Use of the General Resurrection in Counseling

The ultimate victory of joy over grief and life over death is Christ’s resurrection. Through Christ’s resurrection, mankind received a glimpse of the eschatological reality that would replace the temporal mode of existence. Christ’s glorified body reveals the victory over suffering and pain in man’s temporal body.  Counseling sessions should include such optimistic views in dark times.

The Glorified Body is the Body God Always Intended For Us

The new glorified body is an outward and sacramental sign of the joy the soul will experience. Rising from the ashes of temporal existence, the new body will be free of limitations and pain and experience only the blessings of God. This promise is seen throughout Scripture when St. Paul reminds everyone that one day man will also rise and his body and soul will be reunited in perfect bliss. Pope John Paul II continued this theological discourse as well and mentioned that the new body will be spared the limitations of the temporal body but most notably will be free from suffering and death. As Christ’s body shed its temporal limitations, albeit free of original sin, so shall humanity shed its limitations and the glorified body shall bask in the sun of the Trinity. Both soul and body shall share in this ultimate beatific vision and forever be spared the stains of suffering and sin it experienced in the temporal realm.
In addition to being spared death, suffering and the hideous mark of original sin that scarred human nature in the temporal phrase, this theology of bodily resurrection also throws to the side the erroneous Neo Platonic ideals that the body is a prison for the soul. The whole of human nature is comprised of body and soul and both will share in the Beatific vision. The superiority of the soul is only in function not essence.
Christian  Spiritual Counselors should emphasize that temporal suffering leads to eschatological happiness; a happiness that will be equally shared by body and soul in perfect harmony. If you would like to learn how to become a certified biblical Christian counselor, then please review.
Mark Moran, MA

Counseling Perspective to Consider with the Elderly

Counseling the Elderly

When counseling, one will find that the age group they counsel for will determine many of the issues that commonly become important during sessions. Each age group psychologically has a mental list of needs, achievements, and goals. If those goals are not met, certain age groups react to these “failures”. It is important as a counselor to see the common themes that pertain to each age group and to guide each patient through their age related dilemma. In the end, all ages should reflect on Christ.  

The later years should be the most blessed. It is a gift and blessing from God to reach an older age. Correlating with greater age should be the blessing of family, wisdom, and security, however, in many cases some or all of this lacks. In replacement, we see individuals who fight age, who do not grow in wisdom and who physically degenerate. In accepting the good with the bad, a Christian ages with dignity and respect and should become an example and a leader of the community that the youth look to for guidance and wisdom. Only through good life and faith in God can one morally become a paradigm for the Christian community. As an elder of the community, one should be giving wisdom and guidance to others while preparing him or herself for the next life. Unfortunately this is not always the case as noted and Christian counselors are needed to help the elderly adjust. Even a morally sound soul will encounter challenges of age but with Christ all is possible. With Christ, the elderly can age with dignity and accept their crosses and set a good example for the following generation.
As the one enters the twilight of their existence many things change. Adjustment and acceptance is the key to aging with Christian dignity. The new role played should be accepted with joy despite the loss of previous roles. The primary adjustment, however, is loss. While all of the primary caregivers of one’s youth are gone, the loss of other peers and friends become evident; even the loss of a spouse or a brother or sister become annual affairs. This forces the elderly to face death squarely in the face and answer the existential question of what comes after life on earth. If one is accepting of their new role and secure in Christ, such questions are not as daunting, but regardless, the psychological effect of death is real and apparent. Christian counselors should help the elderly face these questions and help strengthen their faith and hope in Christ. They should also encourage the elderly to take an active role as spiritual mentors and elders to the youth to help re-energize their purpose in life. Many elderly are retired or physically incapable of past tasks. A Christian counselor can greatly give new meaning and purpose to the elderly by creating new and important roles. By giving the elderly a sense of purpose, one can combat loneliness or loss of self esteem.
In addition to adjustment and acceptance, Christian counselors should also be aware of some of the following problems that the elderly may face. First, a counselor should be very aware of physical changes and how those physical changes affect the person emotionally, mentally and spiritually. The second problem is economic issues. Many elderly lack financial means to carry on. The social security check is sometimes all they have to make it month from month. These issues, compounded with physical decline, loneliness, loss of a spouse and lack of self esteem, can become overbearing on the elderly. In this regard, the elderly need to be given hope, love, and companionship. They need to be visited and cared for. This is the duty of the church and the counselor.
In conclusion, scripture speaks of the elderly as sources of wisdom. As a younger population, we must give respect and honor to the previous generations contributions to society, however, if we do not care for their spiritual, mental and physical needs, their wisdom will be lost.  If you are interested in the program, please review the Christian Counseling Program.

