Certified Christian Counseling: Do We See Christ In Everyone?

Certified Christian Counseling:  For The Least Of My Brethren?

Christian Counseling needs to restate the divine mandate from Christ that echoes in our minds whenever we see someone in trouble that when “you do it for the least of your brethren, you do it for me”.
Christ used numerous references emphasizing the acts of mercy throughout Scripture.  Most notably, the parable of the Good Samaritan illustrates how someone should go beyond the norm to help one’s brother who is in trouble, danger or need.
From a modern perspective, nothing has changed.  We are still commanded to care for others and help those in need.  While I would not suggest endangering one’s life by picking up a hitchhiker or endangering your family’s needs by giving all your funds away, I do suggest a closer look at what matters most.   Yes, we are commanded to give to the Church that ten percent and our spiritual talents, but do we just give the minimum?  What do we owe a God who not only created us, but died for us?  We owe him much more than the mere minimum.
In understanding this, we need to examine what else we can do for the Church and the least of our brethren.  God is far from asking that we forfeit our entire inheritance, but he is asking that we examine our choices and what we do very closely.   How materialistic are we when we spend unneeded amounts of money on clothing when there is a homeless shelter down the road with individuals who would gladly wear our scraps?  Do we help clothe the naked in that regard?
What about when we waste our food?  Do we think of feeding the hungry?  Or do our over excessive desires lead us to over priced dinning experiences while the starving man down the road raids the restaurant dumpster?
We are called to a much higher standard and unfortunately materialism leads us to excess and blinds us of spiritual treasures.  It also blinds us to the one’s we do not see that are suffering everyday.  Why not sacrifice one week of a fine dinning experience and instead donate or give food to a shelter with that “extra” money?
Finally, I feel we sometimes only regard treating the least of brethren as another Christ to only a homeless man shivering in the snow or a starving child in a third world nation.  How do we treat other people we interact with each day?  Do we treat other people with respect as we would treat Christ?  Are we polite, genuinely caring and open to their concerns and worries?  Do we yell and scream at a person, if while driving, he or she cuts us off?  Do we maliciously mock someone and downgrade others for sport?  Do we not offer our time and help to those who need a simple favor?
If we deny these people who have small needs throughout the day, then we are failing Christ’s command.  Simply by  bringing someone a coffee at work, or offering someone that extra buck for lunch fulfills this divine command!
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Mark Moran, MA

Guilt: A Natural Reaction to Sin

Christian Counseling Must Utilize The True End of Guilt Which Is Contrition

The sting of guilt can drive one to many roads.  Christian Counselors want to ensure that guilt drives one to remorse in a healthy spiritual way.   Too many times,  guilt can drive one to the extremes of depression or suicide.  One merely needs to remember the sin of Judas and how guilt instead of bringing him back to Christ, misled him to despair.  Christian Counseling must always be alert adverse reactions to guilt.
Guilt is a good thing, at least initially.  Guilt is a natural reaction within a certain and well formed conscience.  Unlike doubtful or even ill formed consciences which guide the sinner away from guilt, a healthy conscience understands the nature of an evil action.  This type of conscience will constantly whisper into the inner soul of the sinner, reminding him of his offense.  Unable to escape the all present voice of truth, the sinner eventually faces his guilt with remorse and contrition.  This of course is the healthy and intended way by Our Lord to handle sin.  Guilt leads to contrition.
However, as noted above, sometimes guilt can lead to suicide or despair.  This is not the intention of guilt but a distortion of it by Satan.  The prince of lies will utilize a mechanism that is meant to bring one closer to God and sabotage  it.  The sinner then instead of seeking repentance will find despair or grow so weary from the constant guilt, that he will run away and flee this emotion.  The sinner will then find solace in false doctrines of indifferentism or attempt to justify one’s sin.
The inner conflict of guilt will drive some to conclude that such “actions” are incompatible with modern society or that such actions are not really that sinful.  Such false reactions to guilt will in turn damage the well serving conscience.  As time continues, the conscience itself will become distorted as the habitual sinful act continues.  No longer will the conscience diligently guard the soul from vice but will become lax.  Too many times we see modern psychology consider such inner conflict to be pathological–the moral conscience torn between an immoral act.  This is merely the battle that wages within the soul to conform to Christ, or the world!
Christian Counselors must also guard against the reaction of despair or the sin of Judas.  Some will not fall into the trap of indifferentism or escapism but Satan will guide them down the path of despair or unworthiness.  The person will become so tormented by the act committed that he or she will attempt to run from God in shame.  While not everyone will commit suicide, many will feel unworthy to pray or face God.  As one hides from the grace of God, they become spiritually lax.  Think how ironic it truly is that a soul that is sick to avoid its medication?  Instead of finding a cure, the soul instead becomes even more gravely ill and eventually could face spiritual death.
Hence, Christian Counseling must foster the use of guilt to help others find true remorse and contrition and to help the penitent avoid the traps of the devil who will misuse guilt to gain souls for himself.
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Mark Moran, MA

