Christian Ecumenism or Indifferentism?

Christian Counseling and Ecumenism:  What Type of Dialogue

How should Christians dialogue with the world?
How should Christians dialogue with the world?
Christian Counseling and Christian Dialogue with the world involves a sharing of ideas and values, it does not mean denying core beliefs of Christ or trading them for other ideals.  In essence, many mistake Christian ecumenism as indifferentism.  People interpret that since Christians are open to dialogue, then they are willing to compromise or water down.   When people discover that this dialogue is not about compromise but sharing the truth, then Christians are accused of evangelization under the guise of ecumenism.
The problem lies in what Christian Ecumenism really is.  It is a dialogue with the world, but it is not a compromise of truth.  It also is not direct evangelization but a more passive form.  A form where the Christian does not come as a missionary but a brother.  The dialogue seeks to find common cultural and religious ideals that can begin a relationship of understanding that seeks unity instead of division.  Christian Ecumenism looks to unite all of God’s creatures and hopes to expose the truth of Christ to other brothers and sisters as equal partners in God’s world.
So many past images have existed where missionaries treated the indigenous people as savages.  While both sides have their stories from history, Christian Ecumenism looks to other people as enlightened and equal in human dignity.  While Christian Ecumenism can never lower Christ to Buddha or Mohammad, we can find value in some of the moral teachings in our open dialogue in understanding other people.
Christians involved in ecumenism do not seek to convert via debate but via example.  The open dialogue allows Christians an opportunity to share the gospel in an non-evasive way via example.  Through interaction, the ideal is not to weaken one’s faith but to understand others and to show others the value of Christ through action.
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Mark Moran, MA

Counseling for Christians and the Mystery of Vocation

Counseling for Christians: Vocation

Our Lord will guide us where we need to be.  If you would like to learn more about counseling for Christians, then please review our program
Our Lord will guide us where we need to be. If you would like to learn more about counseling for Christians, then please review our program
In counseling for Christians, many spiritual children seek answers to their future and life with God.  What is their vocation? Vocation-what is it to you?  First understand our reason for existence—it is to know, love and serve God.  That is our primary vocation.  We tend sometimes to become lost in our secondary vocation–which is how our talents will serve the mystical Body of Christ.  Sometimes we become so lost and concerned with it, we lose sight of our primary vocation.  We become like Martha, concerned about so many things.
Instead, let us focus on our vocational call for today.  To know, love and serve God.   To offer to him today, our crosses, sufferings, joys, successes and daily duty.  This was the secret of St. Teresa–to make our daily life a prayer, whether at work or in play.
In this companionship and partnership, Christ walks with us everyday in our vocation and will lead us to where he wishes us to be–whether religious or lay.
Ultimately our secondary vocation is our choice.  Christ may wish us to be this or that, but we may go a different route in our options, but he will bless our choices and still love us unconditionally–albeit, if we choose Christ’s use of us, we ill always find greater joy.
By focusing on our primary vocation, we have a greater chance of fulfilling what is truly meant for us and our life on earth because through love of Christ, our wills shall become one.
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Mark Moran, MA

Counseling for Christians: Living in Purity in an Impure World

The article, “Living in Purity in an Impure World”, by Dena Johnson Martin states

“I’ve spent a lot of time lately contemplating sexual purity. This takes on a whole new meaning now that I’m divorced.”

American Institute Health Care Professionals‘s insight:
Counseling for Christians battling impurity is difficult. But where there is a will, there is a way through the grace of the Holy Spirit
Counseling for Christians battling impurity is difficult. But where there is a will, there is a way through the grace of the Holy Spirit

Counseling for Christians after divorce should also work towards helping people adjust to post marriage life and issues of sexual purity.  It is very hard to adjust to a life of purity after having a sexual life right before you at all times.

Counseling for Christians most often includes advice on how to remain pure and enhance this virtue.

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Counseling for Christians: The Dangers of Vengeance and the Mercy of the Sacred Heart of Jesus

I Thought They Said an Eye for an Eye? Christian Counseling Responses

And Christ told Peter that those who live by the sword shall die by the sword and after that, they apprehended Christ.  This story in Scripture retells the illegal arrest of Christ and how he reprimanded Peter for seeking violence.  Lost in the confusion, Our Lord gently restored an ear to the temple guard whose ear had been cut off by Peter.  This is the love Christ demands and the same demand Christian counselors must echo in their counseling services for those who are obsessed with the demon of vengeance.
Christ told everyone to love one’s enemies and in the Our Father commanded us to forgive others their trespasses if we wished to receive forgiveness for our own sins.  Yet what a 360 degree change from the Old Testament.  The words of Christ clearly state to turn the other cheek, but the words found in the Old Testament seek an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.  Obviously Christ did not come to destroy the law but to fulfill it and in fulfilling it, he emphasized the misinterpretation by the Jewish population of this vague quote. People thought it was a personal law that applied to them instead of being an institutional law of the state. Christ corrected and reminded them that is law was not meant at the personal level and that one is to not seek vengeance but to turn the other cheek.  The eye for an eye was merely a law found within the structure of judicial ruling.