By Mark Moran, MA

Demonic Activity and How a Christian Counselor Can Help

 Christian Counseling and Spiritual Warfare with Satan

Christian spiritual advisors should be well versed in metaphysics. In their dealings of God and angels they must also unfortunately be prepared to deal with dark side metaphysics as well. Like the dark side of human nature, angels also have a dark chapter in their history. This dark side includes the fall of a select few who rejected God and chose to rule in Hell rather than serve in Heaven. This is the study of the fallen angels or demons. Unlike the love angels have for man, demons are driven by hate and jealousy of mankind. They have failed their test to remain faithful to the Lord. Unlike human nature which is fallen and open to numerous mistakes, the angelic nature possesses super intelligence and can foresee consequences more clear than the human intellect. Human nature is far less intelligent and unable to comprehend the magnitude of decisions. Angels, however, understand these decisions with far more clarity. Hence this superior intelligence produced an angelic fall that was once, final and fixed. The single choice to serve God was rewarded with paradise while the single choice to rebel against God was punished via Hell.

As stated in Scripture, Michael and the good angels cast Lucifer and the evil angels into Hell. While Scripture is brief about this battle, one clearly understands that Lucifer or Satan became the arch nemesis of humanity. His sole purpose is to defile God’s creation to spite God. Which brings one to various theological questions? Why did Lucifer rebel? What is Hell?

Lucifer’s Choice to Rule in Hell rather than Serve in Heaven

Lucifer’s choice presents a dilemma for many concerning the fact a good God would allow evil to ever taint his creation. Augustine argued that the allowance of free will permitted the existence of evil. God did not create evil, but evil was an absence of that goodness. God allowed the chance of deviation from good because He valued the beauty of choice. The choice that makes His creation free, the choice that makes His creation to be made in His own image and likeness. This deficiency that existed in Lucifer was attributed to pride the chief vice and root of all sin. Lucifer chose his own will over the will of God’s and refused to serve. He found more joy in his own inherent beauty that in the awesome nature of God. Some theologians have even speculated that his rebellion was also related to the thought that the Son would take upon human flesh and he would be forced to kneel before human flesh. Of course this speculation refers to a theology that supports the thought that the Son would have become man even if Adam and Eve had never sinned. Regardless, the primary element of the story is Lucifer refused to serve and because of that evil entered into the world. That same evil corrupted his beauty and transformed his inner light into a black energy void of goodness. He and his followers retained their angelic nature that was inherent to them, but their essence was corrupted and disfigured. They were now fallen angels or demons.
Scripture also speaks of them being cast into Hell there to suffer for eternity. Did Hell exist prior to this? Does God send his fallen creation to Hell? It is hard to theologically define a metaphysical place but what one does know is that Hell is a   place void of God. Whether it is an actual place or a state of existence is not known, but its reality is a dogmatic belief of Christianity. I think one can logically conclude that Hell was not created by God originally but was a place “created” by Lucifer and his legions that refused to worship God and refused to repent. The reality that their own choice stripped them of the chance of the Beatific Vision is one of their greatest torments. What is most ironic is the pride that sent them there shall forever keep them there. There persistent pride prevents them from ever begging forgiveness. They realize the justice of their fate but in their spite grow in greater hate even though their sentence is just. In this misery they lash out against God and curse Him and all his creation.

This lashing out against God’s people was seen throughout the Scriptures; The story of the snake in Genesis, Lucifer and his hate of Job, Christ’s battle with Lucifer in the desert, Christ’s numerous exorcisms, and finally the numerous mentions of Satan in the Book of Revelation. The terrifying reality is these creatures exist and they want to harm humanity. As a counselor, it is important to understand their powers and their intents. One cannot deny the devil’s existence but realize he does exist. This is not to support over indulgence in attributing maladies to satanic influence, but it does support a healthy realization that some “mental problems” may not be mental but originate from a spiritual source not from God. I will conclude this section with a few examples of satanic activity in the world and how one as a Christian counselor can identify these presences and rate them in magnitude.

