Spiritual Mentorship

Online Training in Christian Counseling: Spiritual Mentorship

Christian spiritual counseling is a vocation that goes beyond a mere professional service. It is spiritual gift of love that through the Holy Spirit manifests between mentor and protegee. The spiritual mentor may be a priest, minister or lay person, but the central theme is a bond of a trust and spiritual guidance. This bond is as old as the Christian Church as Paul mentored Timothy and so forth. The final element is releasing. Christ finally released his apostles and disciples and trusted they would help nurture and grow the infant church. As spiritual parents, a mentor too must eventually release his spiritual child and hope that he will utilize his spiritual gifts for the benefit of the church.

The primary model of mentorship is Jesus Christ, who was the ultimate mentor to his 12 apostles and disciples. Through Christ we see three elements of mentorship that involve initiation, building and releasing. First, the mentor starts the relationship and goes out and finds the spiritual children to guide as Christ found his apostles. Second, is building. Christ built the foundation of this church through his apostles and disciples. Through his example, he taught them and instructed them and laid the foundation for them to become the leaders of the early Church.
Through this model, spiritual mentors can help harvest the faith of the many and allow it to bear fruit. As a mentor, one may be a disciple, or a coach, or a teacher, or even a counselor, but within all these roles, the idea of trust and development of Christ’s kingdom on Earth become central to the vocation. Via example, prayer, trust, mutual accountability and ultimately servanthood, the spiritual mentor becomes a pivotal player in the harvesting of the faithful. This is far more than any career but a spiritual vocation based upon a Christ model. What is most important is that it not a particular call to only the ministers, priests and religious but also a universal call to all aspects of Christian life.
In conclusion, it is the vocational duty of mentors to harvest the spiritual talents of the Mystical Body of Christ. As mentors, they too possess their own unique charism of the Holy Spirit, and through that spiritual gift of counseling they are able to guide and help others find their place in the church.  If you are interested in Christian Counseling Courses, please review the program.  Also if you would like to take online training in Christian Counseling, then please review the program.
By Mark Moran, MA

Single Life: A Christian Vocation Too

Online Education Courses in Christian Counseling: The Single Vocation

Today’s modern world has a check list for success. Do you have a good job? Do you have a nice car? With such secularistic views, people feel they are in a race to fill in every blank. One such measuring stick of success is marriage. If one is not married after twenty five, questions arise concerning one’s self worth. This is not a Christian paradigm, nor is it the spirituality Christ expects from lay persons.

For so long, there were two roads a person could take; ministry or marriage. However, recently a third life style has emerged that demands equal respect. In fact, this third life style of the single life has in some cases been called a vocation; A vocation that bears the crosses of loneliness and exemplifies Christian characteristics of virtue. For some this vocation is temporary and it teaches and prepares one for marriage, for others it is a permanent role that demands if not more than marriage or ministry. Such single lay people are able to share their talents, not just within the confines of a family or the church, but are better equipped to teach Christ in the marketplace and are less confined to give to his or her fellow man.
Yet despite this new calling for some, the cross of loneliness can be unbearable for some. As Christian Spiritual counselors, it is one’s duty to help guide the person who is single. Within this guidance, the counselor should look for possible priestly or ministry vocation, but also investigate the urgency for a partner. The person should be given a clear view on the ideals of marriage and what it entails. Secular ideals should be dismissed and replaced with clear cut Christian morals in regards to marriage. The person should also be guided in the values in Christian virtue and how a single person can enhance their spirituality and be open to God’s grace when the possibility of a partner comes his or her way.
In the meantime, the paradigm of the Christian single should mimic that of Jesus Christ. Christ never married, and while Christianity’s high priest, never officially held a religious position. Yet Christ, as a human, experienced all the emotions of a single person-albeit not possessing a fallen nature. Christ’s needs as a single person were tempted in the desert by Satan, and during each trial, he triumphantly rejected the expectations of the world and acknowledged true virtue and good living.
So it is important to emphasize to singles that there is a plan for them. If that plan involves marriage, so be it, but even if it does not, their life destiny still has an intrinsic value which can greatly contribute to the Mystical Body of Christ. In the meantime, the counseling should emphasize in overcoming personal crosses, eliminating false notions of happiness, and emulating a plan in the model of Christ. If these things are emphasized, a person can truly walk away from a session with dignity and value in their single life.  If you would like to learn more, consider taking Christian Counseling Courses.
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By Mark Moran, MA

