Ambiguous Grief

Ambiguous Grief is a loss that cannot find closure.  It often involves dealing with someone in coma, possesses a mental disorder that prevents them from living a fulfilling life, or cases of abduction, missing children, missing pets, or soldiers lost at war.  The person is unable to find closure in processing the type of loss.  Some give up hope because holding on hurts too much, while others never surrender.  Numerous emotions erupt in this type of loss. Individuals may be enraged or feel guilty.

Ambiguous grief and the pain of not knowing prevents closure. Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification

 

Some look to find meaning in the loss through social activism and helping others find closure.  Overall, it is a grief ripe with complications that haunts the person the rest of his or her life.  It is good to allow those who wish to hold on to hope to continue within realism, while others who need to let it go, to finally let it go.  Depression is very common with this type of loss so in many cases extensive counseling and support is needed.

Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification

 

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Emotional Freedom Technique / EFT : How Does It Work?

By – James M. Katz, BA

Have you ever heard of the Emotional Freedom Technique / EFT or remote energy healing? These two practices may seem like new-age concepts to some, but they have been around for centuries. EFT, or Emotional Freedom Technique, is a type of energy psychology that involves tapping on specific points on the body to release emotional blockages. It is said to help with a wide range of issues, from anxiety and depression to physical pain and chronic illness.

Remote energy healing, on the other hand, is a form of healing that can be done from a distance. It is based on the idea that everything in the universe is connected through energy, and that energy can be manipulated for healing purposes. Practitioners of remote energy healing use various techniques to send positive energy to a person, even if they are not physically present.

In the article below, it goes into detail what remote energy healing really is. It explains how we are energy and how it can be used to benefit us. It differs from EFT. Emotional Freedom Technique much like acupuncture taps energy points to help release negative energy and promote balance.

“Every experience we encounter can leave an energetic impression on our biofield, and because the body has a natural ability to heal itself, we are able to brush most things off. But often, too much of the same stimulus—like everyday stress or traumatic events—can alter our natural way of being. We build defenses to adapt to our environment, getting further away from our purest expression, and our unique frequency gets distorted. Energy work seeks to remove that disruption in your energy and move you closer to re-alignment.

REMOTE ENERGY HEALING: Does It Actually Work? By POOSH. POOSH: Soul, April 2023.

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Commentary: Businessman practicing EFT or emotional freedom technique - tapping on the karate chop point

What is EFT?

EFT is based on the principles of acupuncture, but instead of using needles, it involves tapping on specific points on the body. These points are located on the meridian lines, which are the channels through which energy flows in the body. By tapping on these points, EFT is said to help release emotional blockages and balance the body’s energy.

The tapping is done while focusing on a specific issue, such as anxiety or pain. While tapping, the person repeats a statement that acknowledges the issue and affirms their self-acceptance. This is said to help release the emotional charge associated with the issue and lead to a sense of calm and peace.

Understanding Remote Energy Healing

Remote energy healing is based on the idea that everything in the universe is made up of energy, including our bodies. When our energy is out of balance, it can lead to physical, emotional, and mental health problems. Remote energy healing works by sending positive energy to a person, even if they are not physically present.

There are many different techniques used in remote energy healing, including Reiki, Quantum Touch, and Pranic Healing. Practitioners of remote energy healing believe that by sending positive energy to a person, they can help balance their energy and promote healing.

The Science behind the Emotional Freedom Technique and Remote Energy Healing

While EFT and remote energy healing may seem like mystical practices, there is actually scientific evidence to support their effectiveness. Studies have shown that EFT can help reduce symptoms of anxiety, depression, PTSD, and chronic pain. One study even found that EFT was more effective than cognitive-behavioral therapy for reducing symptoms of depression.

Similarly, studies have shown that remote energy healing can have a positive effect on physical and emotional health. One study found that patients who received remote energy healing had a significant reduction in pain and anxiety compared to those who did not receive the treatment.

While the exact mechanisms behind EFT and remote energy healing are not fully understood, some theories suggest that they work by promoting the relaxation response in the body. This response is associated with a decrease in stress hormones and an increase in feel-good hormones like serotonin and dopamine.

The Benefits of the Emotional Freedom Technique and Remote Energy Healing

The benefits of EFT and remote energy healing are vast and varied. Some of the most commonly reported benefits of EFT include:

  • Reduced symptoms of anxiety and depression
  • Improved sleep
  • Reduced physical pain
  • Increased sense of well-being
  • Improved relationships

Similarly, some of the benefits of remote energy healing include:

  • Reduced stress and anxiety
  • Improved mood
  • Increased energy and vitality
  • Improved immune system function
  • Faster recovery from illness and injury

How EFT and Remote Energy Healing Work Together

EFT and remote energy healing can be used together to promote even greater healing. One way this is done is by using EFT to release emotional blockages that may be contributing to physical health problems. For example, if a person is experiencing chronic pain, EFT can be used to release any emotional trauma that may be contributing to the pain.

Once the emotional blockages have been released, remote energy healing can be used to promote physical healing. By sending positive energy to the affected area, the body’s natural healing processes can be activated, leading to faster recovery.

The Role of Emotions in EFT and Remote Energy Healing

Emotions play a crucial role in both EFT and remote energy healing. In EFT, the tapping is done while focusing on a specific emotion or issue. By acknowledging and accepting the emotion, it can be released, leading to a sense of calm and peace.

Similarly, remote energy healing works by balancing the body’s energy, which can be disrupted by negative emotions. By promoting positive emotions like love and gratitude, remote energy healing can help balance the body’s energy and promote healing.

Techniques for Practicing EFT and Remote Energy Healing

While EFT and remote energy healing are best done with the guidance of a trained practitioner, there are techniques that can be done at home. For EFT, there are many online resources and videos that can guide you through the tapping process. It is important to focus on a specific issue and to repeat a positive affirmation while tapping.

For remote energy healing, there are many different techniques that can be used, including visualization, meditation, and prayer. It is important to find a technique that resonates with you and to practice it regularly.

EFT and Remote Energy Healing Research and Studies

There is a growing body of research on EFT and remote energy healing, with many studies showing promising results. However, more research is needed to fully understand the mechanisms behind these practices and to determine their effectiveness for different health conditions.

Finding an EFT and Remote Energy Healing Practitioner

If you are interested in trying EFT or remote energy healing, it is important to find a trained practitioner who can guide you through the process. Look for someone who is certified and has experience working with your specific health condition.

Conclusion

EFT and remote energy healing are two practices that have been around for centuries and are gaining popularity in the modern world. While they may seem like mystical concepts, there is scientific evidence to support their effectiveness. By tapping into the body’s energy and promoting positive emotions, these practices can help promote healing and improve overall well-being. If you are interested in trying EFT or remote energy healing, be sure to find a trained practitioner who can guide you through the process.