God Finds Friends In Low Places and Become a Christian Mentor

The Lord Makes Christian Counselors Worthy

Recently I saw a very interesting post about the type of God people chooses for his ministry.  Upon further review, I was amazed at the people on the list and their “baggage”.  Among the many on the list was Paul-a murderer, David-an adulterer, Peter-a denier, Noah- a drunk, Moses-a stutterer and a host of other castaways.  I would have also included Mary Magdelene-a prostitute and of course St. Augustine-a sinful party boy!  As Christian Counselors, what is our past?
It gave me some inner hope and strength in regards to myself when I realized who Christ calls.  I would like to think I am not as bad as any of these individuals but I can contend with certainty I will never be as great either!
Yet the theme is consistent throughout the Church-God does not call the worthy, he makes them worthy!  Through inner conversion, the Holy Spirit makes clean what God chooses to use for the sake of his Church.
It is also interesting to note how Christ had much disdain for the Pharisees who proclaimed a holiness that was absorbed with hubris.  Christ did not choose the most intelligent or highly regarded men and women of his time to follow him, but the lowly–among poor fishermen!  Perhaps Christ saw the goodness and remorse in many of these sinners’ hearts.  Most importantly he saw their humility and acceptance that they were far from great or powerful.  In this regard, Christ understood that they knew more truth than any powerful man because humility reflects the reality that we are nothing.  Only through Christ do we become anything in this world.
And what a make over God can do.  Saul become Paul and the 13th apostle to the Church. David became king, a pslamist and repentant of his affair, Peter became pope and later died for Christ on an upside down cross, Noah built an Ark and became patriarch to the remaining human race,  Moses became a powerful figure in the liberation of the Hebrews, Mary Magdeline stood with him at the  foot of the cross and St. Augustine became a Doctor and Father of the Church.  The Lord does certainly work great miracles and many of these miracles are in the people he made clean to do his will.
With that, repent, but allow the grace of God to transform your ministry into what he wills it to be.  Become a vessel to his will and his ministry and only then will your ministry bear fruit
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Christian Counseling Program: Tips to Find Sanctity on the Little Things

Christian Counseling Program: Christian Counseling and the Little Things

Great men become great because of even greater trials.  Yet, for most of us, great trials or moments that define history rarely occur.  Tales of martyrdom rarely accompany our death.  Instead we are called to live a life of Christian excellence.  Christian Counselors can guide many people to extraordinary lives of sanctity simply through the “little things”.  If you would like to help guide others, consider our Christian Counseling Program

