By Lucy Peters,
The International Alliance of Carer Organizations (IACO) estimates that there are over 63 million carers worldwide. Caregivers are growing in number because of several factors such as aging population, increased life expectancy, onset of chronic diseases, mental health challenges, and disability. Whether in formal or home settings, carers play a vital role in providing precious support to individuals who need it. Unfortunately, the increasing demands of caregiving put a heavy toll on the physical, emotional, and financial well-being of carers. Hence, it is critical to balance the needs of caregivers without sacrificing patient care.
Focus on Self-Care
Family caregiving is on the rise worldwide with around 100 million US adults acting as caregivers for a child, parent, or other relative. According to the Family Caregiver Alliance, nearly 1 in 4 carers devotes 41 hours or more per week providing care. Often, it is an unpaid role, but carers perform a wide range of duties for people who need help due to age, illness, or a handicap. Thus, it is vital for carers to ensure their own physical and mental wellbeing because caregiving is a demanding task. In this regard, take regular breaks throughout week and weekends, scheduling ‘me time’ even if it is just 20 minutes or less. Dedicating time for yourself is crucial for your wellbeing and your ability to provide effective care. When you’re well-rested and emotionally balanced, you are better prepared to manage the challenges of caregiving with patience and compassion. Self-care also improves focus and concentration enabling you to provide better care and respond efficiently to your patient’s needs.
Furthermore, improve mental and emotional resilience by doing deep breathing and meditation exercises. If possible, go for a short walk or engage in some gentle exercise to boost mood and energy levels. According to studies, spending time in nature improves mood and wellbeing. Taking a breather can also make a huge difference to your mood. For example, even if you are doing admin work in the study, spending time in an eco-friendly home office with natural light, plants, and a comfortable chair can reduce stress and improve focus during the week. Natural elements like plants in your home office can improve air quality and create a calming environment reducing stress levels.
Communicate Boundaries
As a caregiver, it is vital to maintain your well-being or you will be ineffective in providing care to your patient. Hence, identify your boundaries and establish what time of the day is essential for your own needs. Even if you only need a few hours on a Saturday or Sunday to recharge, tell this to other members of the family. Knowing your emotional limits determines when you need a break. It’s crucial, too to recognize your physical limitations to avoid overexertion. Therefore, be direct and honest about your needs and communicate them clearly to the care recipient, family members, and other relevant parties. Explain in a firm yet kind manner why these boundaries are important for your own well-being and the long-term sustainability of your caregiving duties.
However, you should also be flexible and realistic in understanding the needs of others while still preserving your core boundaries. Work with others to find solutions that meet everyone’s needs. Schedule regular family meetings to discuss care needs, coordinate calendars, and share responsibilities. Be clear in defining roles and responsibilities ensuring everyone understands their contributions. Make sure to open communication lines with healthcare professional to ensure coordinated care and address any problem.
Plan Weekend Routines
There are things that you can do during the week to free up time for yourself on the weekend. To do this, some prioritizing and planning must be done for a basic weekend schedule that will include essential care tasks but also personal time. Therefore, identify indispensable weekend care tasks such as medication administration, meal prep, and personal care. Design a flexible schedule that allows for adjustments based on the care needs of the patient and your own energy levels. Include ‘buffer time’ in your schedule to accommodate unexpected events or changes in the care recipient’s needs. To illustrate, there might be unexpected emergencies, behavioral changes, or unforeseen complications that will disrupt plans and schedules. Buffer time permits adjustments and prevents feelings of being overwhelmed. In short, knowing that you have some flexibility in your schedule can reduce stress and anxiety making it easier to handle unexpected challenges.
Where possible, identify and delegate tasks that other family members, friends, or even hired help can do. Minimize weekend cooking by planning meals in advance, cooking in batches, or using meal delivery services. Rested and rejuvenated family carers are in a better position to cope with the challenges of caregiving with more patience and empathy.
Use Respite Care Services
Consider tapping the services of professional caregivers for a few hours or a day on the weekend to provide respite care. Reach out to your local social service organizations to find the best respite care providers for your patients. Speak to other caregivers, healthcare professionals, and social workers for recommendations on reputable providers. You should also consider the care recipient’s needs, cognitive abilities, and personality if they will be comfortable with respite care. It’s also possible to arrange for a short trial period with a provider to see how the patient adjusts and how you feel about the arrangement.
Family and friends who are willing to step in can also get involved. If there are options for adult day care and if appropriate for the family member’s situation, use these care centers that provide social activities and care. Adult day care offers a variety of activities to help maintain cognitive function. In addition, there are physical activities and recreational games to improve mobility and overall health. Not only do you get a well-deserved break, but the patient can also benefit from meeting other people outside of the home setting.
Look Up Community Resources
Resources offered by communities are crucial in providing support to carers enabling them to continue caregiving while maintaining their own well-being. Access to community resources reduces burden, improves wellbeing, increases confidence, and enhances care quality. Some resources may offer financial help for caregiving expenses such as home modifications or respite care. Community resources can play an important role in policy advocacy supporting carers by pushing for increased funding to support caregiver programs and so on.
In addition to adult care centers and respite care facilities, in-home care services may also be available so that carers can attend to personal needs, run errands, or simply take a break to prevent burnout. Furthermore, practical assistance may be offered such as home care services, meal deliveries, and transportation. Support groups exist to provide a safe place to share experiences, connect with others, and receive emotional support including counselling. There may also be information on legal and financial assistance as well as training for caregiving skills and stress/burnout management.
Reclaiming every weekend may seem like an insurmountable challenge, but even small breaks can have a significant impact on your well-being. By practicing self-care, planning weekend routines, communicating effectively, making use of community resources, and using respite care services, it is possible to recharge so that you can provide effective and sustainable care.
Author bio
Lucy is a freelance writer who enjoys contributing to a range of publications, both in print and online. She spent almost a decade working in the care sector with vulnerable people before taking a step back to start a family and now focuses on her first love of writing.
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