Counseling Those Through a Broken Marriage: Christian Ideals

Online Certification Program in Christian Counseling: Christian Ideals and Divorce

                Divorce and broken romantic relationships are never the first thought that emerges as one meets that special someone.  Ideas of happiness, security, and fidelity are the thoughts that emerge in one’s mind instead of anger, sadness and betrayal.  God in the Garden, created male and female to complement one another in a state of friendship, love and   

companionship.  Later, Christ, would cement this union in the indissoluble bond of marriage.  He would raise it to a level of a holy sacrament, sanctifying the natural bond of companionship to that of a holy bond reflecting the love of the Trinity. 
                While these Christian ideals exist in both mind and world, we still nevertheless see ideals that are sometimes not met in a fallen world; a world where Lucifer, the hater of the marriage and love, hopes to corrupt with divorce and hate.  This sad reality affects many good people and spiritual counselors have the difficult task of rebuilding the wholeness of the person to the former self.  Christ, while denouncing divorce, nevertheless understands the failures and deficiencies of certain partners.  Christ realizes that while many hope to fulfill their sacred vow of “for better or worst”, there still exist many who will undermine the good intentions of their partner.  This is the sad reality of the real world, and while ideals of Christian excellence still exist, these ideals are becoming more and more obsolete and distant in a corrupt, narcissistic and immoral world that hopes for ease and pleasure in every human action.   This article will look review three concepts regarding broken relationships.  First, we will review false notions.  Second, we will look into some grief concepts of attachment theory and grief recovery and finally, we will look at some sociological reactions we see from broken individuals of divorce.  All of this, however, will be guided and illuminated via a Christian perspective that hopes to alleviate the suffering of the broken in this fallen world.

If Its Broke, Throw It Away?

 It is the true that the era of fixing something if it is broke is over.  Instead, the modern generation with its lack of patience or work ethic, would much rather throw something that is broke away.  We see it in every aspect in life.   Advertising floods our minds with if something is outdated, upgrade.  Far gone are notions of repairs on the simple things in life.  Instead of sewing a shirt that loses a button, materialism pushes one to buy an entire new shirt.  While these analogies are a far cry from actual human interaction, one cannot dismiss the modern world view of quick fixes and minimal effort or “out it goes”.  When such detrimental philosophies exist, can one not expect it to permeate other aspects of life?  If one simply infuses secular

humanism, materialism, moral relativism, and other “isms” that promote self over others, then one can understand why relationships also fail and divorce rates rise. 
     What then to look for?  When two people come for counseling, what personalities manifest?  While the Church attempts in Pre-Cana to pin point potential ethical and moral differences among couples, it sometimes cannot find everything.  Sometimes existing deep within the soul of a partner is a person not known.  Hence the frequent comments of “he or she changed” or “he or she was not the person I thought he or she was” are heard in mass quantity.  The marriage counselor looks to discover what is now missing from those once blissful “honeymoon” days.  What went wrong and who was at fault?   In the end, many of the issues can point to the previous paragraph and the many social “isms” listed.  This is why it is so imperative for people to truly know one another  beyond the physical.  While the Church strictly forbids pre-marital sex, a counselor still must exist in the reality of the world.  Most couples, even Christian, partake in pre-marital sex.  In many cases, the relationship becomes sex.  With this comes a flood of emotional bonds that are only meant for husband and wife.  Obviously this pre-martial chastity feat is easier said than done, especially when emotions run high and sex is seen everywhere in our social media.  Yet, the distortion sex can play in regards to one’s true emotional bond and who someone is can play a major deceptive force.  In the end, no one can separate emotion from the physical act of conjugation.  Even the most ardent hedonist or narcissist will become attached or emotional in some way, albeit selfish, with someone who frequents their bed chamber.  It is inevitable.  It is perhaps these reasons why one sees so many divorces.  People do not truly know each other and there exists more than ever a series of “isms” and ideals that are contrary to the gospel.  With marriage becoming a contract instead of a covenant, this alarming trend will continue and people will suffer heart break.