If you are interested in learning more about the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) then you should review our online video seminar here 

References:

Healthline.com Remote Energy Healing

Wikipedia Energy Healing

Additional Resources:

Energy Healing and Pain: A Review of the Literature. Holistic Nursing Practice. Fazzino, Dolores L. DNP, RN, FNP-BC, CRNFA et al. 24(2):p 79-88, March 2010. | DOI: 10.1097/HNP.0b013e3181d39718

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Consciousness Energy Healing Treatment Based Herbomineral Formulation: A Safe and Effective Approach for Skin Health. Jagdish Singh et al. American Journal of Pharmacology and Phytotherapy > 2017 > 2 > 1 > 1 – 10

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A Consideration of the Perspectives of Healing Practitioners on Research Into Energy Healing. Sara L. Warber, MD et al 2015;4(suppl):72-78. DOI: 10.7453/ gahmj.2015.014.suppl

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Emotional Freedom Techniques for Anxiety: A Systematic Review With Meta-analysis. The Journal of Nervous and Mental Disease.  Clond, Morgan PhD. et al. 204(5):p 388-395, May 2016. | DOI: 10.1097/NMD.0000000000000483

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Attachment Disorders and Grief

Human beings are social creatures by nature.  They need care and nurturing in their infancy to properly form bonds with caregivers.  These bonds teach security and help bolster individuals and their social development with others they meet.  Future intimate relationships and friendships are dependent upon initial bonds.  Healthy and secure bonds with the primary caregiver translate to healthier social interaction in the future.

John Bowlby, famous psychoanalyst, worked extensively in the area of attachment.  His attachment theory today remains a benchmark for understanding individuals who suffer various attachment disorders stemming from their infancy and early childhood.

Infants need trust and security in forming early bonds. Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification

 

The article, “What Is an Attachment Disorder?” by Amy Morin examines the various types of attachment disorders.  The article discusses the origins of attachment disorders, the types, and how they manifest during childhood and later in life.  Morin states,

“An attachment disorder is a condition that affects mood or behavior and makes it difficult for people to form and maintain relationships with others. These conditions usually begin in early childhood, but attachment issues may also persist into adulthood.  Attachment issues are not an official diagnosis, but people use the term to refer to an insecure attachment style in adults. Adults with insecure attachment styles may express avoidance or ambivalence in relationships or behave in disorganized or inconsistent ways.”

“What Is an Attachment Disorder?”. Amy Morin. November 14th, 2022. VeryWellMind

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Commentary

Attachment disorders can play havoc with individual’s future relationships and how they form future bonds.  It is so critical to give little children the love and nurture they need.  When a child’s needs are not met, they can lose trust.  Without trust, the child is becomes untrusting and unable to trust other caregivers or form other bonds.  Bowlby noticed this in his observations of little babies that were cared for when they cried or were hungry as opposed to babies that were left to cry by their parents or their needs were not met.  This created unhealthy bonds with the caregiver and proceeded forward.  What should have been a healthy bond that is trusting and secure, the child exhibited lack of trust and various insecurities.

Clinical Attachment Disorders

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manuel of Mental Disorders recognizes two distinct types of attachment disorders.  They both are due to lack of care and needs met at a young age and both exhibit insecurity and lack of trust but they manifest differently.  The first is Disinhibited Social Engagement Disorder in which the child and later the adult exhibit problems forming true and lasting relationships with others but will look to form superficial bonds that are not permanent.  In children, this is displayed with a lack of shyness around strangers or other adults.  In teen years, they may outwardly form relationships but they are unable to find connection with others and true meaning.  This obviously can lead to many superficial issues.

Children can form avoidant or anxious type disorders when healthy bonds are not formed.

 

The second type of attachment disorder is Reactive Attachment Disorder.  The child and later adult are unable to form new bonds with anyone.  They are quiet, untrusting of caregivers, and avoidant of forming new relationships.  Many are unable to form the necessary connection to have any type of meaningful relationships.  They in turn will jump from relationship to relationship without having any true connection or meaning.

Characteristics of Attachment Disorders

Insecure attachment disorders form due to the lack of security that most children receive at an early age.  Without the security and love, the child grows into new relationships with serious trust issues.  Anxious-Insecure Attachment is the labeled term.    The child exhibits with the primary caregiver a very needy and clingy relationship that pushes for and craves attention but due to the lack of emotional support leads to the numerous issues of mistrust and anxiety in adult relationships.  Anxiety apart from a partner develops and a range of issues can erupt within the relationship itself.  These individuals can become very possessive and clingy in a relationship.

The other spectrum involves Avoidant-Insecure.  This behavior as opposed to clingy and anxious behavior looks to avoid.  These types of children avoid future relationships with adults and as adults, themselves, have a difficult time ever forming permanent bonds with another person.  As children they will look for others to meet needs and form superficial bonds.  They will become unhealthy independent of others.  In future relationships, they can elusive or afraid to commit.

There are also a variety of Disorganized-Insecure attachments where rage or emotion overtake individuals or chaotic anxiety.

The Importance of Secure Attachment

Obviously life is about relationships and social bonds.  A secure attachment permits trust. In turn a healthy attachment permits one to be trusting, open, available, sensitive, responding and accepting to others.  Those without form bonds that are clouded in emotional rage, distrust, anxiety and avoidance.

Unhealthy bonds carry into adulthood and Anxious-Insecure or Avoidant-Insecure disorders can manifest in men and women

 

In grief and loss, attachment is key.  The greater the attachment, the greater the loss and adjustment.  Individuals who have healthy relationships grieve the loss but with less complications due to emotional barriers that prevented the relationship from being more healthy.  If a parent passes, an adult who has a attachment disorder may have conflicting emotions regarding the loss and not process the loss the same way as a person with a healthy relationship and bond.  The sting of grief is still great within a normal bond and could still due to other implications become complicated, but unhealthy attachments can bring other emotional baggage.  Grief Counselors who are not licensed need to recognize possible attachment disorders and refer individuals to licensed counselors who can better help them with the complications of the loss.

Helping Children with Attachment Disorders

Beyond therapy from a licensed counselor, children can benefit from consistency, schedule and establishing boundaries.  It is important to discuss emotions and how one feels.  The goal is to help the child feel some sort of security with guaranteed promises and actions to meet the needs that were not met before.

Conclusion

Forming secure bonds with a young infant and toddler is key to helping the child develop future healthy relationships

 

Individuals who due to lack of care in infancy and young childhood will experience avoidant behaviors or anxious behaviors in future relationships.  They will have difficulty forming healthy bonds with others.  Grieving the loss of others can also become more complicated when attachment disorders are present.

Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification in grief counseling.

Additional Resources

“4 Types of Attachment Disorders”. March 23, 2017. The Holy Mess. Access here

“Types of Attachment Styles and What They Mean”. Rhona Lewis. September 25th, 2022. Healthline. Access here

“What Is Reactive Attachment Disorder?”. Amy Morin. October 11th, 2021. VeryWellMind. Access here

“Attachment” Psychology Today Staff. Psychology Today.  Access here

Holistic Approaches with Exercise for Depression

If one is dealing with grief or loss it can be a difficult time to balance oneself emotionally.  Adapting to loss can take a long time.  Unfortunately, complications in the grieving process can occur which can lead to depression.  Clinical Counselors can help individuals deal with depression however sometimes medication are required to help balance the brain during depression.  Many prefer healthy coping strategies or herbal remedies.