Demonic Activity On Earth

The most common demonic activity on earth is the fundamental temptation. While the flesh is inclined to its passions which we call concupiscence, some temptations do indeed originate from the satanic realm; Those whispers from the little devil with the pitch fork on our left shoulder, compelling us to tell that white lie while “funny” are not too amusing when we realize the nature of the entity that is urging one to commit certain sins. In fact certain demons are attracted to certain sins and find joy in the committal of those actions. They merely need a human agent. The greatest goal is when the action no longer becomes an isolated sin, but a vice and habitual. In many ways, one’s own fallen human nature partake in vice without the hiss of the devil in one’s ear. I feel “The Screwtape Letters” by C.S. Lewis is a masterpiece in investigating the whispers of the evil one and how without even an apparition he can control so many souls-souls that may even deny his very existence.
The second level of demonic presence is Infestation. This usually deals with demonic activity or evil spirits of the departed. Obviously, there would be a difference in these haunting if one is simply dealing with a spirit of a person rather a demonic entity, but the fright that accompanies these haunting is definitely intense. One who is in-tune with the evil that is present can sometimes even sense the evil that permeates the air. Infestations usually deal with places or objects. The spiritual decay that surrounds these temporal things is an attachment that can only be severed through exorcism and multiple blessings.

The third level of demonic activity is Obsession. Obsession deals with a demonic entity that has found a close attachment to person. Apparitions may take place, visions, and in some cases torment. Obsession can be a precursor to Possession, but in some cases it can be the rage of the enemy upon a saintly figure. Again, if you are counseling someone who is experiencing these apparitions and science or medicine cannot explain it, prayer, fasting, and if necessary additional help from the Church may be needed.

Spiritual Direction and Exorcism

 The final level of demonic activity is Possession. Possession can be imperfect and perfect. Perfect possession is the possession one rarely hears about or sees because the host is perfectly content with his demonic counterpart. There is no struggle but open acceptance. This possession can be sensed by Christians with “spiritual vision”. These possessions are usually found in the occult, Wicca, the Church of Satan and its subdivision, the Temple of Set. It is very important to understand these black religions. While many disavow the belief in Satan, except the Temple of Set, they are all satanic in origin. The Church of Satan worships self, and extols the angel of light, Lucifer, supposedly in figurative terms. I do not personally believe they merely worship self but also Satan. Wicca and many occult religions also would deny the belief in the devil but would contend they worship the earth, a neo-pantheism. Yet as Christians, we all realize that the pagan gods of old were merely demons masquerading as gods. The Temple of Set actually proclaimed worship of the angel Lucifer when they subdivided from the Church of Satan. They felt the need to openly admit their worship of the devil instead of pretending to be a secular humanistic club for narcissistic self love. In the end, their practices reveal what they are. Their black magic, their invocations, their witchcraft, their spells, and their curses all point to a master who is not Christ, but the great deceiver, Lucifer.
Imperfect possession is the next type of possession. This possession is not wanted. It presents a battle between the soul and demon possessing the body. Christ, himself, cast out many demons throughout Scripture and laid the groundwork for His Church to continue in this warfare against Satan. Christ emphasized two things. First, it must be done in His name and second, it must accompany fasting and spiritual cleansing. While Hollywood has turned exorcism and possession into a horror production with extreme visual effects and outrageous story plots, one need to only experience the most simple of possessions to find enough terror to the last them a life time. In Malachi Martin’s book, “Hostage to the Devil”, five true cases of exorcism are relayed. Transcripts and audio from them are replicated in the pages. Naturally this creates a more than “R” rated script but it presents the foul nature of the demonic and the seriousness of spiritual cleanliness. The book also presents in-depth analysis on demonic activity and covers the Roman Catholic ritual of Exorcism. Many of the souls in this book are victim of Satan via Ouija Boards, occult meditation, new age meditation, or divining with mediums. Yet unlike perfect possession, the souls cry out for help. In these cries, one can experience, the speaking of tongues, superior strength of the person, unexplained wounds and markings, bleeding of the walls and cold change of temperature.
While any Christian can perform an exorcism by following the formula, it sometimes takes many hours for the demon to finally reveal himself and leave the body. This is why it is not recommended that one attempt this alone or without a praying Christian community. Roman Catholics have used the ancient ritual of Exorcism which has a very high success rate but even the Catholic priest does not come alone but is accompanied by friends and members of the community to pray and try to subdue the demonic entity. As a counselor it is extremely important if you encounter someone who claims to be possessed that you follow the proper channels and guidelines. The Rite of Exorcism should be performed by professionals with experience and should not be attempted until all scientific and medical explanations have been exhausted. This is not to say the simple Christian with faith and Christ cannot cast out such demons, but it can still pose a spiritual and physical threat to oneself. Realize, these entities are extremely powerful and if you arouse their anger, in their free will, they will come after you as anyone else. Great faith and sanctity are a pre-requisite.
I believe sincerely that spiritual warfare with the demonic entities is a daily occurrence. This war, however, is not only limited to the fallen angels, but their disciples on earth as well. While one prays for these deceived individuals one cannot lower their defenses because they can present a very dangerous risk to other people. Obviously there is a physical risk with such dangerous individuals, but I would rather speak of the spiritual risks. Some people can fall under great demonic oppression merely by curses and focusing. If you ever have a client and he or she speaks of his or her past involving Wicca, witchcraft or the Church of Satan, their escape from the cult may have come with a price. The occult numerously casts  
curses upon people that result in increased demonic activity in the life of the cursed individual. This leads to “bad luck”. It is not magic, but merely incantations of evil upon another individual. The believer is fortified with God, his angel, and grace, however, those with less spiritual strength can become prey to these predators.