Grief Recovery

                The second thing a Christian Counselor should consider is the actual grief recovery process.  Attachment is a very powerful part of human existence.  Attachment Theory first promoted by John Bowlby looked at the intimate bond infants and children had for their parents.  Humans as social creatures must form bonds.  Healthy social skills that promote bond building are essential in human psychological development.  When these attachments are torn away, it can produce great stress and emotional pain to the individual.  These attachments are also important in romantic love.  The intensity of the sexual act only intensifies most bonds.   Hence the intensity of the bond correlates with the intensity of the grief and time of recovery.  While most people are resilient, pathological grief reactions can occur that lead to depression or other forms of complicated grief after divorce.  Those who are more prone to intense grief reactions are usually the ex-spouses who were more dependent, financially as well as emotionally, upon the ex-lover.  Betrayal, abuse and false expectations can also intensify the grief reaction.  
                The sudden loneliness and anxiety that follows a breakup can also intensify the grief reaction.  In addition to the shock that everything was an illusion and the adaption that accompanies this horrifying change, partners are now finding themselves in their big lonely bed by themselves.  The smallest scent or image can produce a tidal wave of emotional imagery that brings the person to tears over the loss of a relationship.  Unfortunately there are no short cuts in this tale and everyone must work through their grief and adapt and format the loss of a relationship into their new life story.   While the scars  

remain, one is able to adjust, grow and find wholeness.  The past chapters will always remain in one’s life story, but they do not have to be the chapters that dominate the theme of the overall tale.  Via counseling, prayer and a strong relationship with Christ one again can find wholeness and love; a love that transcends mere human bonds, but a love for Christ that heals and allows one to love him or herself again.
Social Reactions
                Crawling out of the hole of divorce, however, is far from easy.  While emotional issues tear at one, one is also besieged with legal and financial issues that can further cripple one emotionally.  This is even intensified more when children and change of living conditions occur that result in alterations of household traditions.  No longer does there exist certainty but only doubt.  This leads to a large array of different sociological reactions to divorce that are beyond the mere stress and depression.  People simply become different than their usual self during this difficult transition.   Some people become distant from the opposite sex.  Cynical and doubting of any person worthy of trust, these individuals either avoid intimacy or seek it only for pleasurable purposes with no true meaning.  They fear commitment because they do not wish to be hurt, but their desires to satisfy the loneliness drive them to find something.  Some find that something in random sexual friends, drugs, or off the wall adventures.  Others are the opposite.  They are in such a desperate state that they hope to capture the essence of any relationship to fill their void.  In many cases, these rebound relationships end in disaster.  The reality is they cannot find happiness in themselves due to the break up, so they seek it in other people.  They seek the “relationship” and correlate it with any face.  They forget that the relationship is the byproduct of the person and not vice versa.  With these confusing times, some find resiliency eventually, while others search in the dark for any light they can find.  In these cases, counseling is needed to help the person find wholeness.
Wholeness in Christ
                Ultimately, finding this wholeness again and healing the deep wounds of divorce is a spiritual endeavor and trek.  It cannot happen fast, but is a process.  Like any process, there will be oscillation of emotion.  There will be “better days” and there will be “bad days” but ultimately the process if guided correctly will lead the person out of this valley of despair. 
                Wholeness is best found in Christ.  Through the church, prayer, support groups, the sacraments (for Catholics) and true friends, one is able to overcome the over whelming change.  They are able to identify that the past will not define their future.  They will be able to love themselves and seek not what they think they need, but only what Christ wills for them.  By accepting and carrying one’s cross and accepting the will of the Father, one begins the first step of healing.  Christian suffering identifies crosses throughout one’s life and utilizes them to become stronger in one’s faith in Christ and to share in  

his   suffering.   Once one submits their will to Christ and embraces their cross, then and only then will they discover the sweetness of its weight and the company of Christ who burdens most of their pain.  Through that company in suffering, one again will rise from the ashes, become whole, and find new beginnings in greater chapters of their life story.
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Mark Moran, MA, SCC-C, GC-C
               