Exercise can help against depression but it can be difficult to start when depression itself causes fatigue. However studies show exercise has an extremely positive effect against depression for those who are able to utilize it

 

One successful strategy is exercise. Exercise has an ability to release endorphins that elevate one’s mood and grant a higher sense of self and accomplishment.  Of course the biggest problem is motivation to work out or exercise while depressed but for those who are able to find the ability to exercise, will find rewards during depression.  Exercise has been shown to be more effective for individuals dealing with depression.  The article, “Move Your Mind: Exercise Outperforms Medication for Depression and Anxiety” by Ben Singh, Carol Maher,  and Jacinta Brinsley from University of South Australia reviews the benefits of exercise to cope with depression over various medications.  The article states,

“Exercise is believed to impact mental health through multiple pathways, and with short and long-term effects. Immediately after exercise, endorphins and dopamine are released in the brain. In the short term, this helps boost mood and buffer stress. Long term, the release of neurotransmitters in response to exercise promotes changes in the brain that help with mood and cognition, decrease inflammation, and boost immune function, which all influence our brain function and mental health.”

“Move Your Mind: Exercise Outperforms Medication for Depression and Anxiety”. Ben Singh, Carol Maher,  and Jacinta Brinsley. April 11th, 2023. SciTechDaily.

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Commentary

Holistic and Integrative Health Care Specialists look for alternative and other ways to help individuals face mental and physical issues from a more natural standpoint.  Grief Counselors also look to help individuals cope with grief through support and advice. The simplicity of exercise alone can play a key role in a grief counseling plan as a well as a holistic perspective in dealing with loss and if worst depression.

A Closer Look at Grief and Exercise in Holistic and Integrative Practices

 

Depression is a complex mental health condition that affects millions of people worldwide. It can be caused by a variety of factors, including genetics, trauma, and environmental stressors. Symptoms of depression can include persistent feelings of sadness, loss of interest in activities, changes in appetite and sleep patterns, and difficulty concentrating.

While depression is often treated with medication and therapy, these methods may not be enough for some individuals. That’s where a holistic approach comes in. Rather than simply addressing the symptoms of depression, a holistic approach takes into account the whole person and aims to treat the root cause of the problem.

The Limitations of Traditional Treatment

Traditional treatment methods for depression can be effective, but they often only address one aspect of the problem. Medication, for example, can help alleviate symptoms of depression, but it doesn’t address the underlying causes of the condition. Similarly, therapy can be helpful in providing coping mechanisms and support, but it may not be enough to fully address the problem.

That’s why a holistic approach that considers the whole person is so important. By addressing all aspects of the problem – physical, mental, and emotional – a holistic approach can be more effective in treating depression.

What is a Holistic Approach to Depression?

A holistic approach to depression is one that takes into account the whole person – mind, body, and spirit. Rather than simply treating the symptoms of depression, a holistic approach aims to treat the root cause of the problem. This can include addressing physical health issues, such as poor nutrition or lack of exercise, as well as emotional and spiritual issues.

A holistic approach to depression may include a variety of different treatments, such as therapy, medication, and alternative therapies like acupuncture or massage. The goal is to create a comprehensive treatment plan that addresses all aspects of the problem.

The Importance of Exercise for Mental Health

Exercise has a large impact on mental health. Please also review AIHCP’s Holistic and Integrative Healthcare Specialist Certification

 

Exercise is a powerful tool in the fight against depression. Research has shown that regular exercise can be just as effective as medication in treating mild to moderate depression. Exercise releases endorphins, which are natural mood-boosters, and can help reduce stress and anxiety.

In addition, exercise can have a positive impact on self-esteem and confidence, both of which can be negatively affected by depression. By incorporating exercise into a depression treatment plan, individuals can improve their overall mental health and well-being.

How Exercise Affects the Brain and Body

Exercise has a powerful impact on both the brain and body. Physically, exercise can help improve cardiovascular health, increase muscle strength and flexibility, and improve overall physical fitness. Mentally, exercise can help reduce stress and anxiety, improve mood, and increase cognitive function.

Research has also shown that exercise can help promote the growth of new brain cells, which can help improve cognitive function and reduce the risk of cognitive decline. By incorporating regular exercise into a depression treatment plan, individuals can improve both their physical and mental health.

The Benefits of Incorporating Exercise into Your Depression Treatment Plan

Incorporating exercise into a depression treatment plan can have a number of benefits. First and foremost, exercise can help improve mood and reduce symptoms of depression. In addition, exercise can help improve overall physical health and well-being, which can have a positive impact on mental health.

Regular exercise can also help individuals develop a sense of routine and structure, which can be helpful in managing depression. Exercise can provide a sense of accomplishment and can help improve self-esteem and confidence.

Types of Exercises Recommended for Depression

There are a variety of different types of exercise that can be effective in treating depression. Aerobic exercise, such as running or cycling, can be particularly effective in reducing symptoms of depression. Yoga and other mind-body practices can also be helpful in reducing stress and anxiety.

Strength training, such as weightlifting, can help improve overall physical fitness and can have a positive impact on mental health as well. Finding an exercise routine that you enjoy and can stick to is key in incorporating exercise into a depression treatment plan.

Incorporating Other Holistic Practices into Your Routine

In addition to exercise, there are a variety of other holistic practices that can be helpful in treating depression. These can include therapy, meditation, acupuncture, massage, and more. By incorporating a variety of different practices into a depression treatment plan, individuals can address all aspects of the problem and improve overall health and well-being.

Additional Resources for Holistic Depression Treatment

If you’re interested in a more holistic approach to depression treatment, there are a variety of resources available. Talk to your doctor or mental health professional about incorporating exercise and other holistic practices into your treatment plan. You can also look for local support groups or classes that focus on holistic health and wellness.

Conclusion: Taking a Holistic, Whole-Person Approach to Depression

Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification Program, as well as its Holistic and Integrative Healthcare Specialist Certification

 

Depression is a complex condition that requires a comprehensive treatment plan. While traditional treatment methods can be effective, they often only address one aspect of the problem. By incorporating exercise and other holistic practices into a depression treatment plan, individuals can address all aspects of the problem and improve overall health and well-being.

It’s important to remember that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to depression treatment. What works for one person may not work for another. That’s why it’s important to work with your doctor or mental health professional to develop a personalized treatment plan that addresses your unique needs and circumstances.

If you’re struggling with depression, know that there is hope. By taking a holistic, whole-person approach to treatment, you can improve your mental, physical, and emotional health and live a happier, healthier life.

Please also review AIHCP’s Holistic and Integrative Healthcare Specialist Program as well as AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals.  Please review and see if the programs meet your academic and professional goals.

 

Christian Counseling and Anti-Social Personality Disorders

Due to the fall of Adam, sin entered the world.  With sin came a host of maladies and pathologies effecting the human brain.  Among the most notable are the Anti-Social Personality Disorders.  Primarily Narcissism, Sociopathy and Psychopathy.   While these conditions exhibit problems within the brain and it functioning, many of them are also learned behaviors.  Hence they are both nature and nurture.  Culpability before the throne of God for souls afflicted with these conditions are left to the judgement of God, but there is definitely not a free pass for the wickedness that exists in the hearts of these individuals.  Scripture speaks clearly against those who love oneself above God and neighbor.  It is clear that the deeds of the wicked that lead to multiple sins and atrocities originate within the heart of the wicked and oppose the law of God and love Christ demands for others.