Tools of a Christian Spiritual Advisor

As a counselor, you must be their strength and via faith in Christ, prayer and fasting, cast the curse back to its origination. The power of Christ is amazing in these instances. A pray, a laying of hands, a call to St. Michael, or a blessing of the home or person can be amazing in its power over these “magicians”. Within Roman Catholic circles, the brown scapular, the St. Benedict medal, and other prayers are also useful tools against such evil doers. Realize, even the least powerful angel is more powerful than Lucifer. If armed with the angelic hosts, the power of the Holy Spirit, and Christ’s name one can help the tortured soul who has become preyed upon. Still, in some cases, the Lord permits certain evils. Why? It is beyond our comprehension. We can speculate for his greater glory? Or is it a confrontation that must be dealt with to strengthen the soul in faith and hope in Christ’s power? Certainly, if one is victim to these occurrences, while frightened, how could they then doubt God’s existence? If the devil exists, certainly does God and that should give one great joy.
In conclusion, as a  Christian counselor, one should take great honor in this spiritual combat. However, one should also be a wise soldier and not fall victim to pride in his battle with the dark one. Our power over demons is not inherent to our own attributes but only via the Blood of Christ. Without Christ, they would certainly devour us.
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By Mark Moran, MA

How to Write a Grief Sympathy Letter or Note

 Dealing with the Grief of Others

A sympathy letter is a formal and sincere way of sending your condolences to a grieving family member, friend, or colleague. It is usually sent or emailed during the first few days after the death of an individual. Sending a sympathy letter is a great way to empathize and give comfort to a person who has just lost a loved one.  Dealing with grief is a challenging journey. Those who grieve are generally very appreciative of the notes of condolences they receive.

 How to Begin the Letter

A grief sympathy letter often opens up with the writer acknowledging the death of the person. The writer may do this with lines such as “I am so sorry to hear of your loss,” or “I was shocked to hear about X’s death.” If the writer is writing on behalf of a group or company, he or she may write something like this: “I am writing on behalf of Y company or X’s friends to express our condolences for X’s passing.”  These lines not only serve as an appropriate opening for the letter, but also set the tone for the entire sympathetic theme.

 Acknowledge the Loss

After acknowledging the death of the person and the loss of the grieving party, the writer then expresses sympathy in the succeeding sentence or paragraph. The writer may say “Please find comfort in the love and good memories we have of X,” or “I want to express my sincerest sympathy for your sad loss.”  In this part of the letter, the writer condoles with the grieving party and offers words of comfort to the bereaved family.

Share Wonderful Memories of the Deceased

A sympathy letter should also have a few lines about the deceased person as described by the writer. These lines usually enumerate the good qualities that the writer admires and will miss about the deceased. The writer may say, “X was such a sweet and hardworking colleague, and I will miss him dearly,” if the deceased was a colleague, or “X was a sincere, loyal, and trusting friend,” if the deceased was a friend. In the next line, the writer shares a wonderful memory of the deceased to the grieving party. This is an opportunity to highlight the good qualities of the person who has passed away. The writer may cite how he or she met the deceased, their friendship, working relationship, or how the late person spoke affectionately about his or her family.

How to End the Letter

Grieving families will appreciate hearing words of love from just about anyone, particularly from people they know. This may be as simple as words of encouragement. One rule of thumb, though- never make any offer that you can’t fulfill. Some lines that writers can use for this part are, “If there is anything that I can do, I am just a phone call away,” or “Don’t hesitate to call me up if you need anything from me during these tough times.”  As a closing line, writers may end their letter with phrases such as “love,” “truly yours,” and “affectionately yours.”
Here’s a sample of a short but sincere sympathy letter:
“I am saddened by X’s death. No words are adequate to describe just how special a person he was. He always had kind words to say about everyone in the office. He also often told us how he loved you and his children. If there’s anything we can do for you, just give us a call. Our thoughts are with you and your family during these difficult times. Sincerely, John.”
Oftentimes, when one is faced with a friend who is grieving, it is hard to know what to do. Knowing how to write a formal sympathy letter can help one organize one’s thoughts and feelings in a coherent manner. For someone who is mourning the loss of a loved one, reading a simple sympathy letter is sure to make the loss a little easier to bear.
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Rev. Neil King Answers What Christian Counseling Is and Become Certified in Christian Counseling

What is Christian Counseling and Become Certified in Christian Counseling?