               

How Christians Should Regard Worries of the Future

How Christians Should Regard Issues of the Future

The question of the future is a universal query of all men. The unknown fascinates and scares the human mind. These questions while natural also can lead to dangerous routes for Christians. Obsession with the future can become a major distraction to one’s spirituality and mental health as well as spiritual dangers with the dark one. 

Christian Spiritual Advisors need to guide their clients away from these distractions and darker places. On to many occasions, Christians flee to the advice of mediums or spiritualists whose talents rest in the occult. Christian Counselors need to remind their clients that these avenues are dangerous and at best are cheap tricks by Satan. The future can only come from God.

Is this to insinuate that foreseen knowledge is entirely evil? The reality is God does reveal the future in Scripture and through various prophets and mystics who are blessed with a spiritual ability. The trouble is discernment with who possesses a God driven gift from God and who utilizes the powers of Satan. 

Christian Counselors, however, while acknowledging legitimate sources from God, should try to push their clients into focusing more on their present spirituality. To many times people focus on tomorrow instead of focusing on now. There certainly will be no tomorrow if one does not live the present. With this in mind, one should live day by day and while hoping for a good future, not become obsessed with it so that it damages the present.  If you are interested in the Christian Counseling Certification Program, please review it.
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By Mark Moran, MA

How Counselors Should Cultivate Vocations to the Religious Life

Many are called but few are chosen has always been a phrase to identify the elite. Within Christianity and scripture this is also true. The vocation to become a minister or priest is a special calling and should be cultivated by Christian Counselors It does not entail superiority because many have other vocational callings in the Mystical Body of Christ. It does however answer in spiritual terms the highest calling Christ can give someone. St. Paul emphasizes this in his writings as well.  Rare and precious, vocational callings should be nurtured at a young age when signs begin to manifest. Potential vocations can be seen in children who possess extreme spiritual insight and above average interest and love of God. Also supernatural occurrences around the child can spell the potential for a vocation.
As Christian  Spiritual Counselors, sometimes one needs to help an adult rediscover his or her vocation. Over years, secularism and vice can corrupt a vocation but through faith and rediscovery a person can return to his vocation. This is a truly special moment for a Christian counselor who can help re-foster a lost vocation.
If you are working with a person in discernment of vocation, you should encourage prayer, scripture and retreats. It is also good to send a person to visit a religious community or seminary and see if the person likes it.

A vocation is a special thing that should not be taken lightly. Whether it is a minister, priest, nun or religious, all vocations are gifts to this world from God. As a Spiritual Director, one should take this very seriously when counseling potential vocations.
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By Mark Moran, MA

Use of the General Resurrection in Counseling

The ultimate victory of joy over grief and life over death is Christ’s resurrection. Through Christ’s resurrection, mankind received a glimpse of the eschatological reality that would replace the temporal mode of existence. Christ’s glorified body reveals the victory over suffering and pain in man’s temporal body.  Counseling sessions should include such optimistic views in dark times.