It is critically important to note that Christian Counseling is not a clinical profession.  Unlicensed counselors are not permitted to treat Anti-Social Personality Disorders.  While Scripture can give one an idea on where these wicked hearts emerge and how one must turn to Christ, it does not provide step by step clinical instructions for therapy.  Only licensed professional counselors and other licensed mental health professionals are permitted to work with these disturbed minds.  If a licensed professional wishes to employ Scripture as a source of guidance and inspiration during treatment this is fine, but Scripture should not be seen as a clinical guide to physically healing the mind.  Instead it can serve as a spiritual supplement of guidance and hopefully a source of grace.

Anti-Social Personality Disorders: Sociopathy and Psychopathy

A sociopath has no moral compass and feels no remorse. Please also review AIHCP’s Christian Counseling Certification

 

It is also critically important to note the differences between the Anti-Social Personality Disorders.   Sociopathy while not clinically labeled is a severe detachment from social norms and laws.  The sociopath’s personality over time and development is allowed to corrupt the soul until, like Narcissism, a malignant self love emerges.  In turn, the sociopath puts him or herself above all others and all other laws.  The conscience itself becomes corrupted and unable to offer any moral direction.  In addition, the sociopath experiences lack of empathy for his or her actions.  Whatever it takes, a sociopath will do to complete a desire or task.  Without remorse, the ability to accept consequences, or a properly aligned moral compass, the sociopath will prey upon others to achieve his or her goals.  The sociopath will manipulate, coerce, lie, cheat and in some cases, also pursue physical violence to achieve his or her ends.

Psychopathy is very similar but at a larger extreme than sociopathy.  Psychopaths clinically have issues within the brain that cause a detachment.  Unlike sociopathy which emerges usually to some type of trauma, psychopathy is some type of processing issue within the brain.  It is both nature but through poor nurture can become far worst.  Psychopaths are narcissistic in nature as well but are more cunning and detached.  Sociopaths are impulsive and emotional, while a psychopath is more calculated, cunning and cold hearted in carrying out a plan.   While some sociopaths may recognize fault in some actions albeit still do it without issue, psychopaths exhibit zero emotional reaction.  Both utilize manipulation, lies, and any means necessary to achieve an end, but a psychopath is more equipped to maintain a normal demeanor.  Both can be charming but a psychopaths detachment is far more severe and cold hearted.  It is also important to note that both sociopathy and psychopathy are narcissistic in nature but not necessarily the same as a pure narcissist although closely related.

A Psychopath is far more detached and calculating than a sociopath.

 

Psychopathy and psychosis are also two different related things but sometimes hand and hand.  Psychosis refers to mental and delusional attachment.   Psychosis is not a personality disorder but a condition usually associated with another condition.   It can stem from schizophrenia or bipolar disorder, or other maladies that cause delusions or hallucinations.

In movies, especially Alfred Hitchcock’s “Psycho” or “American Psycho” starring Christian Bale or even the Netflix series “YOU”, one sees a more extreme of these anti-social personality disorders.  One sees the common depiction and use of the word as a murderous and crazy individual.  In some cases, even interchanging the words.  While these extremes exist, for the most part sociopaths and psychopaths exist in a less gory reality where they manipulate, cheat, lie and steal without regard for other’s safety, reputation, money, or career.

The Conscience

From a Christian light, again, evil comes within the broken heart of humanity through the sin of Adam.  It is a deviation from God and a choice of one’s will over another.  These personality disorders take the level of sin to a new level of evil.  They are not mere isolated acts of selfishness and detachment but habitual existence of evil itself.  The greatest issue is the broken moral conscience.  The conscience is an important element within Christian spiritual and moral life.  The Natural Law intrinsically guides human beings to what is right and wrong at the most fundamental level.  When the Natural Law, the law written by God in one’s heart, is broken, guilt presides, but with personality disorders, this guilt is silenced.  At a young age, it is important for parents to teach their children about the Law of God and teach children to conform their conscience to the commandments.

When a conscience is not properly formed, it can lead to an erroneous conscience.  This conscience leads one to falsehoods.  Personality Disorders such as narcissism, sociopathy and psychopathy go well beyond the faults of an erroneous conscience, but a completely unrepairable conscience that values only self.  Without any checks or balances on the conscience, the person is free to perform whichever acts without emotional consequence.

Both sociopaths and psychopaths have improperly formed consciences that are incapable of permitting remorse

 

It is very difficult for such a person to ever ask God for forgiveness or seek help because their personality is so detached and wicked.  It only sees the value of self and seeks not remorse or forgiveness.  At younger ages, therapy can be applied but it is difficult with children to detect a selfish element that is a permanent disposition versus phases of development.  This is why it is important for parents to be vigilant in forming a healthy conscience within their child.  However, for those who are older and trapped by this demonic pathology, it is far more difficult to help due to the fact the person does not seek it.

Those who do seek some type of help can with a licensed mental health professional proceed through a variety of cognitive exercises to curb impulsiveness and identify bad behavior and its consequences.  This cognitive behavior looks to at least help such a person identify wrong, even if the person many not experience the normal emotional responses.  In addition, medical doctors and psychiatrists can prescribe certain medications that are anti-psychotic in nature or mood stabilizing. From a spiritual standpoint, Scripture, reception of the sacraments, frequent confession and reception of the Eucharist can help heal the mentally infirmed through the grace of God.  Again with God all things are possible.

Conclusion

For habitual sins and evil shrouded in disorder, one must pray to God for true healing and conversion. In many cases, only God’s eternal love and mercy and grace can save these souls

 

If one is living with any of these types of conditions, as with narcissism, it is important to understand the disorder, understand how to respond it, how to protect oneself and how to establish boundaries.   If it is a casual acquaintance it may be best to avoid or find a reason to create distance.  Many Christians feel they are abandoning a soul, but one cannot let ego or spiritual pride step in the way.  One is not the source of grace and salvation but only God.  Sometimes prayer from the distance is the best solution.  For those in closer relationships, emotional safety, counseling, support groups, assessment of their threat level and prayer are essential in their daily cross of dealing with such persons.  Ultimately, these individuals are very dangerous and should be handled with care or left alone!

If you would like to learn more about helping others through Christian principles and Biblical ideals, then please review AIHCP’s Christian Counseling Certification and see if it matches your academic and professional goals.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification in Christian Counseling.

Additional Resources

“Sociopath v. Psychopath: What’s the Difference?”. Kara Mayer Robinson. February 14th, 2022. WebMD. Access here

“How to Recognize Signs of Sociopathy”. HealthEssentials. Cleveland Clinic.  Access here

“Antisocial Personality Disorder Signs”. Christina Mutchler. October 26th, 2022. Health.  Access here

“Sociopathy”. Psychology Today Staff. Psychology Today.  Access here

“Signs of a Sociopath”. WebMD Editorial Contributors. December 16th, 2022. WebMD. Access here

“Psychotic vs. Psychopathic: What’s the Difference?”. Matt Smith. March 13th, 2023. WebMD. Access here

Difficult Decisions with a Terminal Illness Video

In addition to the many painful emotions associated with a terminal illness of a loved one, there are also numerous decisions that need to be made for his or her future.  Whether an aging parent, or a young child, and anything in-between, the difficulty in helping the loved one through this final phase can be difficult.

Beyond the emotional pain of dealing with a terminal diagnosis of a loved one also involves numerous medical and legal decisions. Please also review AIHCP’s Pastoral Thanatology Program

 

One needs to start considering possible therapies and treatments but also quality of remaining life versus quantity of days.  Should one remain in a healthcare facility with treatments unproven or accept the inevitability of death and find joy in the final days of life?  These decisions are not easy and especially made harder when the person is unable to make choices regarding their own health.