What is Justice?

Thomas Hobbes and the Social Contract
Thomas Hobbes and the Social Contract
In man’s earliest existence, justice was not disturbed by a neutral and authoritative third party, but was sought by the individual.  If someone stole one’s cattle, the owner had to find compensation by taking it back within whatever measures necessary.  There was a fine line between what was justice and what was vengeance.  This “wild, wild west” mentality for cavemen created a very unstable environment for society.  Social philosophers, Hobbes and Rosseau described this era as a dangerous one.  People eventually banded together and formed “social contracts”.  Under these contracts, people banded together for security and in banding together, they designated social justice to an executive branch of authority that would preserve and enforce the laws for the individual.  Through this contract, individuals gave up their right for personal retribution and gave it to the state.
While this is merely a social explanation of the eventual civilization of man, one can see how justice against evil became a social correction and no longer an individual crusade.  One of the most compelling argument for this form of justice was that it removed emotion from the apprehension of an evil doer.  No longer would a cattle thief face the hand and the rage of the owner, but instead would face the non-subjective hands of society’s enforcers.  This removed vengeance from the equation and allowed lady liberty to wear the blind fold of objectivity.  Hence justice is a proportional virtue that gives to one what is truly his but within an acceptable way by a rightful authority blind to emotion and self interest.
Christ teaches one not to seek justice through one’s own hand but through the state.  In individual matters, we are to turn the other cheek but through the judicial process, we may seek an “eye for an eye” in regards to compensation.

The Demon of Revenge

Yet many are consumed with a passion for revenge at all costs.  Some pursuits of vengeance are trivial while others tempt many to put on a “cape and cowl” and seek justice on the streets.  Are we not rightly incensed when we see pedafiles prey upon our children or see crimes against humanity through genocide?  This is a just rage, one that our Lord does share. Good men must stand up to these atrocities or the world will burn when they do nothing, but it must be done within the will of God and through legitimate authority.
Counseling one bent on revenge is difficult.  Yet the initial emotion of  anger (even just anger) to seek out someone who has hurt someone’s family is usually like all emotions–temporary.  It may even be healthy to let off some “steam” in the safe confines of counseling.   One, however,  should monitor closely a person who shows high traces of continued rage over a course of time.   While monitoring, make risk assessments, similar to suicide assessments regarding how well thought out revenge is and if it is doable.  If you feel there is a true chance of harm to anyone, you may have to find intervention at higher levels through family, church or authorities.

The Sacred Heart of our Lord
The Sacred Heart of our Lord. Also if you are interested in education and counseling for Christians, then please review
Christian Counselors should offer soothing thoughts that vengeance belongs to the Lord and that his justice will be manifested especially to the unrepented.  Emphasize the beauty of the Sacred Heart who has been wounded by our sins and yet still forgives.  Also emphasize to one who is hardened with thoughts of revenge that the Sacred Heart of Jesus offers mercy to everyone. Yet remind him also, Our Lord will come as a judge one day and his mercy will not be an option for the truly evil.  In addition to this, emphasize the ideal of karma.  While a Eastern ideal, it is still true that evil actions produce evil returns.  Through these thoughts, hopefully one can defuse the emotion of personal revenge and help the person hand over their vengeance to God who is all merciful but also all just.
Ultimately, we have all had mean things done to us, some more extreme or terrible than others.  While sometimes it is emotionally healthy for us to voice it and let it out, we must realize that the negative energy of hate will consume us and destroy us.  It will drive out the charity of the Holy Spirit and allow the  devil to consume us with hate.  The evil done will  become an obsession that will eventually  lead one to demise.  How many “white whales” do we wish to kill at the expense of our own life?  Will we like Captain Ahab, lose our own life in a distorted trek for vengeance?
Ahab's revenge led to his own demise
Ahab’s revenge led to his own demise
Again we should turn to Christ and remember that he forgives us of our sins.  Our sins crucified him and the sins committed against us, also crucified him.  Yet Christ also carries our slights from others on his shoulder and forgives them.  If Christ can forgive us, and those who have hurt us, then why can we not also say “Father forgive them for they know not what they do”
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Mark Moran, MA, GC-C, SCC-C