The Glorified Body is the Body God Always Intended For Us

The new glorified body is an outward and sacramental sign of the joy the soul will experience. Rising from the ashes of temporal existence, the new body will be free of limitations and pain and experience only the blessings of God. This promise is seen throughout Scripture when St. Paul reminds everyone that one day man will also rise and his body and soul will be reunited in perfect bliss. Pope John Paul II continued this theological discourse as well and mentioned that the new body will be spared the limitations of the temporal body but most notably will be free from suffering and death. As Christ’s body shed its temporal limitations, albeit free of original sin, so shall humanity shed its limitations and the glorified body shall bask in the sun of the Trinity. Both soul and body shall share in this ultimate beatific vision and forever be spared the stains of suffering and sin it experienced in the temporal realm.
In addition to being spared death, suffering and the hideous mark of original sin that scarred human nature in the temporal phrase, this theology of bodily resurrection also throws to the side the erroneous Neo Platonic ideals that the body is a prison for the soul. The whole of human nature is comprised of body and soul and both will share in the Beatific vision. The superiority of the soul is only in function not essence.
Christian  Spiritual Counselors should emphasize that temporal suffering leads to eschatological happiness; a happiness that will be equally shared by body and soul in perfect harmony. If you would like to learn how to become a certified biblical Christian counselor, then please review.
Mark Moran, MA

Counseling Perspective to Consider with the Elderly

Counseling the Elderly

When counseling, one will find that the age group they counsel for will determine many of the issues that commonly become important during sessions. Each age group psychologically has a mental list of needs, achievements, and goals. If those goals are not met, certain age groups react to these “failures”. It is important as a counselor to see the common themes that pertain to each age group and to guide each patient through their age related dilemma. In the end, all ages should reflect on Christ.  

The later years should be the most blessed. It is a gift and blessing from God to reach an older age. Correlating with greater age should be the blessing of family, wisdom, and security, however, in many cases some or all of this lacks. In replacement, we see individuals who fight age, who do not grow in wisdom and who physically degenerate. In accepting the good with the bad, a Christian ages with dignity and respect and should become an example and a leader of the community that the youth look to for guidance and wisdom. Only through good life and faith in God can one morally become a paradigm for the Christian community. As an elder of the community, one should be giving wisdom and guidance to others while preparing him or herself for the next life. Unfortunately this is not always the case as noted and Christian counselors are needed to help the elderly adjust. Even a morally sound soul will encounter challenges of age but with Christ all is possible. With Christ, the elderly can age with dignity and accept their crosses and set a good example for the following generation.
As the one enters the twilight of their existence many things change. Adjustment and acceptance is the key to aging with Christian dignity. The new role played should be accepted with joy despite the loss of previous roles. The primary adjustment, however, is loss. While all of the primary caregivers of one’s youth are gone, the loss of other peers and friends become evident; even the loss of a spouse or a brother or sister become annual affairs. This forces the elderly to face death squarely in the face and answer the existential question of what comes after life on earth. If one is accepting of their new role and secure in Christ, such questions are not as daunting, but regardless, the psychological effect of death is real and apparent. Christian counselors should help the elderly face these questions and help strengthen their faith and hope in Christ. They should also encourage the elderly to take an active role as spiritual mentors and elders to the youth to help re-energize their purpose in life. Many elderly are retired or physically incapable of past tasks. A Christian counselor can greatly give new meaning and purpose to the elderly by creating new and important roles. By giving the elderly a sense of purpose, one can combat loneliness or loss of self esteem.
In addition to adjustment and acceptance, Christian counselors should also be aware of some of the following problems that the elderly may face. First, a counselor should be very aware of physical changes and how those physical changes affect the person emotionally, mentally and spiritually. The second problem is economic issues. Many elderly lack financial means to carry on. The social security check is sometimes all they have to make it month from month. These issues, compounded with physical decline, loneliness, loss of a spouse and lack of self esteem, can become overbearing on the elderly. In this regard, the elderly need to be given hope, love, and companionship. They need to be visited and cared for. This is the duty of the church and the counselor.
In conclusion, scripture speaks of the elderly as sources of wisdom. As a younger population, we must give respect and honor to the previous generations contributions to society, however, if we do not care for their spiritual, mental and physical needs, their wisdom will be lost.  If you are interested in the program, please review the Christian Counseling Program.