Please also review AIHCP’s Pastoral Thanatology Certification and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification in Pastoral Thanatology

 

 

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Christian Counseling and Dealing with a Narcissist

The sin of self love, self ambition, and disregard for others started with Lucifer.  The sin of Pride, the chief of the capital sins, distorted Lucifer into a glorified self love.  Lucifer saw in himself perfection and his will was put before God.  In turn, Lucifer was cast from Heaven into Hell for this delusional distortion of self value and worth.  Vengefully and without remorse or humility, Lucifer in his pride vowed to destroy everything else God created and corrupt it.  In reality, Lucifer was the first Narcissist.

Lucifer was the first Narcissist. Please also review AIHCP’s Christian Counseling Certification

 

Today, many times, the label of Narcissist is used too liberally.  Many an offended partner, will diagnose one’s ex partner as a Narcissist, when in reality, the nature of breakups and divorces are difficult times when everyone is out for oneself.  Selfish tendencies are inflated to point to Narcissism at every turn when in reality there is pathology but only selfish motives.  Narcissism is beyond selfish motives at a given time, but is a habitual state of self love that becomes pathological in all dealing with other people.   Narcissists have sociopathic tendencies, are incapable of empathy, and find total glory in the magnification of self.  They are incapable of logical discussion and live in a world dominated by double standards.  Any slight is seen as a grave offense and any lie to maintain their illusion of self is justified at all expenses.

Biblically, all human beings are inherently damaged due to the Fall of Adam. In that inherently exists a love of self.  The will of a person naturally wishes to put oneself before the will of God.  While the natural world does demand some type of self love for mere preservation, selfish individuals nonetheless exist that may not be Narcissists.  In understanding this, think of selfish instance one may have found oneself in and how one acted.  These random situations of selfishness may be more or less with different individuals but they are not a permanent habit nor moments that may bring remorse or regret at a later date.  A Narcissist feels no regret and is habitually selfish.

Scripture speaks of the dangerous nature of selfishness.  James 3:16 warns that “For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.”.  James 4:1 continues, “What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” and again Ephesians 2:3 declares, “All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our flesh[a] and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature deserving of wrath.”

Hence it is fallen human nature that creates selfishness within the heart.  However, at a young age, individuals learn from experience and punishment, that their needs are not always the highest or most important and that others needs need to be understood and respected.  The essence of the Golden Rule as “Do unto others, as you would wish done to you” should be a celebrated doctrine in any home.  However, somehow, someway, some human natures are more inclined to certain things and desires.  Like everyone, individuals have physical strengths and weaknesses, as well as mental, emotional and SPIRITUAL.  For some, selflessness is easier, while other desires may be far more difficult.  Some, may inherently find selfishness to be more of a hurdle in one’s daily life.

The desire for self preservation and self love is inherent in all human beings. It is important to nurture love and empathy for others at a early age to prevent Narcissistic tendencies from developing

 

Children and their personalities will exhibit certain spiritual talents and certain spiritual weaknesses.  The duty of a parent is to instruct the child in God’s law to conform consciences to God’s will and to help develop spiritual virtues and talents and eradicate certain vices that manifest more easily within the child’s temperament.   In this, parents can witness certain patterns that may be naturally imbalanced within their child.  Selfish behaviors need to be reprimanded and properly explained to a child.  Example, teaching and consistency in building virtuous habit over destructive vice is key when such signs of selfishness appear.  There needs to be a true balance of nature and nurture to curb natural inclinations towards self love and other behaviors that lead to immoral indifference to others.  Children who are not given consequences, taught empathy, shown restraint, or directed to share and give, can become not only very selfish adults but potentially Narcissists.

In understanding Narcissism from a more clinical view, the article “Narcissism” from Psychology Today points out the primary definition of a Narcissist, their needs and how to cope with them in different settings.  The article states,

“Narcissism does not necessarily represent a surplus of self-esteem or of insecurity; more accurately, it encompasses a hunger for appreciation or admiration, a desire to be the center of attention, and an expectation of special treatment reflecting perceived higher status. Interestingly, research finds, many highly narcissistic people often readily admit to an awareness that they are more self-centered. A high level of narcissism, not surprisingly, can be damaging in romantic, familial, or professional relationships.”

Narcissism. Psychology Today.

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Commentary

It is very important then not to mistake Narcissism for self esteem, or random selfish moments but as a personality disorder that exhibits habitual selfish behavior.  Not only is this behavior selfish, but it is also a pathological form of self love.  Every movement is about the glorification of self and the needed admiration of others to acknowledge this illusion.  When this image is challenged, the Narcissist will employ lies, gas lighting, and defamation against one who dares insult them.  Some additional traits include pathological self esteem, sense of entitlement, extreme arrogance, lack of empathy, lying, exaggerations of achievements, extreme envy of others, and obsession with fantasies of power.

When a Narcissist’s self image is challenged, it can lead to rage, lies, and slander towards the other person

Narcissists may seem very charming at first, but overtime, the more than selfish nature of vanity becomes more and more extreme.  They exhibit no empathy for others and find value in others only as ways to find their own glorification.  Friends or family who challenge them or debate them quickly find themselves demonized.  The need of others is to satisfy their own ego.  Hence Narcissists in relationships may appear in love but they are in love more so with the energy they feed off of the other spouse or partner.   When the parasitical feeding no longer feeds the hunger of the Narcissist, then the existence of the other person is no longer required or needed in their orbit.

With this detailed description of a Narcissist understood, how should someone deal with a Narcissist?

Direct confrontation, criticism, dwelling on the past or expecting an apology are all ways to enrage an Narcissist

 

In family life, Narcissists can destroy a family unit.  They can make an intimate partner feel inadequate, or unworthy.  They may insult or criticize a partner, or be dismissive or neglect the other if the other does not mean one’s needs.    Some family members are able to cut ties, but if not, the relationship will be extremely taxing and stressful.  In dealing with Narcissists, especially in family, it is more difficult to avoid them so it is important to make a decision in how one wishes to interact.  Arguing with a Narcissist is impossible, so establishing boundaries is key and avoiding key confrontations.  Sometimes it is best to nod one’s head to avoid outright confrontation. If at all possible, it is best to reduce time and situations with them.  If possible, even cutting ties with a Narcissist is the best option, albeit difficult for individuals in careers or who love their Narcissistic spouse or loved one.

It is critical, whether at work, home or socially engaging a Narcissist to deal with them in particular ways to prevent issues.  Obviously as mentioned, arguing or challenging a Narcissist is a recipe for disaster.  Words must be chosen carefully without criticism.  It is important to remain calm and precise, even when standing up for oneself.  It is fine to stand up for oneself but it needs to be done so in a calm and refined way.  If it hurts the Narcissist’s feelings, that is beyond one’s control if the need to stand up for oneself becomes critical.  It is beyond useless to even try to have a comprising conversation, or expect an apology, or discuss the past.  The Narcissist will never see one’s point of view, and will respond negatively to any direction or criticism.

Conclusion

Narcissism is a spiritually dangerous personality disorder.  It is both a combination of nurture and nature.  It is in itself the most Luciferic state a person can mold into.  Biblically, all are selfish to an extent, but Narcissism is a habitual state.