The idea of sainthood or a virtuous Christian life was not considered during the age of persecution in the early Church.  Most saints were people who heroically died a martyr’s death.  This is not to say they did not excel in virtue but the primary focus of the early Church and sainthood usually included a martyr’s end.  After the legalization of Christianity, saint like individuals ceased to be killed but died naturally.  This led the Church to a new examination of people’s lives that exceeded merely martyrdom but also spirituality.
Many great saints sought the honor of martyrdom.  St. Teresa of Avila as a young child ran away from home to face the Moors in Spain, but was properly reprimanded for such a rash decision.  Instead her life was to be a spiritual one that excelled in pious virtue.  This is the type of life that God calls to many Christians.  This is the life that God wills for many of us.  He does not call or expect all to become famous figures in the Christian circle or suffer a heroic death but to simply testify and live according to his laws.  Those who conform their will to God’s will and live according to his precepts live a sanctified life simply by fulfilling one’s daily duty.  One’s daily duty may be as simple as cleaning one’s house, earning a wage for one’s family or helping others in need.  When one fulfills their daily duty and conforms one’s will to God, then their life becomes as extraordinary as the saints.  In fact, that is how one becomes a saint!  One can only wonder until they reach heaven, how many great saints exist that were never known but were kept beautiful secrets from the public eye.  These unknown saints are spiritual treasures to the Church that intercede for us on earth everyday.  These unknown saints understood the beauty of offering their will to God in the most smallest of tasks as each day unveiled itself.

So What Can You Do?

St. Teresa the Little Flower, not to be confused with St. Teresa of Avila, conformed her will to the Lord in every smallest action.  Her simple life rejoiced in the Lord in the smallest things, from sweeping the floor of the convent to facing her fear of spiders.  Every single thing she did, she offered it to the Lord.  Through this simple life, she would later be revered as one of the Church’s most known daughters and elevated to sainthood.  So what can you do?  You can start by emulating St. Teresa.  One can make everyday chores a prayer to God.  One can bite their tongue in humility when something angers oneself or offer up a fear or pain to God when it would be easier to complain.
I often joke that if St. Teresa had a computer or had to drive in traffic, she would not be a saint, but the reality is the frustrations of computer trouble or the annoying driver ahead are all excellent opportunities to perfect Christian virtue.  I am far from being the one to preach this but I hope to illuminate myself and you as well in these little things!  Yet the point is simple:  Work with what you have and offer it to God on a daily basis.  One day at a time, take the little things the Lord gives to you and turn them into prayers and opportunities to please God.
While it is hard to bless instead of to curse, or to clean something with a smile instead of a frown, or to be patient instead of in a hurry, we can all accomplish these goals with the grace of God.  The trick is being open to that grace and aware of the opportunities that God gives to us.  So while martyrdom may not be in our future, we can become a martyr for Christ by offering our will to him and becoming sanctified by the little things he gives us everyday
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Mark Moran, MA

Spiritual Renewal Before the Bread of Presence and Also Become Certified in Christian Counseling

Christian Counseling Those to Peace Via the Bread of Presence

The prayer of the quiet as taught by St. Teresa encourages us to find a place of solitude and silence to meditate upon God.  In some cases, this spiritual “retreat” is a perfect time to escape the world, heal old wounds, and become strengthened.  Christian Counselors should encourage those who are suffering mentally to find this solitude before the presence of the Holy Eucharist.  In Exodus 25:30, this is called the Bread of Presence.  Later through Christ’s institution of the Eucharist, the ideal of the Bread of Presence became literally the Body of and Blood of Christ as he resides in churches across the world.
This humble act of Christ to allow himself to become contained under the physical appearance of bread is a great gift and source of strength for us.   Just not to consume but to sit before in awe and wonder.  Consider giving our Lord an hour, as he asked of his apostles, in meditative thought before the Eucharist.  Allow it to saturate your being with grace and love.
This spiritual renewal and healing can be yours as was prophesied in the Book of Exodus and later instituted by Christ.
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Education in Christian Counseling: Protecting Your Child From the Dangers of the Internet