By Mark Moran, MA

Demonic Activity and How a Christian Counselor Can Help

 Christian Counseling and Spiritual Warfare with Satan

Christian spiritual advisors should be well versed in metaphysics. In their dealings of God and angels they must also unfortunately be prepared to deal with dark side metaphysics as well. Like the dark side of human nature, angels also have a dark chapter in their history. This dark side includes the fall of a select few who rejected God and chose to rule in Hell rather than serve in Heaven. This is the study of the fallen angels or demons. Unlike the love angels have for man, demons are driven by hate and jealousy of mankind. They have failed their test to remain faithful to the Lord. Unlike human nature which is fallen and open to numerous mistakes, the angelic nature possesses super intelligence and can foresee consequences more clear than the human intellect. Human nature is far less intelligent and unable to comprehend the magnitude of decisions. Angels, however, understand these decisions with far more clarity. Hence this superior intelligence produced an angelic fall that was once, final and fixed. The single choice to serve God was rewarded with paradise while the single choice to rebel against God was punished via Hell.

As stated in Scripture, Michael and the good angels cast Lucifer and the evil angels into Hell. While Scripture is brief about this battle, one clearly understands that Lucifer or Satan became the arch nemesis of humanity. His sole purpose is to defile God’s creation to spite God. Which brings one to various theological questions? Why did Lucifer rebel? What is Hell?

Lucifer’s Choice to Rule in Hell rather than Serve in Heaven

Lucifer’s choice presents a dilemma for many concerning the fact a good God would allow evil to ever taint his creation. Augustine argued that the allowance of free will permitted the existence of evil. God did not create evil, but evil was an absence of that goodness. God allowed the chance of deviation from good because He valued the beauty of choice. The choice that makes His creation free, the choice that makes His creation to be made in His own image and likeness. This deficiency that existed in Lucifer was attributed to pride the chief vice and root of all sin. Lucifer chose his own will over the will of God’s and refused to serve. He found more joy in his own inherent beauty that in the awesome nature of God. Some theologians have even speculated that his rebellion was also related to the thought that the Son would take upon human flesh and he would be forced to kneel before human flesh. Of course this speculation refers to a theology that supports the thought that the Son would have become man even if Adam and Eve had never sinned. Regardless, the primary element of the story is Lucifer refused to serve and because of that evil entered into the world. That same evil corrupted his beauty and transformed his inner light into a black energy void of goodness. He and his followers retained their angelic nature that was inherent to them, but their essence was corrupted and disfigured. They were now fallen angels or demons.
Scripture also speaks of them being cast into Hell there to suffer for eternity. Did Hell exist prior to this? Does God send his fallen creation to Hell? It is hard to theologically define a metaphysical place but what one does know is that Hell is a   place void of God. Whether it is an actual place or a state of existence is not known, but its reality is a dogmatic belief of Christianity. I think one can logically conclude that Hell was not created by God originally but was a place “created” by Lucifer and his legions that refused to worship God and refused to repent. The reality that their own choice stripped them of the chance of the Beatific Vision is one of their greatest torments. What is most ironic is the pride that sent them there shall forever keep them there. There persistent pride prevents them from ever begging forgiveness. They realize the justice of their fate but in their spite grow in greater hate even though their sentence is just. In this misery they lash out against God and curse Him and all his creation.

This lashing out against God’s people was seen throughout the Scriptures; The story of the snake in Genesis, Lucifer and his hate of Job, Christ’s battle with Lucifer in the desert, Christ’s numerous exorcisms, and finally the numerous mentions of Satan in the Book of Revelation. The terrifying reality is these creatures exist and they want to harm humanity. As a counselor, it is important to understand their powers and their intents. One cannot deny the devil’s existence but realize he does exist. This is not to support over indulgence in attributing maladies to satanic influence, but it does support a healthy realization that some “mental problems” may not be mental but originate from a spiritual source not from God. I will conclude this section with a few examples of satanic activity in the world and how one as a Christian counselor can identify these presences and rate them in magnitude.