Clinical Counseling and prayer are the only ways to change the heart of a Narcissist

 

Christ’s message is the ultimate rebuttal of Narcissism.  Christ, unlike Lucifer, accepted the Father’s Will, and despite the His greatness, disguised it under the appearance of mere man.  Christ throughout His ministry reminded the rich and powerful that they will be last in Heaven.  He insisted we love one’s neighbor above oneself and to share with and love others.  Christ is a paradigm of humility and how humility destroys the vice of pride.  Humility and reverence to God are the first steps for any Narcissistic recovery.  The ultimate subjugation of self to the infinite majesty of God can open the heart of any person.  With clinical counseling and spiritual direction, any miracle is possible, even for a habitual state of sin that forbids remorse.

Christian Counselors can help individuals understand what Narcissism is and how Christians can better deal with these types of individuals on a daily basis.  Christian charity and prayer is needed for them. No soul is ever lost but such personality disorders can prevent true conversion.  When one is unable to say one is sorry is an extreme issue when no-one is perfect or without sin.  Narcissism can prevent souls from asking forgiveness and seeking change due to these souls’ own inner pathology.  This pathology is in no way a clinical excuse to sin and be unkind to so many.  Hence it is an extremely dangerous spiritual state.

Please also review AIHCP’s Christian Counseling Certification and see if it meets your academic and professional goals.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification.  It is important to note, Christian Counselors who are not licensed counselors are not qualified to diagnose Narcissism but they can present sound Biblical advice on the nature of selfishness and how to interact with others in such states.  They can also refer individuals to clinical counselors who may need clinical help with Narcissism.

 

Additional Resources

“How to Handle a Narcissist”. Kara Mayer Robinson. 2021. WebMD. Access here

“8 Ways to Handle a Narcissist”. Susan Krause Whitebourne. August 30th, 2014. Psychology Today. Access here

“How to Deal With a Narcissist”. Kendra Cherry. October 14th, 2022. VeryWellMind. Access here

Narcissistic personality disorder. Mayo Clinic Staff.  Mayo Clinic.  Access here

 

Grief Counseling and Negative Coping Over Loss

Coping is an essential element in human response to loss, grief and stress.  Even at the most simple levels of existence, coping and adaptation to change is critical to survival.  Human beings cope with loss and mental stress through a variety of ways.  Initially, sometimes, the way one copes may not be the best way but it initially allows the person to retreat, review and respond but many negative coping habits over a long period of time can become pathological.  Grief Counselors can offer basic grief support to help individuals avoid the pitfalls of bad coping.

Healthy coping is possible when the person is able to understand the situation and react to it in adaptive way that is not maladaptive or destructive.  When one responds socially or emotionally in ways that attempt to numb the pain consistently.   Avoidance is one of the most common themes of negative coping.  While initially it may be beneficial, overtime, the the short fix to numb oneself and avoid things that incite pain, grief, shame, guilt or any emotion associated with the loss are key signs of negative coping.  Negative coping may ease the initial pain, but it does very little in healing the person over time.  It becomes an obstacle to healing.

Poor coping strategies can lead individuals to avoidance behaviors of the grief itself where they either isolate or bury themselves in work

 

What’s Your Grief offers a very insightful article on negative coping in their article, “Grief and Negative Coping” by Eleanor Haley.  The article looks at what negative coping is and various examples of the behavior in regards to work, socializing, and parenting.  It also lists other ways individuals attempt to temporarily cover the pain.  Haley states,

“Negative coping is like emotional aspirin. It numbs the pain temporarily, but the pain reappears once it wears off. Often these patterns of behavior end up making your stress worse because they are unhealthy and require a lot of effort to maintain. Moreover, they prevent you from effectively processing your emotions and experiences, which can lead to a prolonged sense of anxiety and emotional pain.”

“Grief and Negative Coping”. Eleanor Haley.  What’s Your Grief

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Commentary

Haley points out three interesting ways adaptive versus maladaptive coping manifests in work, socialization and parenting.  Many individuals will either relinquish responsibility or drown themselves in responsibility to avoid the pain of a loss.   Haley illustrates how this occurs in work, life and parenting.

Poor coping looks for temporary numbness over facing the loss and finding healing

 

In working, some individuals will work long and exhausting hours, while others may not show up for work.  Adaptive coping is the ability to handle the loss but still after a few days, show the ability to function within the work place.  Likewise, with parenting, grieving parents may ignore their responsibilities with their children or over indulge in their life to cover the loss.  Likewise, in the social sphere,  one can see the same type of extremes with individuals who instead of normal engagement become a recluse in the house for weeks or turn to partying every night.  All the extremes in these scenarios are examples of negative coping.  In it, the individual is trying to mask the issue at hand by avoiding it through excessive work or depressive avoidance of life.

In addition, many negatively cope through the use of substance abuse.  This in turn becomes a difficult endeavor to continue as one constantly seeks the numb feeling associated with the substance or drug.  This can lead to greater issues with addiction and loss of relationships.   Commonly, individuals who suffer may have a few days alone or have a couple drinks, but this type of abuse is far longer and in a greater scope.  It is not a way to escape the initial pain to retreat and review, but is a permanent new life style that prohibits any response to the true problem and hence preventing any type of healing.

Other examples of negative coping include over-eating and food indulgences, as well as isolation, fighting, avoidance of places, people and things and any type of destructive behavior.

Instead of seeking a numbing experience, individuals need to finally respond to their grief.  They need to learn to adjust to the new normal even if painful.  This involves adjusting emotionally but also not allowing it to sidetrack life itself.  Positive coping looks for cognitive reframing of the situation and an understanding of how the loss or stress plays a role in the overall story of life.  Positive coping looks at ways to incorporate the loss into one’s life without ignoring it or harming oneself financially, emotionally or physically.  It involves healthy decisions.

Some examples of healthy coping include meditation, prayer, exercise, memorializing the loss, discussing the loss with family and friends, and reframing the loss and finding its place of meaning and construction within one’s own life narrative.

Conclusion

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It is natural to wish to avoid unpleasant things.  It is natural to avoid pain.  Humans are wired to react negatively to pain and instead look away.  When emotionally hurt, one wishes to ignore the pain and avoid it.  Individuals look to numb it instead of sometimes facing the horrendous lost.   While initially this is natural, hence why many individuals deny first bad news, overtime, this can become detrimental to healing.  The quick fix of avoidance and bad coping may numb something temporarily but the pain will always return.  Eventually, one must perform grief work and cope in a healthy way to ever find healing itself.

Please also review AIHCP’s Grief Counseling Certification program and see if it meets your academic and professional goals and needs.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification in Grief Counseling.

Additional Resources

“6 Coping Skills to Work Through Grief”. Hope Gillette and Sandra Silva Casabianca.  July 21, 2021. PsychCentral.  Access here

“How to overcome grief’s health-damaging effects”. February 15th, 2021. Harvard Health Publishing. Access here

“The Process of Coping with Grief and Loss”. Isaac P. Tourgeman Ph.D., M.S. September 1st, 2021. Psychology Today. Access here

“Grief: What’s Normal, What’s Not — and 13 Tips To Get Through It”. July 27th, 2018.  HealthEssentials. Cleveland Clinic.  Access here

Helping Parents Work with ADHD Children

While ADHD is a label that is thrown on children sometimes as merely a term for unruly children, the fact remains, it exists in a large enough population that it needs to be seriously examined.  Parents are the first guard of their children and they can watch for a multitude of behavioral issues, ADHD symptoms included.  If a child consistently displays certain traits over a period of time that matches ADHD behaviors, then it may be wise to have one’s child examined for possible ADHD diagnosis.  Licensed professionals as well as ADHD Consultants can help in this process.