Education in Christian Counseling: Christian Parenting and the Internet

So on your “Good Christian Parental Checklist”, you can successfully declare before the Lord that you send your child to Church every Sunday, taught him his prayers, send him to a good Christian school and represent yourself as a good example.  You have created a stable home with Christian values and have attempted to fortify your child with the necessary Christian morals to ward off Satan, yet something is amiss despite your Christian Parenting.  Your child still occasional spurs out a dirty word and knows things he should not know about sex.  He exhibits behaviors that he has not learned at home nor supposedly from school.  Who is the culprit?
The answer more than likely is the internet.  Unlike the television which can be easily monitored, the internet creates the illusion that the child is only doing research, homework or playing an approved game.  The reality is the internet is a door to anything immoral, disgraceful and sinful.  While its benefits have been utilized by the Church, its misuse by unknowing children can lead them into a world of pornography or sexual predators.
Hence, your checklist needs to be updated for the 21st Century.  While we cannot completely filter what enters our childrens’ minds, we can protect them from numerous online images.  The first step is teaching your child how wrong these images are.  While curiosity still can overcome the child, at least through instruction, we know they have a feeling of what is right or what is wrong.  Secondly, we need to filter our internet server, blocking certain sites and closing up anything that could lead a child into pornographic areas.  Pop up control can also be essential.  Many times when we download things, pop ups can emerge for sexual advertisements.  Finally, we need to supervise.  Do not let your child disappear for hours on end without periodically checking on him to see what he is “surfing”–and please, sometimes its best to let them go outside and play!
With the invention of everything that is good, Satan hopes to corrupt and spoil it.  Much like corrupted humanity and dragged it down with him, he also corrupts anything that is good.  Today, the internet is a huge problem for keeping our children pure and is a direct window to Hell—if you let it be.
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Mark Moran, MA

Extraordinary and Saintly Love in the Desert of Sinai and Training in Christian Counseling

Training in Christian Counseling: Holy Nun of the Sinai Encompasses Christian Compassion

Obeying Christ’s command to see him in all, Sister Aziza fulfills Christ’s promise and fulfills Christian Compassion.  This saintly nun’s burning love for Christ goes out to the least of her brethren, especially runaway migrants from human trafficking gangs that plague the Desert of Sinai.

It with such admiration, that all Christians should imitate Sister Aziza in caring for those who have no where else to hide from unjust persecution.
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Certified Christian Counselors: Champions of the Children Against Abuse

Certified Christian Counselors and Reporting Abuse Within the Church

As cowards hide within the inner sanctuaries of the church to prey upon the innocents, we can see the plans of Satan to destroy the Church.  However, the words of Christ echo that the “gates of Hell shall not prevail against it”.  While these agents of Satan corrupt the hierarchical aspect of the Church, it is the role of the laity to help reform this branch of the Church Militant on Earth.   Certified Christian Counselors can play a special role as a mediator between clergy and laity in helping ministers, priests and also victims of sexual abuse.

Conflicted Emotions

Many times conflicted emotions can arise over the scandal that has struck the Church.  On one hand, many have been taught to trust and love the Church and have seen it as a holy Mother, while on the other hand, one is completely disgusted and distraught how the shepherds fed their little lambs to the wolves.  Yet, one should never feel conflict towards an institution when it contradicts the needs of humanity.  One should never feel conflict when wolves in sheeps’ clothing need to be removed from the fold.  And one should never feel conflict when innocence and trust is grossly destroyed.
Does this mean one should turn on the clergy?  Does this mean the holy priesthood and ministries of pastors are to be totally thrown away?  Do not think for a moment that as a physical and earthly institution that the church cannot be corrupted.  While it is preserved by the Holy Spirit in matters of faith and morals, the weaknesses of the Church are found in its broken members.  On earth the Church militant is open to sin.  The institution itself, while divinely inspired, nevertheless is made of sinners for the conversion of sinners.  Only within the Church Triumphant, or heavenly court, where the Mystical of Body of Christ lives in glory, is it free from corruption or the stain of Satan.  With this understood, we cannot dismiss the role of clergy or their important role in the Mystical Body of Christ on Earth.  However, we are called to root out the agents of Satan that hide in it.
One must realize that the earthly institution of the Church with its organization is merely a temporary mission in a heathen world.  It pales in compassion to the basilicas of heaven.  As pilgrims in an unholy land, we must understand that the Church was founded by Christ to baptize and feed our souls.  The institution, however, is not the complete church, but one aspect of it.   The Church in its entirety, at least on Earth, is comprised of all clergy and laity.  In this regard, when one considers loyalty to the Church, do not see the organization, but the Mystical Body of Christ and one’s faith in Christ.  One is not to defend the Church, but one is to defend one’s faith.  One is not to bend their knee before clergy, but only to Christ.  While many of the clergy may have become corrupt, or have hidden perverted monsters within their fold,  one cannot become like atheists or haters of the faith but become like Christian soldiers!  St. Catherine of Siena understood this.  While not priest or bishop, the Holy Spirit guided her to Avignon to admonish the Pope for leaving Rome.  And indeed the Pope did return to Rome!  One must remember that the laity represents the “church” as much as the clergy.  So to understand the church as merely men in funny hats is incomplete.  The Church is much more than that and the evil actions of politician priests and perverted men should not be seen as the Church.