Demonic Activity On Earth

The most common demonic activity on earth is the fundamental temptation. While the flesh is inclined to its passions which we call concupiscence, some temptations do indeed originate from the satanic realm; Those whispers from the little devil with the pitch fork on our left shoulder, compelling us to tell that white lie while “funny” are not too amusing when we realize the nature of the entity that is urging one to commit certain sins. In fact certain demons are attracted to certain sins and find joy in the committal of those actions. They merely need a human agent. The greatest goal is when the action no longer becomes an isolated sin, but a vice and habitual. In many ways, one’s own fallen human nature partake in vice without the hiss of the devil in one’s ear. I feel “The Screwtape Letters” by C.S. Lewis is a masterpiece in investigating the whispers of the evil one and how without even an apparition he can control so many souls-souls that may even deny his very existence.
The second level of demonic presence is Infestation. This usually deals with demonic activity or evil spirits of the departed. Obviously, there would be a difference in these haunting if one is simply dealing with a spirit of a person rather a demonic entity, but the fright that accompanies these haunting is definitely intense. One who is in-tune with the evil that is present can sometimes even sense the evil that permeates the air. Infestations usually deal with places or objects. The spiritual decay that surrounds these temporal things is an attachment that can only be severed through exorcism and multiple blessings.

The third level of demonic activity is Obsession. Obsession deals with a demonic entity that has found a close attachment to person. Apparitions may take place, visions, and in some cases torment. Obsession can be a precursor to Possession, but in some cases it can be the rage of the enemy upon a saintly figure. Again, if you are counseling someone who is experiencing these apparitions and science or medicine cannot explain it, prayer, fasting, and if necessary additional help from the Church may be needed.

Spiritual Direction and Exorcism

 The final level of demonic activity is Possession. Possession can be imperfect and perfect. Perfect possession is the possession one rarely hears about or sees because the host is perfectly content with his demonic counterpart. There is no struggle but open acceptance. This possession can be sensed by Christians with “spiritual vision”. These possessions are usually found in the occult, Wicca, the Church of Satan and its subdivision, the Temple of Set. It is very important to understand these black religions. While many disavow the belief in Satan, except the Temple of Set, they are all satanic in origin. The Church of Satan worships self, and extols the angel of light, Lucifer, supposedly in figurative terms. I do not personally believe they merely worship self but also Satan. Wicca and many occult religions also would deny the belief in the devil but would contend they worship the earth, a neo-pantheism. Yet as Christians, we all realize that the pagan gods of old were merely demons masquerading as gods. The Temple of Set actually proclaimed worship of the angel Lucifer when they subdivided from the Church of Satan. They felt the need to openly admit their worship of the devil instead of pretending to be a secular humanistic club for narcissistic self love. In the end, their practices reveal what they are. Their black magic, their invocations, their witchcraft, their spells, and their curses all point to a master who is not Christ, but the great deceiver, Lucifer.
Imperfect possession is the next type of possession. This possession is not wanted. It presents a battle between the soul and demon possessing the body. Christ, himself, cast out many demons throughout Scripture and laid the groundwork for His Church to continue in this warfare against Satan. Christ emphasized two things. First, it must be done in His name and second, it must accompany fasting and spiritual cleansing. While Hollywood has turned exorcism and possession into a horror production with extreme visual effects and outrageous story plots, one need to only experience the most simple of possessions to find enough terror to the last them a life time. In Malachi Martin’s book, “Hostage to the Devil”, five true cases of exorcism are relayed. Transcripts and audio from them are replicated in the pages. Naturally this creates a more than “R” rated script but it presents the foul nature of the demonic and the seriousness of spiritual cleanliness. The book also presents in-depth analysis on demonic activity and covers the Roman Catholic ritual of Exorcism. Many of the souls in this book are victim of Satan via Ouija Boards, occult meditation, new age meditation, or divining with mediums. Yet unlike perfect possession, the souls cry out for help. In these cries, one can experience, the speaking of tongues, superior strength of the person, unexplained wounds and markings, bleeding of the walls and cold change of temperature.
While any Christian can perform an exorcism by following the formula, it sometimes takes many hours for the demon to finally reveal himself and leave the body. This is why it is not recommended that one attempt this alone or without a praying Christian community. Roman Catholics have used the ancient ritual of Exorcism which has a very high success rate but even the Catholic priest does not come alone but is accompanied by friends and members of the community to pray and try to subdue the demonic entity. As a counselor it is extremely important if you encounter someone who claims to be possessed that you follow the proper channels and guidelines. The Rite of Exorcism should be performed by professionals with experience and should not be attempted until all scientific and medical explanations have been exhausted. This is not to say the simple Christian with faith and Christ cannot cast out such demons, but it can still pose a spiritual and physical threat to oneself. Realize, these entities are extremely powerful and if you arouse their anger, in their free will, they will come after you as anyone else. Great faith and sanctity are a pre-requisite.
I believe sincerely that spiritual warfare with the demonic entities is a daily occurrence. This war, however, is not only limited to the fallen angels, but their disciples on earth as well. While one prays for these deceived individuals one cannot lower their defenses because they can present a very dangerous risk to other people. Obviously there is a physical risk with such dangerous individuals, but I would rather speak of the spiritual risks. Some people can fall under great demonic oppression merely by curses and focusing. If you ever have a client and he or she speaks of his or her past involving Wicca, witchcraft or the Church of Satan, their escape from the cult may have come with a price. The occult numerously casts  
curses upon people that result in increased demonic activity in the life of the cursed individual. This leads to “bad luck”. It is not magic, but merely incantations of evil upon another individual. The believer is fortified with God, his angel, and grace, however, those with less spiritual strength can become prey to these predators.