Rev. Neil King attempts to answer this query in this short video.  In it he gives his opinion on what Christian Counseling is and how one should approach life via a Christian view. You can become certified in christian counseling to start by reviewing.

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Grief Counseling Certification: When Grief Happens

Grief Counseling Certification

Grief strikes everyone every day. It is unfortunately a natural element of life that many would like to wish away. However, if one does not develop the necessary coping skills with loss, one’s life will become a dangerous road of long depressions and unhealthy psychological reactions to loss. The coping skills necessary in dealing with loss are as pivotal to existence as any other coping skills. While there is a process in mourning loss, the coping skills help one to go through the natural phases of grief. Grief counselors are especially trained to help people get through the day to day cycle of grief as a result of loss. AIHCP offers certifications in grief for qualified individuals. If you are fit the mold for a grief counselor, you should consider becoming certified. By merely taking the four required courses you can become certified in grief and also open to other specialties in pet loss, Christian grief and adolescent grief.
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Colleges Now Offering Hypnotherapy Courses

Hypnosis is not about magic and on stage antics but it is a serious field that involves detailed procedures. In order to relieve stress, create new habits and eliminate bad habits, hypnosis cannot be a snap of the fingers, brainwashing procedure but must follow a disciplined and scientific approach to the brain. In true hypnosis, there is silence, peace, and a gradual relaxing of the conscious mind. Through a trained and certified hypnotherapist, one is able to reach a level of subconscious that is between sleep and awake. In this state, suggestions to the subconscious can begin to take root in the mind. Many professional organizations offer hypnotherapy courses and certifications for qualified health care professionals. There are some schools that offer online and distance education courses. Such programs generally provide video and audio training materials with frequent instructor contact. Other programs are offered in colleges and universities with students working directly with a qualified instructor. There are many education opportunities today to study hypnotherapy.

Legal Nurse Consultant As Expert Witness

While the primary vocational call of a nurse is to provide direct care to patients at the bedside, many nurses are hoping to enhance their career scope and enter into other exciting nursing fields beyond the bedside. Legal nurses have the ability to work on legal issues that pertain to nursing and also to many other health care professionals. A major role of a legal nurse consultant  is to provide expert witness testimony. In such cases, this nurse expert will actually develop a case related to officially recognized standards of nursing care. In the expert role, the nurse will then present the standards of care in the court room and demonstrate to the jury just how and why there were deviations from the standards of care. Why this type of work is research intensive and professionally challenging, the high benefits of having a nurse testify in a case has been established. Besides having skills and knowledge in issue related to nursing malpractice, the nurse must also have considerable expertise in the clinical practice area of the nursing specialty for which the malpractice case is being heard. Nurse expert witnesses are in high demand today.

legal nurse consultant
legal nurse consultant

Counseling the Elderly

The elderly are supposed to be paradigms and models of virtue. Their age should be seen as an accomplishment and they in turn should be revered and respected. However, in this fallen world, this is not the case and many elderly are mistreated. In some cases, the elderly even fail to fulfill their own expectations. The Christian counselor is called to help all but the elderly deserve

special attention. They need help in adjusting and accepting new roles. They need physical and mental care as loneliness, illness, lack of self esteem, and loss of friends mount each day. With good counseling, they can understand their new role and proudly adjust as leaders and elders of the community. Christian counselors have the opportunity to help the elderly adjust so that they can share their wisdom with the previous generation. If you are interested in Christian counseling and how it can affect not only the elderly but all age groups, you should consider the Christian spiritual counseling certification at AIHCP.

Earn a Holistic Nursing Certification

Holistic Nursing for Nurses

Ideas of nursing are dominated by western medicine. While these ideas are good for acute problems and ailments, an eastern or more holistic approach is becoming more widely acceptable as well. Within the holistic sphere, a more natural response to illness is employed. Herbs and other oils are utilized by the holistic nurse in care for the patient. While holistic medicine is very useful when used in collaboration with western medicine, the primary benefit of holistic practices is in prevention and dealing with chronic illness. If you are a registered nurse and are interested in becoming more aware of holistic methods, consider becoming certified as a Holistic nurse with the AIHCP. By taking the core courses in holistic nursing, a qualified RN can become eligible for a holistic nursing certification for three years. This certification will give the western nurse the eastern knowledge to become a more well rounded health professional in areas of treatment.

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