Hence as Christians, we should not feel conflicted or betrayed by the true essence of the Church but by the current corrupt regime in the institution.  While the double piercing of our hearts bleed from the pain of the children and the disgrace of the priesthood, we must first protect the children.  In our protection, we must not seek to destroy the church but reform it.  We must realize that the Church is a tool to our salvation, not our salvation.  Only Christ is that.  Realize that Christ himself denounced the Pharisees of his day and would do no less in his condemnation of the putrid actions performed by his priests and ministers who supposedly represent him in the modern world.
There should be no conflict within a believer between punishing evil men of the  Church and one’s obligation to protect children.  The Church metaphysically is spotless, but evil men are not. As Christians, we should without limit, pursue and destroy their presence in the Church giving these roaches no place for shelter and exposing them for what they are.  For did not Christ say to those that harm his little ones that it would be better that they never been born or have a mill stone tied around their neck and to be cast into the sea?  Harsh words from our Lord, but words that show his conviction against the satanic agents that corrupt innocence.

The Christian Counselor and Reporting

With these ideas discussed and a proper understanding of what the Church is and what is not, how does the Christian Counselor emerge as a reporter in these cases.   First, the person who relays this information to you will undoubtedly feel conflicted.  The priest or minister seems like a beacon of holiness and above reproach.  The victim will feel like no one will believe him.  It is important to open  your arms to them and believe them.  If no one believes them they will fall into a deep pit of despair..  It is important to accept their cross and carry it as your own.  Second, do not be surprised if men in power use that  power for manipulation.  For most molesters, it is about power over the victim.  A priest or minister can use that power to dehumanize the victim.  They can make the victim feel like the molestation was the victim’s fault and that the victim is dirty.  Third, they can terrorize the victim with threats.  Such threats can include curses, or promises of Hell if they speak about the molestation to anyone else.
Once these things are told, it is the Christian Counselor’s duty to report this to the authorities.  Many dioceses or church structures suggest reporting to them.  They take the report, assign it to a committee and notify the authorities.  They then suspend the priest or minister while the investigation takes place.  I suggest notifying the authorities on your own, and then if you feel obliged, to notify the particular church government.  If it is small non-denominational community, then one only has the civil authorities to turn to.  Due to the Catholic Church’s lack of good faith the past Fifty years or so, despite promises of reform, I would not trust their inner workings and notify the civil authorities first.
This does not mean that certain bishops are not good men who will do what is right and punish these evil men.  It does mean though that past administrations may have secrets and corruption that no one wants exposed or seen by civil authorities.  These politician bishops will have much to answer to Christ but unfortunately we can no longer trust the institution of the Church and its clergy when it comes to temporal and civil matters.

What Afterwards for the Child?

