the person duty and responsibility. During therapy, the person is called to care for the animal, supply food and water, or provide basic care such as grooming or walking. Even the smallest duty of having to feed a fish and supplying a need to another creature can have huge therapeutic effects on the person. This sense of purpose also increases self esteem especially with the depressed.
In addition, training and teaching an animal helps individuals improve communication skills, social interaction, and independence to push forward in an endeavor or task. Individuals plagued with depression or other psychological maladies may be less receptive to enter the social arena of human interaction, but through animals, they can find it easier to communicate, wake up and do tasks, and exercise. This also increases one’s sense of trust between another being. Horse riding, or walking form bonds of trust which may be difficult with another person. This trust permits the person to feel more safe in social settings and to put oneself into the hands of another while also giving purpose to care for the other. Individuals experiencing loss may need to form new bonds and the bonds of love and trust and the social skills that are re-introduced through animals can be physically, emotionally and mentally rewarding.
Overall, animal therapy helps form new bonds, increases social interaction, improves communication skills, teaches trust and responsibility and reduces the physical manifestations of stress and anxiety. It gives the person purpose and responsibility again and helps the person re-enter the social world of other human beings or at least better skills to reintegrate oneself into society after trauma or loss, or if dealing with a mental issue. Animal Therapy can help with emotional release, talk therapy, and relief of various negative symptoms.
Obviously animal therapy is not for everyone. Some individuals may have issues that may endanger the animal, or others may be allergic to certain animals. Like all therapies, it depends upon the person but overall animal therapy is a very successful therapy when applied. One can find animal therapy through the referral of a therapist. Many are offered through campuses, hospitals and special programs at rehab centers or correctional facilities.
Conclusion
Animal Therapy can be supplemental with other therapies or a sole therapy. Ultimately, those with deeper issues such as Autism or permanent conditions can benefit greatly from animal therapy. Animals have the ability to help individuals form new bonds, express feelings and explore new skills necessary in social settings. Animals have the ability to bring out physical and emotional wellness by reducing stress and anxiety. Those who experience grief and loss can also form new bonds and find new purpose through animal care and the reciprocity of love that is shared between a person and animal. While animal therapy may not be the answer for everyone, it is highly successful for those suffering from various mental ailments and temporary issues with anxiety or depression.
Please also review AIHCP’s mental and behavioral health certifications, as well as in particular, it’s Grief Counseling Certification as well as its Stress Management Certification. The programs are online and independent study with mentorship as needed and is open to qualified professionals in the Healthcare, Human Service and Ministry fields. Please review and see if the programs meet your academic and professional goals.
Additional Resources
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Jelinek, J. (2022). “All About Animal-Assisted Therapy”. PsychCentral. Access here
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Olivine, A. (2024). “What Is Animal Therapy?” Very Well Health. Access here
“Animal-Assisted Therapy” (2022). Psychology Today Staff. Psychology Today. Access here
This video discusses confronting and challenging clients to transform and find change. Counselors many times have to help push clients see the truth when the client’s own view is distorted. This involves careful and empathetic ways of challenging and confronting. Empathetic confrontation is a key concept within this video. Sometimes to help transformation, clients need have their view and story challenged or emotions confronted.
Please also review AIHCP’s mental health certifications, including Grief Counseling. The certification programs are online and independent study with mentorship as needed. The programs are designed for pastoral as well as clinical counselors in behavioral health, human service and ministry. Please review and see if the programs meet your academic and professional goals