Is that child ill behaved or suffering from ADHD? Please also review AIHCP’s ADHD Consulting Certification

 

The obvious symptoms are inattention, hyperactive, lack of focus, extra energy, impulsiveness and within school and home an inability to complete tasks,  sitting still and controlling impulses.  While it is possible there is not an issue, if multiple symptoms exist and the child struggles at school and home, it may be important to find professional help.  The article, “How to Deal With ADHD: A Guide for Parents” by Ugo Uche looks closer at what parents can expect and most importantly how they can work better with their child.  The article states,

“If you have a child with ADHD, you’re not alone. According to the federal Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), nearly 10 percent of school-aged children have been diagnosed with the condition. While there are many different ways to manage ADHD, it can still be challenging for parents. There are so many things to think about and keep track of, and it seems like no matter what you do, your child is always acting out or getting into trouble. It’s hard to know where to turn for help. This post includes the information you need to start understanding the challenges facing your child and how to help them thrive.”

“How to Deal With ADHD: A Guide for Parents”. Ugo Uche.  March 22nd, 2023. Psychology Today.

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Commentary

ADHD, or Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder, is a neurodevelopmental disorder that affects a child’s ability to concentrate, control their impulses, and manage their energy levels. The symptoms of ADHD can manifest differently in each child, but they typically fall into three categories: inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.

A child with ADHD may have difficulty focusing on tasks or completing them, forgetfulness, and being easily distracted. They may also exhibit hyperactive behavior, such as fidgeting, constantly moving, and talking excessively. Impulsivity can also be a characteristic of ADHD, where a child may act without thinking, interrupt others, and have difficulty waiting their turn.

It is essential to understand that ADHD is not a result of poor parenting, but rather a complex neurological disorder. There is no known cure for ADHD, but with the right treatment and support, children with ADHD can learn to manage their symptoms and lead fulfilling lives.

Signs and Symptoms of ADHD in Children

Inattentiveness and lack of focus are key signs of ADHD and its diagnosis

 

ADHD can be challenging to diagnose, as many of the symptoms can be attributed to typical childhood behavior. However, parents should look out for the following signs and symptoms:

  • Inattention: difficulty focusing on tasks, forgetfulness, easily distracted, poor organization skills
  • Hyperactivity: fidgeting, restlessness, talking excessively, constantly moving
  • Impulsivity: interrupting others, difficulty waiting their turn, acting without thinking

If a parent notices these symptoms in their child, they should consult with a healthcare professional to determine if their child has ADHD.

Diagnosis and Treatment Options for ADHD

Diagnosing ADHD involves a comprehensive evaluation of a child’s behavior and symptoms. A healthcare professional may conduct interviews with the child, parents, and teachers, and assess cognitive and behavioral functioning. Once diagnosed, the healthcare professional will work with the parents to develop a treatment plan tailored to the child’s needs.

Treatment for ADHD may include medication, behavioral therapy, or a combination of both. Medication can help manage symptoms of ADHD, such as inattention and hyperactivity. Behavioral therapy can teach children with ADHD how to manage their behavior and improve social skills. Parenting strategies also play a significant role in managing ADHD symptoms.

Parenting Strategies for Children with ADHD

Parenting a child with ADHD requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to learn. Below are some parenting strategies that can help children with ADHD:

  • Establish routines: Children with ADHD benefit from structured routines and schedules. Create a daily routine that includes time for homework, play, and rest.
  • Set clear expectations: Children with ADHD need clear and concise instructions. Use positive reinforcement to encourage good behavior.
  • Break tasks into manageable steps: Large tasks can be overwhelming for children with ADHD. Break them down into smaller, achievable steps.
  • Use visual aids: Visual aids, such as charts and checklists, can help children with ADHD stay on task and remember what they need to do.
  • Encourage physical activity: Regular physical activity can help children with ADHD manage their energy levels and improve focus.

Creating a Supportive Home Environment

A supportive home environment can help children with ADHD manage their symptoms and thrive. Here are some ways parents can create a supportive home environment for their child:

  • Minimize distractions: Children with ADHD can be easily distracted. Create a quiet and organized space for homework and other tasks.
  • Provide healthy meals: A healthy diet can help children with ADHD manage their symptoms. Provide nutritious meals and snacks.
  • Encourage sleep: Getting enough sleep is crucial for children with ADHD. Establish a bedtime routine and limit screen time before bed.
  • Stay organized: Help your child stay organized by creating a system for their belongings and schoolwork.

Discipline and Behavior Management for Children with ADHD

Disciplining a child with ADHD can be challenging, as they may have difficulty controlling their behavior. Here are some tips for disciplining a child with ADHD:

  • Use positive reinforcement: Reward good behavior with praise or small incentives.
  • Be consistent: Children with ADHD need consistency and clear consequences for their actions.
  • Avoid physical punishment: Physical punishment can be harmful and ineffective for children with ADHD.

Helping Your Child Succeed in School

Schools will sometimes seek to diagnosis whether a child has ADHD to better help the child

 

Children with ADHD may struggle in school due to their difficulty focusing and completing tasks. Here are some ways parents can help their child succeed in school:

  • Communicate with teachers: Keep open communication with your child’s teachers to ensure they are receiving the support they need.
  • Help with homework: Assist your child with homework and break down tasks into manageable steps.
  • Advocate for your child: Speak with school officials to ensure your child is receiving appropriate accommodations, such as extra time on tests.

Coping with the Challenges of Parenting a Child with ADHD

Parenting a child with ADHD can be challenging and stressful at times. Here are some ways parents can cope with these challenges:

  • Seek support: Join a support group for parents of children with ADHD or seek counseling.
  • Take care of yourself: Self-care is essential for managing stress. Make time for activities you enjoy and prioritize your own well-being.
  • Celebrate successes: Celebrate your child’s successes, no matter how small they may seem.

Resources and Support for Parents of Children with ADHD

There are numerous resources and support available for parents of children with ADHD. Here are some resources to consider:

  • CHADD (Children and Adults with Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder): a national nonprofit organization providing education, advocacy, and support for individuals with ADHD.
  • National Institute of Mental Health: a government organization providing information and research on mental health conditions, including ADHD.
  • Understood: a nonprofit organization providing resources and support for parents of children with learning and attention issues.

Conclusion: Hope for the Future

AIHCP offers a certification for qualified professionals in ADHD Consulting

 

Parenting a child with ADHD can be challenging, but with the right strategies and support, children with ADHD can thrive. It is essential to understand that ADHD is not a result of poor parenting, and there is no known cure for ADHD. However, with early diagnosis and appropriate treatment, children with ADHD can learn to manage their symptoms and lead fulfilling lives. By creating a supportive home environment, using positive reinforcement, and seeking support, parents can help their children with ADHD reach their full potential.