After reporting, continued counseling will be required for the child, however, in some cases if Traumatic Grief or Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome persist then a Christian Counselor should work in union with an LPC.  The child will have to become numb to the images that flood his or her head and aided in facing the horror of molestation.  Years of therapy are sometimes needed that remove guilt, shame, anxiety and premature sexual awareness.

As a Christian Counselor, with permission from parents, it may be wise to instruct the child about the beauty of sex and how it is God’s gift.  One needs to repair the sexual image that was corrupted by the molester and Satan.  This perversion of something beautiful could haunt the child his whole life and create  pathological issues regarding their future sexual life.  Hence there is an extreme importance in teaching the child a Christian understanding of sex and how God intended it to be used as a beautiful gift.
Ultimately, the child should be made to feel guilt free and able to face his or her fears.  One needs to take the past and all its pain and incorporate it into a healthy present.  We, as counselors, cannot erase what happened, but we can help the victim understand and grow from it.  In this way, a healthy adaptation can be produced within the person.  The scars will remain, but a healing and new found strength will also manifest.
If I may close an example from nature.  I bought a Eastern Red Bud Tree for my front yard.  It was a young tree with a thin trunk that was as wide as its only two branches.  A strong wind came one day and knocked it down.  It could never stand straight again.  With no hope in sight, I attempted to prune it down but it accidentally snapped.  All that remained was a stick in the ground about six inches high, split down the middle.  Before the end of that Summer, the tree started to regrow branches from the barren and thought to be dead trunk.  I was amazed and gently tied and fused together the trunk’s split.  The next year it grew new branches.  Finally after another Summer of growth, it hovered over fifteen feet high.  Recently this Spring, it actually bloomed for the first time and in the later months of this Summer has grown over Twenty Feet.  Yet the scar at its base is still there as a reminder to me of what happened to it.  This extraordinary revival of a tree is but a small ability when compared to the human soul that is infused by grace and cared for by its heavenly Father.  Allow yourself as a  certified Christian Counselor to become one of the Lord’s tools in regrowing these young souls so that they again bloom a spiritual flower of innocence.

Mark Moran, MA

The Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross and Learn How to Become a Christian Counselor

We Must Have One Cross With Christ

 

The Feast of the Exaltation of the Cross is on September 14th.  This great feast commerates the rediscovery of the Holy cross by St. Helen, mother of Constantine, in the Fourth Century.  Stories retold tell of the miraculous nature of the cross when it was discovered.  Of the three crosses that were uncovered, only the third cross miraculously cured the sick in Jerusalem.  With such certitude, the cross was exalted and eventually found its way to Rome as one of Christendom’s most precious relics.

The Cross and Us

The cross of Christ became the instrument and means to Christ’s death.  Through that death, came life and this symbol of death became also a symbol of life.  As Christians, St. Paul tells us that we are crucified with Christ but will also rise with Christ.  How are we crucified?  We are crucified by accepting our own crosses in life and uniting them with the suffering of Christ.  In this way, our wills conform to Christ, and our crosses become one.

It is also extremely important to realize that while the Jews and Romans were the physical means of Christ’s death, it was actually our sins that bore the weight of the cross on Christ.  In this way our own sins became tied to this crude piece of wood in a deeper metaphysical way than one can ever imagine.  The weight of the cross bore the offense of every sin past, present and future.  Yet our Lord endured its weight for the salvation of our souls.
Like Simon of Cyrene, will we help our Lord carry the cross?  Like John and the Holy Women, will we follow Christ to Calvary?  Like Christ’s holy mother, will we spiritually die with Christ?
We must answer yes to all these questions.  We must accept our crosses, unite them with Christ and carry them to our own Calvary.
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Christian Counseling Certification: Discipleship Video

Christian Counseling Certification: Are You A True Disciple?

If you are a true disciple of Christ, then Christ is not just Sunday conversation but a reality in your interior and meditative life.  Furthermore, you seek Christ in everyone and spread his message to everyone.  The video below shows the true nature of discipleship.  Please click on it and share.
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