Tools of a Christian Spiritual Advisor

As a counselor, you must be their strength and via faith in Christ, prayer and fasting, cast the curse back to its origination. The power of Christ is amazing in these instances. A pray, a laying of hands, a call to St. Michael, or a blessing of the home or person can be amazing in its power over these “magicians”. Within Roman Catholic circles, the brown scapular, the St. Benedict medal, and other prayers are also useful tools against such evil doers. Realize, even the least powerful angel is more powerful than Lucifer. If armed with the angelic hosts, the power of the Holy Spirit, and Christ’s name one can help the tortured soul who has become preyed upon. Still, in some cases, the Lord permits certain evils. Why? It is beyond our comprehension. We can speculate for his greater glory? Or is it a confrontation that must be dealt with to strengthen the soul in faith and hope in Christ’s power? Certainly, if one is victim to these occurrences, while frightened, how could they then doubt God’s existence? If the devil exists, certainly does God and that should give one great joy.
In conclusion, as a  Christian counselor, one should take great honor in this spiritual combat. However, one should also be a wise soldier and not fall victim to pride in his battle with the dark one. Our power over demons is not inherent to our own attributes but only via the Blood of Christ. Without Christ, they would certainly devour us.
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By Mark Moran, MA

Rev. Neil King Answers What Christian Counseling Is and Become Certified in Christian Counseling

What is Christian Counseling and Become Certified in Christian Counseling?

Rev. Neil King attempts to answer this query in this short video.  In it he gives his opinion on what Christian Counseling is and how one should approach life via a Christian view. You can become certified in christian counseling to start by reviewing.

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Counseling the Elderly

The elderly are supposed to be paradigms and models of virtue. Their age should be seen as an accomplishment and they in turn should be revered and respected. However, in this fallen world, this is not the case and many elderly are mistreated. In some cases, the elderly even fail to fulfill their own expectations. The Christian counselor is called to help all but the elderly deserve

special attention. They need help in adjusting and accepting new roles. They need physical and mental care as loneliness, illness, lack of self esteem, and loss of friends mount each day. With good counseling, they can understand their new role and proudly adjust as leaders and elders of the community. Christian counselors have the opportunity to help the elderly adjust so that they can share their wisdom with the previous generation. If you are interested in Christian counseling and how it can affect not only the elderly but all age groups, you should consider the Christian spiritual counseling certification at AIHCP.