Parents can also work with ADHD Consulting Specialists who can aid them with various coping strategies.  ADHD Consultants can be individuals with a deeper understanding about ADHD but are also professionals in health and mental health care.  Not all are licensed counselors but many licensed counselors also receive additional certifications in ADHD Consulting if their practice is heavy on helping individuals with ADHD.  AIHCP offers a certification for qualified professionals in ADHD Consulting.  The program is online and independent study and open to qualified professionals seeking a four year certification as an ADHD Consultant.

 

Additional Resources

“ADHD in Teens”. WebMD Contributors.  June 14th, 2021.  WebMD. Access here

“Parenting a Child With ADHD”. Reviewed by: Shirin Hasan, MD.  May of 2022. Nemour’s  KidsHealth. Acess here

“A Survival Guide for Parents with ADHD: Strategies from Preschool to High School”. David Anderson. December 5th, 2022. ADDittude. Access here

“Parenting a Child with ADHD”.  Psychology Today Staff. Psychology Today. Access here

The Importance of Forensic Nursing Training

By – James M. Katz, BA

Working in the healthcare education field, I have seen first-hand the vital role that forensic nursing training plays in both patient care and legal proceedings. Forensic nursing is a specialized field of nursing that combines medical care with the criminal justice system. Forensic nurses are trained to provide care to patients who have experienced trauma, collect and preserve evidence, and testify in court as expert witnesses. They are extremely valuable to the criminal justice system and help many victims receive justice.

The article below showcases the ever growing need for forensic nurses and the increased need for Forensic Nursing Training. It is an excellent read and further illustrates the need for more nursing professionals in the forensic field.

UCHealth’s team of forensic nurses cared for 2,515 children and adults in this city last year who were sexually assaulted, choked or beaten and in need of a medical exam that could become evidence in a criminal case.

These exams — more than six per day on average — took place mostly in Memorial Hospital’s emergency department, a Level I trauma center punctuated by the sounds of beeping machines, shouting amongst doctors treating gunshot victims, and law officers standing guard outside of patient rooms.

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Picture of Crime Scene Tape with a Forensic Nurse.

Commentary:

The Role of Forensic Nurses in Patient Care and Legal Proceedings

Forensic nurses play a critical role in both patient care and legal proceedings. In terms of patient care, forensic nurses are trained to treat patients who have experienced trauma, such as sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse. They are also trained to collect and preserve evidence, such as DNA samples, photographs, and medical records. This evidence can be used in legal proceedings to help ensure that perpetrators are brought to justice.

In legal proceedings, forensic nurses are often called upon to testify as expert witnesses. They can provide testimony about the injuries sustained by the victim, the collection and preservation of evidence, and the medical treatment that was provided. This testimony can be crucial in helping to secure a conviction and ensuring that justice is served.

Importance of Forensic Nursing Training

Forensic nursing is a complex and specialized field that requires extensive training. Without proper training, forensic nurses may not be able to provide the level of care that is required or may not be able to collect and preserve evidence properly. Additionally, without proper training, forensic nurses may not be able to testify effectively in court.

Forensic nursing training is critical to ensuring that patients receive the best possible care and that justice is served in legal proceedings. Forensic nursing training provides nurses with the knowledge and skills they need to provide comprehensive care to patients who have experienced trauma. It also provides nurses with the training they need to collect and preserve evidence properly, which can be critical in securing a conviction.

Types of Forensic Nursing Training

There are several types of forensic nursing training available, including continuing education courses, certification programs, and degree programs. Continuing education courses are designed to provide ongoing education to nurses who are already working in the field. Certification programs are designed to provide nurses with a credential that demonstrates their expertise in forensic nursing. Degree programs, such as a Master of Science in Nursing (MSN) with a forensic nursing specialization, are designed to provide nurses with advanced knowledge and skills in the field.

Benefits of Forensic Nursing Training for Nurses and Patients

Forensic nursing training provides a wide range of benefits for both nurses and patients. For nurses, forensic nursing training can lead to increased job satisfaction, higher salaries, and more career opportunities. For patients, forensic nursing can lead to better outcomes, including improved physical and mental health, greater access to justice, and increased safety.

By providing comprehensive care to patients who have experienced trauma, forensic nurses can help to reduce the long-term physical and psychological effects of trauma. Additionally, by collecting and preserving evidence properly, forensic nurses can help to ensure that perpetrators are held accountable for their actions.

Challenges Faced by Forensic Nurses and How Training Can Help

Forensic nursing is a challenging and often emotionally taxing field. Forensic nurses may be exposed to graphic and disturbing images and may be required to testify in court, which can be stressful and intimidating. Additionally, forensic nurses may face challenges related to the collection and preservation of evidence, such as a lack of resources or support.

Forensic nursing training can help to address these challenges by providing nurses with the knowledge and skills they need to cope with the emotional demands of the field. It can also provide nurses with the training they need to overcome challenges related to evidence collection and preservation.

Forensic Nursing Certifications and Qualifications

Certifications and qualifications are an important part of the forensic nursing field. Forensic nursing certifications, such as the Sexual Assault Nurse Examiner (SANE) certification, demonstrate a nurse’s expertise in the field and can help to increase their job opportunities and salary. Qualifications, such as a Master of Science in Nursing (MSN) with a forensic nursing specialization, can provide nurses with advanced knowledge and skills in the field.

It’s important to note that forensic nursing certifications and qualifications vary by state and by institution. It’s important for nurses to research the requirements in their state or institution before pursuing certification or further education.

Conclusion: The Importance of Investing in Forensic Nursing Training

Forensic nursing is a vital and specialized field that requires extensive training. Forensic nurses play a critical role in providing care to patients who have experienced trauma and in ensuring that justice is served in legal proceedings. Forensic nursing training provides nurses with the knowledge and skills they need to provide comprehensive care to patients and to collect and preserve evidence properly.

Investing in forensic nursing training is critical to ensuring that patients receive the best possible care and that justice is served in legal proceedings. By providing nurses with the training they need to excel in the field, we can ensure that the forensic nursing profession continues to grow and provide the best possible care to patients.

With a growing need and a stable job market, becoming a forensic nurse is a great way to further your nursing career. If you feel Forensic Nursing would be a good idea for you, please feel free to visit our Forensic Nursing Certification webpage.

References:

Wiki Forensic Nursing Page –

International Association of Forensic Nurses –

Additional Resources:

The opinions of senior nursing students about forensic nursing. Topçu, E.T., Kazan, E.E.  Egypt J Forensic Sci 8, 16 (2018). https://doi.org/10.1186/s41935-018-0045-y

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Forensic clinical nurses in emergency departments: An emerging need for New Zealand. Donaldson, A. (2019). Kaitiaki Nursing Research, 10(1), 54–58. https://search.informit.org/doi/10.3316/informit.836998773269269

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Evolution of Forensic Nursing Theory–Introduction of the Constructed Theory of Forensic Nursing Care: A Middle-Range Theory. Valentine JL, Sekula LK, Lynch V. J Forensic Nurs. 2020 Oct/Dec;16(4):188-198. doi: 10.1097/JFN.0000000000000287. PMID: 32379251; PMCID: PMC7678647.

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The polymorphism of crime scene investigation: An exploratory analysis of the influence of crime and forensic intelligence on decisions made by crime scene examiners. Tatiana Resnikoff, Et al. Forensic Science International, Volume 257, 2015, Pages 425-434, ISSN 0379-0738.

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